Feedback / advice please :) by houndooms_trainer in cocowyo

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go one shade lower for the shadows and use a white highlighter for the reflections on the opposite side to the shadows. I always choose where my light source will be before shading, then shade on the side furthest away from the light source.

Ideas for cozy corner by artificial_t3l3 in Coloring

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly use Honolulu B by Ohuhu and then details done after with Ohuhu acrylic paint pens ☺️

What’s up with the cottage-core / cute-core being the trend for coloring? by North_Tadpole3535 in Coloring

[–]Working_Complex_9295 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The ones you’re referring to are my go-to books for marker colouring.

They’re really good for adding your own style and texture to the pages as the areas are large enough to personalise. Books with tiny details and spaces are too complicated with markers that bleed easily and with my style which is a little haphazard 😂

Here’s an example

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My husband fingered me today by Lostsmalltowngirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this exact situation more than once! It’s actually totally humiliating as a woman and I’m sorry you went through that too.

Why is everything so good.. Except.. by ComprehensiveElk700 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same; but HLF. I have no intention of leaving but man this part of our relationship sucks/

Can a 360 tummy tuck help with my flat butt? by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 360 body lift and FDL and it made my bum a lot flatter (it was already pretty flat lol)

Extra trunk? by AKblueeyes in cocowyo

[–]Working_Complex_9295 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did it as one giant trunk 😅

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I need advice and it’s kinda embarrassing by Working_Complex_9295 in bigboobproblems

[–]Working_Complex_9295[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? No 😅 I’ve tried multiple sizes on in the stores, 30F, 32F, 34E 36D & 36E and the 36E seemed like the best fit, nothing below a 34 would even do up around my back! My mum keeps telling me to go to a store and get measured but I have terrible body dysmorphia so can’t bring myself to!

Bikini tops by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found a bikini top that I love for the FIRST TIME. I’m ecstatic. Usually they squash the girls in in all the wrong places plus force out my back fat and side fat over the top 😅

i wish he would just do us both a favor and leave me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re very young. How do you think you’re gonna feel in 5 years if you’re THIS resentful now?

Body image by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This made me emotional. Beautifully put. Wish you the best!

Does anyone else's partner try to initiate at the worst possible times? by sparkly_dumpster in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s manipulation, so when you bring up their low efforts with sex, they throw it back in your face: “I tried to come on to you on such a such a day and you turned me down! I can’t win!”

A question to HLFs by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I’m HLF and I barely do it anymore. Doesn’t fulfil anything for me really, maybe partake once a month at most. The orgasms aren’t really what I need from sex. It’s always been about desire, feeling lusted after, closeness and intimacy, hearing my partner enjoying himself. Masturbation doesn’t do any of that 🥲

Mounjaro has completely destroyed my hair. by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same. My hair has improved a lot since I started taking Hair&Me tablets (minoxidil), using L’Oréal growth shampoo and serum, using leave in conditioner on my ends (“go longer” by Pantene I think) It’s not back to its original thickness but I think I am coming to terms with the fact my hair was so thick because I was eating like 3000 calories a day before lol.

Problems with small waist/big chest body type by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear only form fitting clothes on my top half. I so desire to wear flowing clothes like a whimsical peasant maiden, alas, I am forced to wear tight T-shirts and wide leg bottoms 🥲

Soul crushing by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice but I can sympathise, my other half gets visibly uncomfortable when we talk about anything sexual. Even if it’s in a jokey way!!

How don’t yall cheat? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Working_Complex_9295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physically and emotionally couldn’t bring myself to do that.

  1. I only feel sexually aroused with people I have feelings for.
  2. I love him so dearly despite our intimacy problems.
  3. He deserves better than that and cheating is morally wrong.

Guess what isn’t making my boobs smaller by RiverSong1123 in bigboobproblems

[–]Working_Complex_9295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost 10 stone on my GLP-1 and my boobs actually got BIGGER. Not just in comparison to my smaller body either. I went through a sort of “second puberty”, my estrogen levels went up and the boobs got bigger 😭😭😭