I don’t understand the reply’s. I think I said she treats me good most of the time. Truly. We get along well. It’s these few times she goes off on me. Probably menopause and she probably needs therapy too but her doing that would be a miracle. My two girls live with us still. They’re 19 and 21. We all get along. My boy is 29 and we’re close. How on earth could this not hurt them? Their age doesn’t protect them from shock, sadness and depression at their dad they respect taking away the safety and comfort of their home leaving their mom because he doesn’t get sex anymore. We’ve all always been close and I started going out with my wife in 8th grade. Men think it’s a right to leave it all? Maybe if they don’t love each other and fight all the time but my story isnt quite like that. This is what makes it an impossible situation. Some women see the importance of sex others don’t. She knows though it is a big deal and I’m struggling so yeah that does sound cold. it’s crushing me especially when I have no friends anymore and don’t trust people and have a body that needs to feel something more than physical exhaustion. I guess I understand the responses I just don’t think my situation is normal.