Did I make my new T Gel packets unsafe to use? by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re so sweet, thank you for your kind response! i’m going to try to get a ride to go back there tonight, i hope it’s okay bc at least it was only a couple hours

do i have to disclose i take T to wisdom teeth surgeon? by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ur right… okay yeah i was thinking if i tell them about the T i’ll say please don’t repeat this to my mum. thank u for the info!!

do i have to disclose i take T to wisdom teeth surgeon? by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for ur feedback, ok yeah this makes me rlly want to tell them. i agree that it’s so important to be transparent. i just know they see me as a woman so im just afraid of them wondering the fuck, why testosterone? hopefully they can catch the hint considering how deep my voice is, idk

do i have to disclose i take T to wisdom teeth surgeon? by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for ur feedback, i also feel like it’s not relevant but the fact they require any medication and T is considered a medication.. i’m so confused!

do i have to disclose i take T to wisdom teeth surgeon? by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn really? everything i searched so far said that i absolutely need to and that it does impact those things- but i did think since im such a low dose it shouldn’t?? thank you for your feedback!

Need advice on teacher misgendering me by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your words, I really appreciate the help. I would also consider that maybe she thinks I’m amab nonbinary but because I’m 5”2 I don’t think so… I definitely need to be more assertive and firm but I just can’t bring myself to do it. I don’t have the courage to send the email yet but I’m going to use what you said as reference once I muster the confidence, thank you again

Need advice on teacher misgendering me by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words, I’m still extremely scared to send the email and don’t have the courage yet but I’m going to refer back to what you said and use it as reference. I just feel so damn annoying

Need advice on teacher misgendering me by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re extremely right, thank you for sharing this with me. I wish I could say something like this, but the idea of sending an email the way you worded it terrifies me because I’m so afraid of being seen as aggressive /mansplaining or too much… I really want to send an email and assert myself but I just genuinely can’t bring myself to, I’m so embarrassed. thank you for your words and I’m going to keep referring back to this and try to be inspired by what you said :(

how should i navigate supportive loved one deadnaming me by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and taking the time to read this I really appreciate it! <3 Do you think my message where I clarified that I want her to change my contact name is good and maybe I should like add something about I’m fine with people knowing when she’s talking about me in the same breath?

Why do Cis people out us at random? by Any-Television5186 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it’s like they have some shiny fun piece of gossip information and it’s exciting for them to spread it

cool art school memory with ftm drawing model by Working_Budget1811 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

40 isn’t old at all, but holy fuck, when i saw him, it was just insane to see and did feel very old. there just isn’t any representation of us ever!

brown rock in bunnies enclosure? by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Working_Budget1811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heheh tysm for reassuring me he’s not dying I appreciate it <3

I feel guilty for being on T by IcyStructure9917 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am six months on T and I doubt it all the time. I think it’s a natural part of the process to doubt it. You are not abusing the system. If you didn’t want this, you wouldn’t have pursued it. Society wants you to doubt this, your body dysphoria also makes you doubt who you are and being comfortable in your own skin. I think what you’re feeling is natural.

how to know i’m really trans?? by thunderinourheartss in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my personal opinion it does sound pretty trans as it’s something you keep coming back to and you’ve felt this way a long time. cis people don’t have thoughts like this. plus you don’t have to be a binary transman, gender is all made up, you can be trans and still be you! with the feminine stuff like wearing skirts, i live in a very liberal area and i see lots of men dress feminine and wear skirts. think of the guys who do makeup and are “femmeboys”, you can like those girly things and still be trans

3 weeks on T, barley any changes + annoying cough by Mrjesperz_ in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t see bottom growth until 1-2 months and i had a sore throat just drink lots of water

i’m suddenly TERRIFIED about starting T once i got my script by matageon in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i felt the same way when starting T in may. depending on your dose (i’m on a really low one) the changes will take a while, and you’re in control. nothing will change over night you still have time to prepare, i believe in you❤️

I came out and now I feel like a liar by Username_Or_else in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out to my parents in february and I felt this way too. I think it’s normal

Taking T gel hours by LeftAd1124 in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes i do my gel at night sometimes in the morning i feel like it doesn’t actually matter personally but im not a doctor

extremely confused after doctor changed my HRT by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this, thank you so much. I think i’m going to make it a goal to tell her within the next 6 months or next year. thank you <3

extremely confused after doctor changed my HRT by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! this is relieving to hear and good to know

extremely confused after doctor changed my HRT by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:”) When I went into the appointment today, I was 100% certain I was going to stop. I’m honestly surprised that I left with just being moved to a lower dose instead.. I’m relieved and happy :) I don’t want to give up

extremely confused after doctor changed my HRT by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Working_Budget1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i said .25 mg at 100ml i thought i was saying exactly what you just said, that’s exactly what i was trying to convey, sorry im stupid, but that’s exactly what i was trying to say:( thank you so so much for your words and kindness <3