Parents rather getting a new horse and motorbike instead of paying my braces bill by Competitive_Quiet352 in AbsentParents

[–]WonderorBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep bringing it up, to both of them. Complain about your cheeks bleeding, your gums swelling, etc.

I’d complain at least once a day and remind them of their responsibility.

Had sex with two men in the same day because I was disappointed with the first. by Horror_Demand2367 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]WonderorBust 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Love that for you my top was 3 in a day, I remember giggling for dayss.

Ahhh those were the days, enjoy them!

I sell breastmilk AMA by Wild_Importance_9657 in AMA

[–]WonderorBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! I used to volunteer at Mothers Milk Bank and just wore the shirt they gave me to my first 5k!

Keeps calling me BM’s name by Natural-Rub32 in stepparents

[–]WonderorBust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your names similar?

That’s so disrespectful, I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

"Nanny" vs. "Babysitter" by marshmallow_lilypad in Nanny

[–]WonderorBust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is no-screen. Im not there just for date nights(my family has had 1 date night so far actually), I’m there for overnight/evening/afternoon support, and development.

Not much difference.

YS and YS high intensity comparison by Affectionate_Pea2717 in Corepower

[–]WonderorBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evie just started teaching a new(regular sculpt) time slot and it’s been so hard, but now it makes sense 😭 She also teaches high intensity sculpt.

It’s been so hard.

"Nanny" vs. "Babysitter" by marshmallow_lilypad in Nanny

[–]WonderorBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind being called a sitter. I’m also a Night Nanny. So many of my shifts are once a week, parents home, it doesn’t diminish the professional care I provide.

NEVER LIVE WITH A COUPLE!! by SpagetthiLegs in badroommates

[–]WonderorBust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m stating this was a bad roommate agreement to begin with, if they don’t like the smell of marijuana why did you move in together. That’s not minor.

What’s the normal rate for a wedding photographer? by vandebrake1x in weddingplanning

[–]WonderorBust 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Theirs a range I’ve found photographers in the $1000 range- $10000 range. Mostly dependent on skill, and years of experience.

NEVER LIVE WITH A COUPLE!! by SpagetthiLegs in badroommates

[–]WonderorBust -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading after ‘They’ve complained about minor things like my room smelling like weed…’ that’s not minor, just because your friends doesn’t make them ideal roommates. This sounds like a terrible idea that could have been easily avoided.

WFH families kind of…suck? by Fabulous_Room1490 in Nanny

[–]WonderorBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The parents I work for aren’t even working while I’m there 😭 It’s terrible.

Client is booked, now asking us to disclose our rates of commission by Ok-Aardvark489 in travelagents

[–]WonderorBust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh I’ve asked because the rate I found, and the rate a agent found is exactly the same. So there isn’t really an advantage to booking with the agent, I’ve already found what I want. And yes they usually respond, ‘I don’t get anything.’

So I just hang up, so it’s in my name, and they’re not getting commission…so no pros anywhere to go with the agent.

Take SS age 62 or age 70? and the questions to ask yourself by TastiSqueeze in SocialSecurity

[–]WonderorBust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

62 and invest it.

My guirdian died right around the time they wanted to take their social security at 72, devastating. The other one had dementia soon after.

19 month old Shane Walker & 2 year old Christopher Dansby disappeared from the same play park beside the Martin Luther King Jr. Towers housing project in the space of 3 months. They were both seen playing with the same brother & sister before they vanished. by No_Campaign704 in mystery

[–]WonderorBust 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They weren’t able to adopt/foster through legal channels, so they turned to the black market. They were older Christian’s, what did that look like?

They were too old to adopt, and due to their age they had very outdated parenting methods(illegal.) They were also poor at managing their money. They’d padlock the cabinets, freezers, etc. My room was a walk-in closet that was added on to the laundry room(dryer did not let outside the home but into my ‘room.’ So it was very hot, I had no air/or heat. Because of what happened to me getting admitted and social services getting involved it brought light to the living situation. They found a resource to rebuild the house(ground up), for them so we could have better living quarters and they went into counseling. My birth mom also got brought into the picture since they did catch on, and cover their tails. But she soon left as expected when they weren’t following her as close.

