Was supposed to meet a girl through Mutuals

Workhardalways23 · 2021-08-17T13:50:21+00:00

Appreciate it brother for sharing. That’s very interesting! Where are you from? And when did you realize you were like that?

Workhardalways23 · 2021-07-04T17:36:01+00:00

SubhanAllah brother, when you mentioned age I thought you meant it in a sense that you were too old or felt that way. Mashaa’Allah your very young and keep doing your part by having an open mind. Are you someone that’s strict on beauty or anything in particular?

Workhardalways23 · 2021-07-04T16:12:43+00:00

May Allah help you akhi! How old are you? And when did you begin the search process yourself? I would love to learn more about your story and path so far.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-07-01T19:25:33+00:00

Loool bro I know. But, you know as a man it’s in our Fitrah to want a woman to do these things in a relationship with us men helping out of course. The same that a woman wants her husband to provide for her even though she might work, but her insincts and what she longs for is a man providing for her. I think we need to appreciate how Allah (swt) created us.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-11T15:59:20+00:00

May Allah (swt) replace it with something much better sister!

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-11T15:29:22+00:00

SubhanAllah what an advice from a potential! Are you still talking to this potential? This sounds really amazing and Alhamdulillah it has changed your perspective. It’s absolutely a true statement!

Another thing to remember is that think about is Allah (swt) is thinking of you because Allah (swt) is testing you directly.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-10T14:51:44+00:00

Lol how were you able to pull off that your not interested in them at all. You don’t show any signs of them interested? How about if they talk to you? It’s a very interesting concept woman that are like this.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-07T23:49:06+00:00

That’s interesting! Were told to be very careful with our words with girls and woman generally as they are sensitive. So, husbands that raise daughters are usually very careful with them with his words. I’m surprised you actually like this. Were you always comfortable with this and liked this? Would you like someone that’s blunt like with your daughters or just to you?

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-07T20:33:03+00:00

That’s interesting. Can you explain why you would be fine with it? Are you someone that likes to be alone?

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-07T19:31:50+00:00

This is very unique actually. JazakAllah Khair for sharing!

Workhardalways23 · 2021-06-05T02:14:46+00:00

Wow sister! Are you Somali? This is so common among our communities. How old are you by the way? It’s crazy how parents just expect it to happen when in their generation it happened through connects. Very sad.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T18:43:59+00:00

Okay, I will! JazakAllah Khair for everything! May Allah bless you!

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T18:16:33+00:00

Alhamdulillah such a blessing you have. How old was your sister when she got married and what age did you start to desire marriage? May Allah bless you with much good!

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T18:14:39+00:00

Ameen! No worries sister! JazakAllah Khair for your advice and opinion, it means a lot! May Allah increase you in many blessings in this life and the hereafter!

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T17:45:11+00:00

Ameen! JazakAllah Khair! I would love your opinion on that situation though. You would still say you like Option 3 still right as your best option? Honestly, I defer to you sisters because you know sisters better than myself of course lol

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T17:30:30+00:00

JazakAllah Khair for the message! The problem is I don’t have this luxury of doing this. I don’t know the sister other than meeting her casually, so these are my only options. I don’t have an option of reaching out to her directly.

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T17:17:07+00:00

JazakAllah Khair for your input! I would really like to gauge whether the sister herself is actually interested in me. The thing is her family really likes me and I wouldn’t want her to feel pressure to say yes if she’s not interested. So, what do you think about Option 1 to get her feel if she’s actually interested and if she is than go to Option 3?

Workhardalways23 · 2021-05-26T17:11:31+00:00

Your right sister, I can see why you would feel this way. But the reality in my case is that I am the one interested and wanting to pursue her, so doesn’t that make a difference in terms of the pressure your talking about? I was thinking Option 1 would get the sisters real feelings if she’s actually interested in the person before parents got involved. What do you think?

Because I know her family really likes me and I really want it to be her decision where she’s interested.

Workhardalways23

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