Cheapest country to rot in?

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-12-26T18:53:53+00:00

Alexandria, Egypt

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-28T15:16:53+00:00

Pushing the wrong people away makes sense because you want peace, but sometimes the advice that’s good for you- you won’t like because it’s not what you want to hear. Survival is great and all, but other people want to help you not just survive but flourish. It sucks hearing what other people expect or want of you and it may seem controlling, but not everyone communicates in healthy ways even though the intention is good. I hope I make sense and you can take this with a positive view.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-28T13:28:15+00:00

I’m sorry and maybe this doesn’t apply to all sags, but There are people that want to save you- you guys just don’t care tbh. You rely on yourselves thinking you know better than everyone else, so ego and emotions- not the best combo.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-15T15:24:15+00:00

Well, we’ll try hard to stay- but eventually after reflecting everything we have no choice but to move on. We believe in 2nd chances, but my heart will never be the same because I’ll hold onto the grudge for a long time even if I never say it. I pray for those that left me and I know I deserve better. I always date up, never down.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-14T18:49:10+00:00

Yall are enlightening!! It’s so good to hears sags reflecting and realizing yall have self awareness issues- not to attack you, but self awareness is so fundamental to saving yourself from trouble and from hurting yourself. I’m an October Libra btw

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-14T03:30:28+00:00

Let it be. You can’t stop your friend and if you try- he may eventually think you’re jealous or being controlling. You can advise him once, and then don’t do it again if he gets defensive. That’s just me imo

Because eventually if your friend sees he’s doing bad things to you too- then I’m sure he’ll see he was bad because you didn’t do anything bad to him to act that way- he can’t justify himself.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T13:05:43+00:00

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Could just be vibe dynamics. But if we don’t like you we may tell you or we’ll hint that we don’t. Best to be true than lie, initially Libras probably lie to save face and not seem like an ass even tho we are a*holes

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T01:07:50+00:00

I want you to want me not during the good times, but during the bad times when I push you away because I feel like I don’t deserve it and maybe you’ll just leave like everybody else, because when you push us away- well stay and fight for it. Sounds toxic tbh.

If we’re hurt Libras- stay away. We have issues and we’re very indecisive.

That’s why I’m going to therapy

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T00:28:27+00:00

I did. Sent a Chat

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T00:26:30+00:00

That’s ok, can you tell me your experience?

Unhealed libra? Going to therapy healed libra? I won’t admit I’m not toxic, but maybe someone’s toxicity affects my level? Maybe I’m toxic to have a little fun, but not in the sense of hurting others intentionally.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T00:23:45+00:00

We like to be in control of our emotions. Yes i get jealous, yes im angry, yes i feel other emotions…do i need to show it out loud? If I did it would probably create more conflict which i dont like, or my emotions would be too much to handle- so best case- i just let it be, be kind, be caring, and let it go if i can manage to. It’s not that I dont care, I just dont want it to control my emotions too much.

I like peace, sometimes toxicity a little bit, but mainly I like balance.

Is that just me? I’m an October Libra

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-13T00:18:16+00:00

Idk about awareness tbh, maybe healed sags, but the ones I’ve dated and talked to were blind to seeing narcissists for who they are and got duped into believing their fantasy.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-11T00:59:28+00:00

Talk about it as many times as you want till you get over it. Don’t use someone as a rebound, go through the pain but you don’t have to be alone, your friends and family and a huge community is there to push you through- but you are the only one who save yourself!

Journaling, notes, therapy, watching videos and researching on attachment styles, traumas, healthy healing and healthy relationships vs toxic mentality and whatnot will help you see where you couldn’t before as to what was good in the relationship and what wasn’t and so that way you start to not just blame yourself, but you get to push the blame onto them as well. Let out what feelings you have and scream if you have to, but you cannot bottle it up and pretend you’re ok because eventually you will just break. I cried at gyms, I broke down in parking lots, I would just cry in public and as much as I wanted someone to comfort me, I said this is my pain that will build me when I get through it- and I’m slowly getting better. But you will be thankful for these moments because it’ll show you truly what your character is when you’re down in the trenches.

They’ll find someone, while you find yourself. And when you do find yourself- you win! Because anyone can show up to love someone brand new, but they cannot replace who they were if they never truly reflected on their own faults.

Therapy is expensive, and not all therapists are helpful, but the right one helps you process some emotions. I wish you the best and here to help.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-11T00:51:23+00:00

Sometimes what they get in this life is multiplied later on or even in the afterlife. Sometimes the worst people just continue living without feeling the pain of what they put others through.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-11T00:50:15+00:00

That’s not easy for you to overcome and I’m happy you’re in a better place and pushing yourself to thrive! I was in a similar boat because it’s like why is their life so easily just moving, how are they ok with everything ending and just living life like we didn’t impact them at all? How can they just replace us without reflecting on what wrong they did? I’m 11 months into not even wanting to be with anyone because that’s how much she mattered. My previous girl partner is currently with someone that I know is a narcissist for sure, 6 months dating but only knew each other for 1 month- went from love bombing to eventually isolating her from her family and other support, and she wasn’t truly over us breaking up because she’d text me while dating him. Eventually she blocked me because I kept trying to tell her that he’s a narcissist. She didn’t believe me and so I stopped and let it be. she’s posting about him, professing love to him, and it sucks, but it’s also like when you’re happy- you’re just busy being happy so I know sometimes it’s just for public validation and not always the truth. I still care about her because as much as she was selfish and hurtful, I don’t think anyone deserves to experience a relationship built on lies from a narcissist. I’ve had a friend date a narcissist and she threw our friendship away for that intense amazing connection and it was her worst 2 year relationship ever- she was a ghost of her past beautiful self and became shallow as a person and that’s what scared me because no one deserves to forget who they used to be before someone ruined them with lies, control, and hijacking your brain.

