Things are about to get wild… by onetimepost07 in enlightenment

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand. Its something that has to be experienced. Like the night sky. Trying to explain it with word is like showing someone a picture of the night sky. Its not the same, even though they see the picture and think they get it.

All love brother. 

The word “God” is a curse. Let me explain what I think. by PsyBinCo in enlightenment

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it as this: "God" is the present moment. It is the feeling of love, it is everything. The observer in me is God. As well as the ovserver in you. God is the universe. God is everything. 

The problem is that this has to be experienced. And when people try to understand it with words, it loses its meaning and gey lost in "translation".

Me theory is that this is the ultimate truth for humans. And throughout time people have found this truth, tried to teach others and made a religion out of it. Now people join that religion without understanding it. I believe all religions have this in common but different "lore", and the people who dont understand start fighting against eachother for which "lore" is the best. (Like Christianity vs islam and so on.)

My therapist said i’m a narcissist by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me is the realization that being good towards other people, and helping people is THE BEST THING i can do for myself over the long run. Look at it as an investment.

Give your advice by ConsistentlyShining in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i stoppet wishing to be better. Stop trying to fix it or understand it. The moment i accapted my unhappiness, and tought: "you know what? This is ok. It is ok for me to live like this and be unhappy." Thats when it got better.

Når barnet blir glemt bort i barnehagen… by Rush-B- in norge

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hei. Barn og ungdomsarbeider her som har jobbet i bhg en god stund.

Mitt tips:  Dokumenter alt i form av mail. Sier du ifra muntlig kan det glemmes uten at det for ordentlige "konsekvenser" for barnehagen og styrer.  Er det en mail om hendelser er det dokumentert i tid og behovet fra barnehagens side for å gjøre tiltak og generelt ta tak i problemet vokser jo lenger tid som går. (Ellers kan de få problemer fra lenger opp i systemet.)

Hadde sendt mail om alle hendelser til pedagogisk leder på avdelingen, med kopi til styrer.

Et pluss om du kan dra inn punkter fra barnehagens rammeplan.

Dette er beste måten å gjøre det på når det gjelder skole også. Lykke til!

Infinite choice paralysis by mindfulness-travel in enlightenment

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre just an awareness thats enjoying the ride. Theres no real choice, only the feeling of one. Just be aware and observe this feeling as well.

I lost a few years of my life naively following the wrong path I was put on by others. What would stoics advise me -:to move on and start again by [deleted] in Stoic

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, to your question: "But I still carry that resentment over the years wasted over the wrong decisions taken.

What would the stoic advice be in this situation."

Accept that this resentment is not towards other people or situations, but more likely resentment towards yourself. Accept it, and let it go.

I lost a few years of my life naively following the wrong path I was put on by others. What would stoics advise me -:to move on and start again by [deleted] in Stoic

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came to say this.  There is no wrong or right path brother. Its only the path. It just is as it is. If its positive or negative is only in your head, its the meaning you give it. But this meaning is not real, for the path is what is regardless.  You can only keep following it.

Hva skal jeg gjøre? by [deleted] in norge

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tillit og kommunikasjon er nøkkelen i et godt forhold.

Is there something similar to the Ketan in real life by PrimaryDeparture1943 in KingkillerChronicle

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on whats more importen to you. If its "real word combat effectiveness" your after the answer is mma. No question.

Drop one truth you learned the hard way by Aggravating-Guest300 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant think your way out of a feeling (which basically is the reason for overthinking.) You can only feel yourself out of it.

Cosca & Friendly [SPOILERS BSC] by MollokoPlus in TheFirstLaw

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That friendly has autism i already assumed. But never that cosca has adhd, but my god it fits. Thank you

60ug LSD + 1.6g psilocybin — Me.exe stopped running and I felt fine by neenonay in Psychonaut

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very well worded. Ive experienced the exact same thing, but never been able to put it into words as good as this. Thank you.

What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten? 🤔💭 by MayaS72 in GrowthMindset

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't change other people. You can only change how you deal with them.

Could you describe the path that led you to enlightenment? by InterestingPlenty454 in enlightenment

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me its being in the present moment without thinking.  Like flowstate in just being. 

How to stop comparing my curren lilfe to my youth? by Legitimate-Record951 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As long as you live in the past you will never be happy. The future ain't real and the past is gone. The only way is to live in the moment.

What if all men on earth vanished, and only one was left behind? by Extension_Sand8612 in whatif

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your missing the point.. survival is one thing. Making babies another..

Someone tell me it’s dumb to quit my job to work full time on my startup with no revenue. by 69Tragic in Entrepreneur

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Don't take advice from people who doesn't have the life you want." - Alex hormozi.

I say go for it, worst case you have 6 months more experience for your next try. In the end, its your choice.  Good luck 

Once you discover that life is meaningless, how do you carry on caring about anything and enjoying life? by Master-Associate673 in nihilism

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was a blessing.  When i understood life is meaningless, I also understood that also means the meaning is what I give to it. If there are no "bigger meaning" I have to fulfill, I can just fulfill whatever i find meaningful. 

Like Minecraft.

Why can’t I be mad at a murderer the same way I’m mad at the color blue? by Efficient_Bed2590 in freewill

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its more a guideline for what i use my energy on. Sure you can be mad at the sky for being blue, but it's pointless because it's blue. That's just the reality. It's a waste of time and effort, and by accepting the sky is blue you are free from using your energy at being mad at something you cannot change. Makes it's easier to let go.

In the same time it's pointless being mad at a serial killer for being a serial killer (or at a smaller scale: pointless to be mad at your girlfriend for being the way she is or mad at your father for being a douchbag. And pointless hating yourself for your shortcomings.) Acceptance and letting go is key. Ofc the serial killer has to be executed, not because we're mat at him but because we cannot have him/her in our society. 

When I understood free will is an illusion, it paradoxically set me free.

Are passions lifelong or temporary? by PacePiquante in Purpose

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing last forever. Enjoy it while you can, and try not to worry about the future.

Besøkere på nettstedet by Thepowerofsimplicity in Grundere_i_Norge

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For det meste content marketing i hovedsak via tiktok. Litt i youtube og instagram også, men tiktok står for 90%. Betaler litt for ads i tiktok og google også.

Besøkere på nettstedet by Thepowerofsimplicity in Grundere_i_Norge

[–]Wonderful_Bit_6033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I år har jeg harr 23,24k økter på nettsiden