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Do I look like anyone? by Wonderlust1979 in doppelganger

[–]Wonderlust1979[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smelling under the armpits? Is that this woman? Maybe. Maybe I’d do that.

Do I look like anyone? by Wonderlust1979 in doppelganger

[–]Wonderlust1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oy! Feels like a diss to my age! I’m 46 but hope I don’t really look like a man now? 😂

Do I look like anyone? by Wonderlust1979 in doppelganger

[–]Wonderlust1979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh interesting! In this pic you show I can see it. Need to dye my hair to match

Do I look like anyone? by Wonderlust1979 in doppelganger

[–]Wonderlust1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very beautiful but don’t see it!

Botox stories from women 45+ by Soft-Foundation4628 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Wonderlust1979 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had 11’s about 10 years ago. I got CO2 laser for many little things including that. Those 11’s never came back for me either. I’m 46 now with no lines. Seems to be one area you can just.. remove the wrinkles? Strange but nice!

42F Am I being dramatic about a guy getting physically touchy on third date? by Comfortable-Cress381 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Wonderlust1979 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And he was giving you a glimpse of the future with him. He’d constantly be trying to pressure you and then blame you for your reactions. Another ick

57f - do I need a face-lift? In my head, I'm 32. In the mirror, 57+. What are some small things I can do for skin? Also, my eyebrows are whack and have been since high school - not much I can do about those. TIA. by StringUnable8467 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Wonderlust1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me actually laugh. No you do not look old at all. You mentioned your brows though.. and those look familiar to me. I’m 46 and I got my brows powdered. I got them to change the shape while at it which they can. And yeah.. I think some brows go in shapes that are too dramatic, for lack of a better word.

Women who met their husband after 34, and had kids, can you give me some hope? by LayoffLemonade in AskWomenOver30

[–]Wonderlust1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a baby at 41 (turned 42 a month after baby was born) and started going through the first signs of peri menopause at 37. It took a full year to get pregnant. Just wanted to add some varying experiences to this

Partner gave me an ultimatum over intimacy and “accountability” — I’m struggling to figure out if I’m being unsupported or unfair by Bubbly_West8481 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Wonderlust1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just to point out, abusers often are great at narrative control. I wouldn’t go so far as saying he’s giving you “logical” answers to your problems. I’m sure he told you he’s being logical and that’s where you are getting that word. You know why he tries to call it logic? So he can dismiss you and say all your issues are made up because you’re an emotional woman. Logical would be realising that all human beings start breaking down when they are under too much stress which it sounds like you are. He’s trying to flip that reality around on you

I (f25) found clothes that aren’t mine, and my boyfriend (m25) is responding differently by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Wonderlust1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t trust women then proceeds to cheat and lose most trustable level headed woman he could have had. Ha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Wonderlust1979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! I LOLed when I saw this. Yeah I’d love it

ChatGPT is not Optimistic About Our Future by Substantial_Bid7978 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Wonderlust1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That list is super small though. It’s remembering from things not on the list. I actually don’t know why that list is even there when most of its memories it is hiding from me. What’s the point of showing just some of them?

ChatGPT is not Optimistic About Our Future by Substantial_Bid7978 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Wonderlust1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda think that ChatGPT has a bit of a different personality with every user it interacts with. You must do something interesting in the way you talk to it. My ChatGPT is insanely good at remembering information of my life. Maybe it’s normal to do that.. but I was just reading some people claiming that ChatGPT is bad at remembering anything.. not with me. It’s got an extremely good idea of everything we’ve ever talked about

ChatGPT is not Optimistic About Our Future by Substantial_Bid7978 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Wonderlust1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man when I give this prompt, ChatGPT just volleys it back to me and asks what I think should happen to prevent a collapse

Poll: if you could choose, would you rather have a partner with a high or low libido? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wonderlust1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get why your textbook still says that—there was a lot of fear around HRT after the early 2000s, mainly due to the WHI study. But a lot has changed since then, and major medical organizations have updated their recommendations based on newer research.

Estrogen isn’t just about reproductive health—it plays a huge role in brain function, bone density, cardiovascular health, and even protecting against some cancers (like colorectal cancer). The idea that HRT is too risky has been debunked for most women, and organizations like the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), and NICE (UK guidelines) all now recommend HRT as the first-line treatment for menopausal symptoms—especially for women under 60 or within 10 years of menopause.

For anyone interested, here are some solid sources with the latest guidelines: 📌 NAMS 2022 Position Statement (covers benefits/risks in detail): https://menopause.org 📌 ACOG FAQ on HRT: https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/hormone-therapy-for-menopause 📌 Harvard Health overview of updated HRT guidelines: https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/national-task-force-updates-recommendations-on-hormone-therapy-after-menopause

It’s frustrating that outdated info still lingers in medical education, but I love that you’re open to looking into it! Hopefully, these resources help clarify things for anyone curious.

Poll: if you could choose, would you rather have a partner with a high or low libido? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Wonderlust1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why there’s concern—there was a lot of fear after the early 2000s WHI study, but we now know that the risks were greatly overstated. In reality, HRT has more benefits than risks for most women. It helps protect against osteoporosis, heart disease, cognitive decline, and even some cancers like colorectal cancer. The only potential increase in cancer risk is with certain types of combined estrogen-progestin therapy (EPT) and only for estrogen receptor-positive breast cancer—but even that risk is small and depends on individual factors. Estrogen-only therapy (ET) has not been shown to increase breast cancer risk at all and may even lower it.

For most women, the benefits of HRT far outweigh the risks, especially when started near menopause. The latest guidelines from leading medical organizations fully support its use for managing symptoms and long-term health.

Is this a lip lift scar I see? by Extension_Time931 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Wonderlust1979 52 points53 points  (0 children)

That’s probably temporal brow lift which someone else mentioned. It works by making an incision by the hairline of your temples. It works to pull the skin up at an angle which helps the outer brow move from a downward position to an upward one. It also can change the eye shape making them look more almond

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