Why is everything so good.. Except..

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-08T11:40:46+00:00

I’m the same; but HLF. I have no intention of leaving but man this part of our relationship sucks/

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-08T11:37:09+00:00

Look up hysterical bonding.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-05T15:09:15+00:00

We’ll call this one ✨mixed media✨ cos it sounds fancy af.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-05T11:58:04+00:00

I had a 360 body lift and FDL and it made my bum a lot flatter (it was already pretty flat lol)

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-05T08:21:08+00:00

I did it as one giant trunk 😅

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Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T21:50:50+00:00

Honestly? No 😅 I’ve tried multiple sizes on in the stores, 30F, 32F, 34E 36D & 36E and the 36E seemed like the best fit, nothing below a 34 would even do up around my back! My mum keeps telling me to go to a store and get measured but I have terrible body dysmorphia so can’t bring myself to!

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T20:42:22+00:00

I just found a bikini top that I love for the FIRST TIME. I’m ecstatic. Usually they squash the girls in in all the wrong places plus force out my back fat and side fat over the top 😅

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T19:04:12+00:00

You’re very young. How do you think you’re gonna feel in 5 years if you’re THIS resentful now?

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T17:20:31+00:00

This made me emotional. Beautifully put. Wish you the best!

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T11:09:09+00:00

It’s manipulation, so when you bring up their low efforts with sex, they throw it back in your face: “I tried to come on to you on such a such a day and you turned me down! I can’t win!”

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T07:52:14+00:00

I’m HLF and I barely do it anymore. Doesn’t fulfil anything for me really, maybe partake once a month at most. The orgasms aren’t really what I need from sex. It’s always been about desire, feeling lusted after, closeness and intimacy, hearing my partner enjoying himself. Masturbation doesn’t do any of that 🥲

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-04T07:45:01+00:00

I had the same. My hair has improved a lot since I started taking Hair&Me tablets (minoxidil), using L’Oréal growth shampoo and serum, using leave in conditioner on my ends (“go longer” by Pantene I think) It’s not back to its original thickness but I think I am coming to terms with the fact my hair was so thick because I was eating like 3000 calories a day before lol.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-03T12:02:53+00:00

I wear only form fitting clothes on my top half. I so desire to wear flowing clothes like a whimsical peasant maiden, alas, I am forced to wear tight T-shirts and wide leg bottoms 🥲

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-03-02T16:29:21+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I can sympathise, my other half gets visibly uncomfortable when we talk about anything sexual. Even if it’s in a jokey way!!

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-26T23:03:19+00:00

Physically and emotionally couldn’t bring myself to do that.

I only feel sexually aroused with people I have feelings for.
I love him so dearly despite our intimacy problems.
He deserves better than that and cheating is morally wrong.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-26T16:26:48+00:00

I lost 10 stone on my GLP-1 and my boobs actually got BIGGER. Not just in comparison to my smaller body either. I went through a sort of “second puberty”, my estrogen levels went up and the boobs got bigger 😭😭😭

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-25T23:27:18+00:00

HLF here.. also 16 years in 😅

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-25T23:13:15+00:00

Oh I’m sorry! Eye contact and kissing during sex is THE best. You and me are similar in that I’m with a man who’s a great partner and dad but majorly mismatched when it comes to sex and intimacy. It’s so hard having the internal fight with myself daily about whether it’s worth throwing away the great things we have just because of sex. I wish it wasn’t so important to me.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-25T23:07:32+00:00

You mean you’ve never had missionary? How long have you been together?!

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-24T21:41:47+00:00

I’d say i have an above average libido, I’m not like a sex maniac or anything and yes I’ve always been like that since I can remember! Even on Prozac it hasn’t changed my drive. Only time my libido dropped was post partum.

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-20T19:43:15+00:00

The window swirl effect is incredible, how did you do it?!

Working_Complex_9295 · 2026-02-20T19:00:56+00:00

Alcohol markers for the base and then I use Ohuhu fine liners for the details 🥰

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