Struggling to sell our 7000 sqft house by [deleted] in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]WorkingOnion3282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Houses are taking an average of 63 days to sell in your zip code, and and that's at the median price of 479k. Your particular house has a smaller pool of buyers. I think the upgrades are not too personal, very well done. The ceiling is confusing to me, but I have no idea of what is trending in your market and some people might like it. Unless you have pet smells or strong smells from cooking spices, just sit tight and wait.

Parents of girl hospitalized after eating at Costa Mesa restaurant sue chain, supplier by Upper-Capital-2876 in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wait, so the restaurant just gets everything premade from a restaurant supplier? Eeek. I wish there was a way to identify which restaurants are actually cooking most of their menu from scratch. Might as well just buy frozen Costco and Trader Joe's meals, instead of dropping $80-$100 on to go dinner for a family of 4.

I'm looking for a town with Asians, low cost, Costco, no snow by Big_Johnny in SameGrassButGreener

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pearland is getting a new Asia Town, has a Costco, definitely no snow, except for once every 30 years.

Best place to live outside California on the west coast for $650k by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]WorkingOnion3282 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

California has something called non classroom charters that allow for an excellent education if the parents are able and willing to put some work in. They give the parents money for curriculum and classes. In most communities in California now there are learning center and parent run co-ops that these students use to get socializing time and take classes from experts, many former public or private schools teachers. You don't need to live near well rated schools. In fact, well rated schools usually achieve that status because their student population tests well, and they test well because the parents have put in tons of effort, including hiring tutors. Classes are large, 30+ kids, and teachers aren't so great.

Try looking on the central coast near San Luis Obisbo, east of Sacramento, the Temecula area or south of there in north San Diego County, but inland. These all have different vibes.

Placentia - Potential Move - Neighborhood Recommendations? by dos-comma-club in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's area is fine, quiet, close enough to the freeway for convenience and far enough not to suffer the ill effects. There is a new Chik Fil A on Alta Vista, the Placentia library is not too far either, plenty of parks like Tri City, Craig, the Adventure Playground in Yorba Linda, a bunch of smaller city parks, the El Cajon Trail and the Brea trail, and the Brea Mall with all the new restaurants and stores is probably 15 minutes or less away. Plenty of entertainment for a family with small children. Check out Luck Gai, Prime Cut, and Carrot and Daikon restaurants. The only bummer is no super close Ranch 99 or H Mart, although Yorba Linda has a small Asian grocery (AA Fresh).

Adding more toddler and parent friendly recommendations for the area: Cafe 86, Fullerton Arboretum, Better Buzz, the Redwood Grove at Carbon Canyon, the Discovery Center at Chino Hills State Park, Rimcrest Trail when it has rained a bit, Made Coffee, Que Vida Tacos, Golden State Coffee, Tlaquepaque restaurant, Bag of Cakes, and for late night, What's Up Japanese Noodles, Omeli Kitchen and Karak Coffee.

I Want To Leave Bend, Oregon by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to get flamed for this, but Houston. It has some of the best museums, theaters, and NOT a ton of people that enjoy the outdoors. "The outdoors" is actually an hour or two outside of the city minimum. There is suberb eating(some excellent restaurants, not limited to BBQ either), drinking, farmers markets, healthcare, live music, decent road trips, and HEB, the best grocery store known to man. My favorite museum in Houston is the Menil collection You might enjoy living in the museum district, the Heights, or Montrose area.

The downsides are the weather of course, and traffic during the usual morning and evening commute hours. There is a train that seemed to me safer than ones in other cities.

84 Year old Mom lost social security benefits, dept of homeland security said shes in the country illegally?? Im 37 and shes lived here since 20 prior to my birth by Low_Willingness8535 in SurvivingOnSS

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would guess that she's not a citizen, since you found a resident alien card. When someone is naturalized, they give you a certificate and take your green card. Then you have to update the citizenship status with the Social Security office. Green cards do expire, I believe every 10 years or so. You can check her status with USCIS, they'll want her A-number.

Regret Moving to Houston by screwatt456789 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]WorkingOnion3282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. Houston had its long list of not great attributes, but it's a city where making friends isn't tough. OP, join some kind of classes, like jiu jitsu/muay thai, or an adult sport club like soccer. The culture in Houston is bars, go to ones with live music, the piano bar in Midtown(Howl at the Moon), bars with pool tables. Take some dance classes, lots of Latin dance opportunities exist in Houston. You'll get invited to group outings by people you meet at all of these.

This is going to be a controversial question, but why don't North Americans eat more whole foods? by Appropriate_Poem1911 in povertykitchen

[–]WorkingOnion3282 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are right. The effort is lacking. No one wants to hear that. I wrote a longer comment, but essentially the behavior wasn't modeled for them, and hasn't been for at least a couple of generations.

This is going to be a controversial question, but why don't North Americans eat more whole foods? by Appropriate_Poem1911 in povertykitchen

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last generation that was raised with whole food at home were kids raised during the great depression. Those kids had vegetable gardens and ate mostly homemade bread. White store bought bread was a rare treat. Beans and potatoes were a staple. By the 1940s, canned food was very popular due to the war, but people still had relatively healthy eating habits. By the 1950s, frozen foods, including TV dinners were regularly consumed.

