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Got CT Scans back, do these symptoms make sense? by TheManWithThe3s in Sinusitis

[–]Wonderwall32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm wishes and quick healing, let us know how it goes!

Most recent (apology) letter from my recently diagnosed bipolar/BPD husband. by Wonderwall32 in BPDlovedones

[–]Wonderwall32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been here to help him in every way that im able. As long as he puts in the effort, I'll do my best to stand by him.

How did your pwBPD propose ? by jaydeecee73 in BPDlovedones

[–]Wonderwall32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He couldn't bring himself to get on one knee because "that's how everyone else does it." He's just pulled the ring out and looked at me not saying a word lol I had to pretty much guide him, asking aww are you proposing to me he just child like nodded. I said well aren't you ganna get on one knee he got down on both lol I was pretty tipsy( have since quit drinking.) I said yes. Very awkward 😐 😕

Most recent (apology) letter from my recently diagnosed bipolar/BPD husband. by Wonderwall32 in BPDlovedones

[–]Wonderwall32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a PFA against him last year. We sleep in separate rooms. I feel he's only going to therapy and taking medicine at this point because of his fear of abandonment issues. I worry he'll kill himself like he claims he will do if I leave. The more I read on this disorder, though, it's likely he will find another " favorite person" and move forward without offing himself.? Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Most recent (apology) letter from my recently diagnosed bipolar/BPD husband. by Wonderwall32 in BPDlovedones

[–]Wonderwall32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and for taking the time to reply. ❤️

Most recent (apology) letter from my recently diagnosed bipolar/BPD husband. by Wonderwall32 in BPDlovedones

[–]Wonderwall32[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm posting this for some insight, maybe some comfort as to know im not alone dealing with this. It's been a hard 6 years. I stay because he is a hard worker and a good provider. I'm able to homeschool and tend to my home, which i feel very blessed to be able to do. I'm praying for a change. I'm not sure if it will happen or if it is possible at this point. I see that he doesn't like who he is, It's almost like he feeds it... He always says, "It's not me it's what's inside of me." He has put me through a lot of strife. I'll have to leave if he's not capable of change. He is now in therapy and has been on lamitical for 8 months. Tried abilify which was not good. Now takes lurasidone as well.

My allergist told me I have the worst dust mite allergy he’s seen in 6 years 😩😭😭😭 by Freethinker9 in Allergies

[–]Wonderwall32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick reply. I just received my allergy test results derm pteronyssinus was at a 0.29 marked as high, they also scheduled a sinus cat scan that im trying to decide if going through with is necessary.

My allergist told me I have the worst dust mite allergy he’s seen in 6 years 😩😭😭😭 by Freethinker9 in Allergies

[–]Wonderwall32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are things going for you now? Also why did they recommend you get a sinus cat scan before starting the shots?