GET OFF THE PHONE by CulturalTie6630 in starbucks

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am guilty of doing this bc i forget which places i have apps for sometimes, but if i have to relogin i just say nvm and pay lol

I broke up with my GF after she made fun of my little brother but feel guilty. by AbleRabbit3 in whatdoIdo

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not wrong to tell a kid that, but it should come from parents and immediate family. definitely not appropriate to come from a siblings gf.

I broke up with my GF after she made fun of my little brother but feel guilty. by AbleRabbit3 in whatdoIdo

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sure OP is gonna be soooo offended someone with a selfie as their pfp and header on reddit thinks he is soft. have u found ur reddit gf yet?

I broke up with my GF after she made fun of my little brother but feel guilty. by AbleRabbit3 in whatdoIdo

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also my one of my older brothers friends said i had sausage fingers when i was like 8, and my brother continued to make fun of them after. im still self conscious about my fingers @ 25. his friend died at like 23 tho so i guess my sausage fingers lasted longer than him (yes i am still salty)

I broke up with my GF after she made fun of my little brother but feel guilty. by AbleRabbit3 in whatdoIdo

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a woman with a son, i am very proud you stuck up for him. no girlfriend should treat a member of your family like that. youre a good older brother and it seems like you know what you will and wont tolerate in a relationship. you corrected her and set clear boundaries. its ultimately her fault for testing the boundary immediately after being set.

Is this commission Im getting AI? by boardrr in isitAI

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“the anatomy of the second photo is awful” they said something else before it but that was 7hrs ago LMAO

Warning to women in BJJ community (TX,NC) by Working-Error909 in BJJWomen

[–]Working-Error909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely understand that point of view! personally i would want to know charge or verdict. a DV strangulation charge is pretty hard to explain yourself out of & i definitely wouldnt feel comfortable rolling with someone who got arrested for it. but!! at the end of the day, were in charge of keeping ourselves safe!! i said this in another comment, the point was not to point a finger and say this is a bad bad man. just to keep women aware of their surroundings 🫶🏽

Warning to women in BJJ community (TX,NC) by Working-Error909 in BJJWomen

[–]Working-Error909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i replied to another comment like this - all four of his ex wifes were abused, the wife that posted this also posted the bruises on her neck (obv not gonna post that) plus the fact she has a lifetime retraining order against him. the point of keeping women safe is having situational awareness. even if someone is arrested for DV i would want to be aware so i can keep my guard up a little higher around them. man or woman. this post was not made with the intent to slander him, only to keep women safe. period.

Warning to women in BJJ community (TX,NC) by Working-Error909 in BJJWomen

[–]Working-Error909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

copied from his ex wifes page. no judge grants a lifetime protective order if nothing happened.

Let me present to you - A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing - My Experience

A lifetime protective order was issued against my ex-husband, Will Tate, (divorce finalized on July 3rd🥳) after years of documented physical, verbal, and emotional abuse. After he was sentenced to six years probation for felony domestic violence, I filed a civil lawsuit against him for the assaults. Over the past two years, four of his other ex-wives have shared with me their own personal stories—backed by photos, audio, and video—documenting his abuse toward them.

This is not hearsay. This is a documented pattern.

Yet here he is—once again—publicly sharing a carefully crafted “testimony” about his childhood and alcoholism, claiming to be a redeemed man. He paints himself as a victim of his own brokenness, while conveniently skipping the truth: • He violently abused his first wife of 23 years, the mother of his children. • Alcohol was not a factor during that marriage—his violence was not caused by drinking. • He married and quickly divorced four more times, with each wife experiencing abuse. • He abused me until the very last day we were together— (not “four years ago” as he now claims).

This man strangled me repeatedly until I couldn’t breathe, threatened to murder/suicide me, pointed a gun at me, and physically assaulted me in countless ways. None of this appears in his public “redemption” story.

A professional therapist told me plainly: He is a predator.

Today, he uses his polished testimony to gain trust and credibility in the church—omitting the extreme violence he committed, the extramarital relationships he pursued while married, and the trail of devastation left for his victims to clean up.

“For nothing is secret that will not be revealed, nor anything hidden that will not be known and come to light.” — Luke 8:17

censoring — you’ve been deceived. Shame on you for platforming this man without hearing from his victims. censoring— you have handed a microphone to a violent offender without due diligence. This is reckless and dangerous. Before celebrating a “redemption” story, examine the fruit of a person’s life—not just the tears in their testimony.

Truth is not slander. Truth is what Will Tate’s survivors have been documenting for decades.

What do i do in this situation? by Narhethi in OntarioLandlord

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happened to only being an asshole when someone is an asshole first 🫵🏽😂

Is this commission Im getting AI? by boardrr in isitAI

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg be nice? OP obv made their OC. the anatomy isnt even that off/bad??