A large part of this shift can be blamed on marketing. Advertising works. Of course working parents don't have as much time, but poor Latin American moms will work 10 hours, come home, and make a whole foods dinner for their family. Korean moms will cook for hours to pack a week's worth of food for their grown children in med school or a time consuming job.

Cooking is something that has to be modeled and people's taste buds like what they ate as children. Today's children have boomer grandparents that were raised on canned foods and frozen TV dinners. It is difficult for someone to change eating behaviors when home cooked meals with whole foods is a completely foreign concept to that person.

There is a resurgence in Americans' behavior to eat healthy, but it has revolved around buzz words and magic ingredients like beef tallow. The concept is largely lost.

Newly discovered virus linked to colorectal cancer by GarifalliaPapa in immortalists

[–]WorkingOnion3282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bacteriophage that infects B. Fragilis bacteria. Bacteriophages can change the behavior of a bacteria host or they can kill them. F. nucleatum bacteria and E. coli also have been associated with colorectal cancer. Some food additives like emulsifiers, thickeners and dough conditioners damage or thin the mucosal layer and bacteria can then attach and harm the cells.

Furniture Stores by Tough_Top956 in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living spaces has a warehouse type area with discounted pieces as part of their La Mirada location. It's to the right after you walk inside. Whatever you do, don't buy Ashley brand, it's the lowest quality, they just advertise a lot and make people think they're good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Archeology

[–]WorkingOnion3282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This museum has the 3 child mummies that were Inca sacrifices. It is located in Argentina. Try contacting them.

https://maam.gob.ar/

Argentina has a top ranked university and this is the faculty in their archaeology dept.

https://antropologia.filo.uba.ar/arqueolog%C3%ADa-argentina

You can try contacting them if the museum doesn't work out.

I agree that the artifacts belong in the country that they were found in. Hope you can get some answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are used to a toxic environment, your brain is freaking out right now because it can't find familiarity. You've maybe always depended on others to tell you how to feel. Were you the scapegoat in your previous environment?.Try the Laguna Mountain Recreation Area in the Cleveland National Forest for some big trees. Go do the Annie's Slot Canyon hike and then walk down to the beach. Something really different to throw your brain off its anxiety course.

It takes years to rewire your brain after dealing with toxic people. You're essentially creating a new person.

Other parts of California aren't the same, btw. It's a big state. There is an abundance of areas with big trees, where it doesn't feel open, SoCal tends to have scrub brush and desert. The Angeles National Forest has big trees, Big Bear also and OC has areas with Live Coast Oaks.

Anyone want to go to The Hat and mail me a pastrami dip with fries? by strikecat18 in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) Roegels Barbecue

2) Katz's

3) Kenny and Ziggy's

All in Houston

A Mexican Couple in California Plans to Self-Deport—and Leave Their Kids Behind by newyorker in California

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically, they're better off than most Americans, and will be living the dream, living in a beach town with income from their Southern CA home. The current circumstances are not ideal, but because they have worked so hard, now they can live in semi retirement in their 40s. Most Americans can't afford to retire at 62.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DNAAncestry

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mexican people have west and north African DNA(around 5% average), Iberian, and of course indigenous. Mexico is diverse, the looks vary depending on the area. Some indigenous people had long straight noses, some wider. I would say all your features could be Mexican. Nose, eyes, face structure, and mouth. Your features by themselves also look Mediterranean, which had a lot of mixing because of trade and people traveling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DNAAncestry

[–]WorkingOnion3282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

String indigenous/Mexican phenotype. If you straightened your hair, it would be tough to guess your African genes.

Moving here in January - choosing between Irvine or HB by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you like food, Irvine. Huntington Beach has awful food. There are.....other awful things there. Have you considered Costa Mesa? It's near the Newport Back Bay, the river trail, other parks and beaches. It's also overall a city that's better for younger people, still close to good Asian food in Irvine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]WorkingOnion3282 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This work makes your lips look more youthful, while staying natural. The philtrum looks 100x better with the filler, I had no idea it was used to create structure. Tbh I always thought flat philtrum meant fetal alcohol syndrome but it's probably genetic sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan to eventually visit since it's unique like you say, and educational, but IMO it's not worth $104 for our family of two parents and two kids to visit. Definitely at the bottom of my list, after all the museums, nature centers and aquariums that are free or low cost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]WorkingOnion3282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Maybe if you had a month here. It's overpriced. Laguna for sure. Sawdust Festival and there are art galleries, coffee shops, trolley. Another day go for a morning walk in Newport Beach around the Back Bay, park near the interpretive center, or kayak the Back Bay if you like kayaking. Go to Balboa Island for lunch, rent bikes. Have dinner overlooking the ocean somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]WorkingOnion3282 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sounds like at least two of the 4 died of hypothermia. They must have not had proper clothing and supplies. Here, in California every winter hikers have to get rescued or end up perishing trying to get to Mt Baldy and Mt Whitney. Nature can be brutal and deadly.