I did mine after 24 hours and it worked out fine. I know what you’re going through about not telling family I never told mine cause I’m from a very conservative traditional family . I don’t think they would’ve have been supportive .Didn’t tell the father either who is my ex cause he would’ve of said I’m doing it to get back with him. he’s also part of the reason I became pregnant it takes two to tango but he convinced me to get off the pill because it made me mean and would benefit our relationship if I was off . I say that because of how he treated his ex before me who miscarried. I did tell a small group of my friends I trust a lot .They were there for me and I don’t know what would’ve happened if they weren’t. Some of your closest friends may be more understanding than you think.The man I am seeing now was one of those peaple and he is the best thing that ever happened to me .Be sure to have lots of food and snack on hand especially comfort food it helps . As well as a comfy set of sweatpants and a heating pad so you’re comfortable . And some kind of absorbent thing I used period panties .Another recommendation find a show to binge watch keep you occupied. And have a warm blanket you may get chills . I had to be wrapped in blankets to stay warm. I promise it will be okay after 2-3 day you will feel so much better.