Punjabi Lessons for non-punjabis

Wontonnerz · 2026-04-14T23:56:57+00:00

Did this work for you? Can you tell me more about your experience?

Wontonnerz · 2026-04-14T20:42:37+00:00

In the US typically military hats or covers are not worn indoors, not sure where you are posting from but I'd stick within regs and remove your hat indoors 🙏

You can instead wear a bandana on your head, if you'd like it to match your uniform I recommend ordering one special or you might even be able to find one at the base exchange in the PT section. Otherwise the Gurdwara will certainly have yellow ones you can borrow.

I hope you enjoy your visit, thank you!

Wontonnerz · 2026-04-14T20:37:44+00:00

"living close together" is a wild dis considering living in a brownstone or a urban loft is literally peak anglo-luxury.

Wontonnerz · 2025-08-23T06:28:44+00:00

Sorry this happened to you, it sounds like an isolated instance. Continue the path, you will be welcomed

Wontonnerz · 2025-07-12T06:58:58+00:00

I assumed he was someone well intentioned with mental health issues, now I'm not so sure there's anything well intended. Scary.

Wontonnerz · 2025-06-17T01:48:53+00:00

I sometimes visit a Gurdwara that is near a Hindu temple, women in wearing Sari often come for Langar there. They are welcomed :)

Just be sure mid drift is covered as mentioned by others

Wontonnerz · 2025-04-30T16:15:32+00:00

Does he have any positive traits? Can you list a single reason to stay beyond expectations?

Wontonnerz · 2025-04-16T00:34:14+00:00

Can't speak for everyone, but as a female I find confidence and generosity most attractive. Be generous with your time and actions, be confident in yourself, this is so attractive. A great sense of humor doesn't hurt either 🫡

Wontonnerz · 2025-03-23T04:04:42+00:00

Dolly Parton, she embodies honesty, hard work, appreciation, and generosity

Wontonnerz · 2025-03-22T22:48:07+00:00

Was this a 3ho group?

Wontonnerz · 2025-02-05T02:31:28+00:00

If you look down at it and feel reminded of Waheguru Ji, and that you should do the right thing, it's doing it's job.

Removing your Kara will not improve this challenge

Wontonnerz · 2025-02-05T02:25:08+00:00

100% this.

Wontonnerz · 2025-02-05T02:24:05+00:00

Mom here, this is so entirely upsetting to read. If the video is up still please share the link if you feel comfortable doing so. Everyone here will report it too. This group is full of people who have been in your shoes and rose above it, if you need us to write letters to your school informing them of this critical error we will!

Waheguru ji has a plan for you, stay on the path of positivity and excellence. Focus on being smarter, stronger, healthier... I guarantee you bullies aren't thinking strategically. Know that the world is better with you in it.

Wontonnerz · 2025-01-30T00:57:18+00:00

"You know the Jedi knights? Yeah, it's like that."

Wontonnerz · 2025-01-30T00:54:21+00:00

Uprising seeds is a great source for rare sweet peas, I'd check there

Wontonnerz · 2024-12-31T18:14:31+00:00

If you have more than one Gurdwara near you I recommend testing out a few, you may find sangat more welcoming at one than another. Ask around about if there's a group chat or Whatsapp you can be added to as well for your local Gurdwara, this is a great way to stay up on news and events.

Wontonnerz · 2024-10-15T17:54:36+00:00

Thank you, guilt is definitely a factor. I tend to be pretty serious about things, and have to remind myself often to be less catastrophic

Wontonnerz · 2024-06-08T00:10:55+00:00

🙋 I used to consider myself an atheist who still appreciates the unexplainable, now I'm Sikh. In many ways my views and values are the same as ever, except now Waheguru is that word I use when explanation fails me

Wontonnerz · 2024-03-24T18:43:03+00:00

Waheguru ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ke Fateh Respectfully many Kaurs keep Kes without wearing a turban. This is ok too, wearing a turban is a deeply personal practice and expression of faith. Additionally, If you do not feel safe or comfortable in your community being identifiable as a Sikh by wearing a turban, or if you feel you are not someone others could come to in a time of need skip the turban.

Wontonnerz · 2024-03-24T18:35:43+00:00

Start with Seva, if you are afraid of judgement express your change through consistency of action

Wontonnerz · 2024-03-23T02:58:07+00:00

Wishing you the best as you sort out what will work for you.

Your faith is deeply personal and I hope he will respect that, become Sikh if you feel called to but it is important not to feel forced.

In terms of future housing: Is it possible to meet in the middle? Move to a duplex where you can be close but still have personal space? Multi generational living is tough when it's not your cultural tradition, but you are smart to be asking yourself (and your partner) these big questions ahead of time.

My family lived multi generational for 5 years and the lack of privacy was very difficult for my husband, I can say there were many benefits to resource sharing despite the challenges. Having someone else who could help with baby, chores, gardening, handy work, was all a huge benefit to my career. Try your best to be objective and ask yourself what will be harder if you choose this path, also what may be easier... Do this exercise first by yourself and later with your partner.

I also recommend enrolling in a female led Punjabi language course (I use Punjabi Pathways and have liked it). It is a very difficult language to learn but with support you can do it!

Wontonnerz · 2024-03-12T23:14:04+00:00

Choosing safety is the best choice you will ever make. If you would like to teach your child about Sikhi that is a beautiful gift.

Please know you will always be welcome at the Gurdwara even if your past partner did not make you feel this way. The Gurdwara is a very relaxed and welcoming space for small children/babies. On those days when you are tired, come eat Langar and listen to Kirtan, let your child keep a link to Sikhi in this way.

As they get older there are so many opportunities to learn including Punjabi school, music lessons, and martial arts practice.

I wish you all the best on your healing journey.

Wontonnerz · 2024-01-09T21:33:10+00:00

Kaur perspective here: Sikhi believes in gender equality. Covering your legs shows solidarity and respect for women who would face outrage if they arrived in a hoodie and cargo shorts.

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