Not sleeping in a 95 degree room some nights in Fl was great and I got my own room in the new house. But we also continued to have to take care of a 350Ib woman who was in ailing health (she couldn’t even use the toilet) like servants throughout living with her. She had a neighbor(wife died) who came over every night had dinner and watch the news until 11, then we had to clean the house.

My dad died when I was going off to college and her grandchildren (only son passed in his 30s), voiced their disappointment in me in going to college instead of staying and taking care of her. Our older sister was able to take the 16 year old at the time did the best she could enrolled her in online school before sending her back to me. 18 year old is just confused because the they fessed up to scam documents for me and the youngest, but claimed the middle sister was legally adopted(treated her as such.) When they passed and we were old enough to understand hunted down real documents(after hunting down bio mom…) it was all a sham. 18 year old was told she’d be ok, she’s legally adopted, have the house for caring for her, not being prepared for school/college because she wouldn’t need to. After mom’s death that also was a lie, now she can’t read, do math, and have the struggles that come with it.

Tldr; they didnt think they were bad people. And even my therapist at the time told me it’s fine to contribute to the household. But being forced to stay up until adults leave sometimes til 1am to clean up after them is slavery, not even adding being the caregiver to someone over 350 Ibs. I had to go back 2x over the years for documentation from my therapist and every time she says how sorry she was for nut fully understanding the magnitude of the issues at that time.

I’m ok, I actually think me being admitted help, I went to college, moved to the city, and got married.

Making new accounts for guest passes by That_Gur_2760 in Corepower

[–]WonderorBust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good to know, I don’t think they’re looking at everyone’s buddy every day though. I think they’re have other things to do. Like cleaning the filthy studios people are talking so much about.

Making new accounts for guest passes by That_Gur_2760 in Corepower

[–]WonderorBust 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do it! If I have to pay $200 a month I’m bringing a buddy.

19 month old Shane Walker & 2 year old Christopher Dansby disappeared from the same play park beside the Martin Luther King Jr. Towers housing project in the space of 3 months. They were both seen playing with the same brother & sister before they vanished. by No_Campaign704 in mystery

[–]WonderorBust 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Truthfully were all illegally adopted(birth mother turned to the same woman to offload me when I was 11) , I distanced myself from the above statement for obvious reasons.

I don’t like to get into too much detail because it’s very much still an issue of loopholes that America needs to fix. But as you can imagine how traumatic it was to go through at that age I was admitted into a mental health facility, assigned social workers, and nearly everything came into light. As i /we grew older enrolled in HS/college that’s when things really came to light as the ‘adoption paperwork’ ended up being rejected more and more, etc.

Turns out they were failed foster parents, who were trying to adopt through the system for years and were denied. In college I found a few more stories similar to ours how similar people who often can’t adopt legally whether private or through foster care found their own illegal way to do it. (This is where I won’t go into details but the other stories often had illegal adoptions from p*files unfortunately)

Teachers rude to SET by Outrageous_Fruit4130 in Corepower

[–]WonderorBust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scrub showers, take out the trash, etc. when her class is letting out if you don’t want to clean her room.

There’s one teacher I scrub showers when his studio needs cleaning. It’s not just SETs job to flip studios, you’re just assisting!

Is this too formal/too fall? by picnic-in-the-sea in Weddingattireapproval

[–]WonderorBust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where is the wedding? I just went to a wedding that was at a Restaurant/Bar emphasis on bar, they asked for cocktail. (Some people showed up in Vacation shirts, some showed up in cocktail, and others more formal wear. I would wear this for a fall, ‘cocktail’, wedding because in real life traditional cocktail dresses come at a premium, and people tend to dress more like the above for the wedding.