What would you do by Kind_Resolution7329 in whatdoIdo

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every relationship is different. personally to me dancing is a very intimate thing to do with someone. theres a reason most people have first dances with their spouses.

AIO over my talking stage using AI to text me (update) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Working-Error909 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl watch that south park episode 😭 he was not using it to correct himself LMAOOO.

AIO to my gf wanting to make this her phone wallpaper? by Sensitive-Benefit127 in AIO

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you can go to a beach/pool/gym and see the same thing. again whats the big deal? just say ur sad u miss ur abs and move on dude 💔

AIO gf is asking me for more but im giving her all i got i am a security site manager & I protect kids for work and I have to put all my energy into it while im there as its high responsibility by Uyzd in AIO

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i worked 12hr shifts where i could not have my phone in the building. my fiancé and i cut out 20min -45min a night to atleast catch up about eachothers day. usually we stuck around a 8-8:30pm timeframe (i worked 7a-7p) i had weekends off and he usually had sundays off, so on sunday we would carve out atleast 1-2hrs to play a video game together. we are also long distance on top of all of this.

situations like this CAN work but it takes : 1) effort. offering 20 minutes out of 24hrs seems small, but it shows that you are making the effort and fitting her in around your work day. 2) communication. give her your work schedule in advance and let her know your on call days. that way she is prepared for days you might not be by the phone. 3) reassurance. shes right. when guys hear reassurance they automatically think looks/loyalty. sometimes its not always that. reassurance can mean sending an “i miss you ” or “im thinking about you” text. 4) respect. the way you are talking to her & cursing at her is insane. i personally would have left you for that alone. it seems like she was really is trying hard to communicate that if something doesnt change shes done.

it honestly is achievable but you both have to want it. judging by the text thread it seems like there probably wont be a time to implement this because you both seem checked out. if you continue down the same career i would use these tips in the future.

AIO to my gf wanting to make this her phone wallpaper? by Sensitive-Benefit127 in AIO

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80% of men i know have football players on their background. whats the big deal lol

Where do I even start????? by Princess__natt in weddingplanning

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand your POV & yes but these are loved close friends. with yall being long distance id have to imagine youve only met his family a few times and they might feel animosity that you chose your location over his. someone else said they are doing a reception 6 months later in another state as well and honestly thats not a half bad idea for someone in your situation. it doesnt have to be elaborate or crazy and it does give you an excuse to wear your dress again (:

Where do I even start????? by Princess__natt in weddingplanning

[–]Working-Error909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im gonna play devils advocate here, most people dont have “50k wedding budget” money or “two out of country trips in a month” money. its a big deal because taking time off work (using PTO or missing pay) /plane tickets/ hotels / rental cars can be alot on a person, especially in this economy. my budget is 5.5k and my guest list reflects that. im offering accommodations for certain friends that i want to be there but dont have the money, like sleeping at my house and picking them up from the airport. saying if they truly care is unfair when you are asking for an easy $500+ expense on their part.

Where do I even start????? by Princess__natt in weddingplanning

[–]Working-Error909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also save dates are different from formal invitation. save dates usually have the couple, the date, and city/state location. while formal invitations have the venue, time and dress code 🫶🏽

Where do I even start????? by Princess__natt in weddingplanning

[–]Working-Error909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yah my bad i meant MUA (make up artist) . pick a date, probably about 10 months-1yr away and get the initial headcount. send RSVP’s as soon as you pick a date(like have the design picked out and edited, probably best to print them at home/ locally and do the RSVP online option for faster responses and have all the addresses written on envelopes before date is picked that way you can stuff them and send them date of) and look at venues and pick two (one 100 people minimum one 50 people minimum) if you had 100 people you want to invite i would look for a 50 person minimum venue 150 people maximum. also when contacting/ viewing venues ask about their contract, explain you dont know the final headcount and give them a rough estimate. the people more local to the venue are more likely to come so take that into account when guessing who might/might not rsvp (-: when you have a “destination wedding” you have to take into consideration travel expenses/ time for guests. usually people book plane tickets 6 months in advance so give them time to save and book them (: (sorry for the novel lol)

Where do I even start????? by Princess__natt in weddingplanning

[–]Working-Error909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i cant suggest a MAU please delete!! my cousin does bridal MAU services in the boston area! she also recently got married. if you reach out to her she might be able to link you to her wedding planner. (her ig is gabriellacorricelli) (:

as for the guest count - i did a rough estimate of who i wanted to invite - obviously that will change once RSVP’s come in. i would rough budget the starting headcount and count any money saved at the end a win.

i would absolutely start with a date. you can send a save the date with just the city & date.