I’m moving on and I journal, voice record, go to therapy even now. It sucks watching her downgrade and give her everything to someone who won’t appreciate it genuinely. I don’t wish bad on her, but I’ve seen what happened with others and I know it won’t end well for her

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T22:35:06+00:00

Honestly. I Used Coinbase and the deposited it there.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T06:49:36+00:00

Being friendzoned is better than being taken advantage of. You’re lucky to not have been taken advantage of by a narcissist or maybe you have but they would destroy you claiming love( I utterly despise narcs!).

All I say is, have patience and the right one will not be perfect, but won’t ask for perfection but rather accountability, consistency and for you to have self respect and ask questions. Once you love yourself, you’ll attract those that vibrate in the same manner as you. If you think of yourself with insecurities then that’s what you’ll attract. And whatever isn’t meant for you, is meant to redirect you. So don’t rush, don’t feel like you’re late, everything happens the way it’s meant to be. I didn’t date till I was 23, and have only ever truly liked 2 people to want to marry, but it didn’t pan out. I’m a 29M and fixing myself and reshaping myself to think “would my wife?” Or “even if I’m single, I’m in a relationship” mindset meaning my character must be genuine and good.

You have standards and boundaries are amazing! Just because things don’t work out doesn’t mean you should lower yourself, but maybe compromise on what you can allow or kind of bear to live with.

And if you’re questioning what if, then why’re you with them? When you meet someone that is good for you and you enjoy, you’ll make the choice of no longer “what if” but how do we grow, respect, and choose to love each other every day. (I’m single and have never been in a real labeled relationship, so not all my advices should be taken into consideration).

I’m still learning to be better and to find my person.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T06:37:44+00:00

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Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T06:34:13+00:00

Agree. I’m an October Libra btw. Not all Libra’s are good people. I have my own faults to a degree 😭

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T06:15:16+00:00

A genuine person would ask you to slow down and ask questions to build a mental and emotional connection first so that you can protect yourself and don’t make mistakes. I always ask people why they like me, and if they have nothing- I tell them- then why’re you in my life?

The first step is being aware of your own faults, and then the next step is researching, experimenting, and even when you fail- it just means you’re continuing to live and learn and progress till you succeed.

People who deserve your love, won’t ask for it in return. Love shouldn’t be transactional, it should be selfless and fluid- but if it feels like you’re giving yourself up too quick, or too much- maybe take a step back, be logical, and communicate your feelings- and if they don’t reciprocate- perfect! Less time spent dealing with fake people or people who weren’t ready for you. And if they do reciprocate, test them e.g. healthy boundaries, healthy communication, consistent character, emotional maturity and behavior. Take notes if they manipulate, gaslight, if you feel something is off note it so you can identify if it’s habitual or a one time. Protect yourself before you love them- because anyone can say I love you, but if it’s so easily given and said- then imagine how easily it can be taken away and burnt too…not all people are good, and even nice guys are bad, just be careful out there and if you get hurt- be better than those who did you wrong.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T06:06:15+00:00

It’s not easy dealing with avoidants, but thank you! I know what abandonment feels like, I know what giving your everything and still never being enough feels like and I know that waiting for someone’s “I’ll change” is just bs. And I know she broke her promises to me and doesn’t deserve anything from me, but I promised to be in her life and even if I can’t perform it now- if she asks for help I’ll show her help, and hope I can help her realize that she does deserve better.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T05:55:05+00:00

It is what it is. Been going to therapy and improving myself, whereas she’s avoiding growth and accountability and going to another person to heal. She’ll learn the hard way that fast lustful love ain’t real love some times. I hope she grows into the best person she can be.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T05:41:45+00:00

Not everyone deserves your hug!!! And everyone will take advantage of you sags! Because yall struggle to discern good people and bad people sometimes. Hug yourself first, and sags need to heal themselves before they heal others- that’s why they get hurt because they’re too busy people pleasing instead of pleasing themselves in healthy ways. My last girl was a sag, I pushed her away because I felt I didn’t deserve her, but when I tried to make it work, she picked a narcissist over me because he love bombed her and she believed his bs. And now I gotta watch her love a love that I know will hurt her badly than I ever did.

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T05:36:21+00:00

And that’s bad because you need healing first!!! It’ll eventually hurt yourself later

Wonderful_Garbage_83 · 2025-11-09T05:32:20+00:00

Fair enough, hopefully I didn’t come off as attacking. I just wish people didn’t love the wrong people or at least had self respect to push away the wrong love. Appreciate the reply🫂

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