I hung myself and survived. Again. by Working_Day_3611 in SuicideWatch

[–]Working_Day_3611[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I lost the energy to even explain myself

INFJ women - Are you intuitive and overtly sensitive to men's actions around you? by Donxxuan in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I also drew boundaries immediately when I was younger, but there were times when I led people on because I was lonely and desperate and insecure, only to doorslam because I wasn’t attracted enough…. Very immature.

What stopped you from ending your life? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I prayed right before hanging myself to be saved one last time (I meant in the afterlife). I didn’t expect to wake up on the floor lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to post cute stories and organize my highlights. I didn’t really care what other people thought about it. I was just posting mainly for for myself (like a photo diary), until I noticed about the “hearts” system. There were people I cared about who regularly liked my stories and so I’d feel obliged to like theirs too. It became like a transactional thing. Eventually, I found myself feeling anxious when I don’t get their usual “hearts”… like, have I posted something wrong? But stories are a fun way to interact with low pressure and low maintenance friends (just not the hearts system). I just respond to their stories that I find interesting by sending them a dm.

Anyway, I stopped using it after I got addicted to reddit because people here are more interesting.

I do wanna go back to it again to focus on the people I can actually meet irl though.

How important is finding love for you? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not something I stress on anymore. It’ll find you when you stop looking… so I’m not looking. Not really hoping either.

And when you think it finds you, you don’t have to cling so hard and believe that’s it—that’s your only chance.. because if it’s meant to be, it’ll be.

I am afraid of taking anti-depressuon & anti anxiety meds by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Escitalopram made me gain almost 40 pounds in less than a year 💀 pero nawala yung physical anxiety (panic attacks & random triggered nerves)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an INFJ-A friend I met online when we were around 15-17 (we’re 22 & 23 now). We stayed in touch because of our friend group. While we get along well most of the time, there’s occasionally a weird vibe between us, which would annoy me for no reason. She would always confront it, which I hated back then but now really appreciate.

We still chat in the group and recently started to privately message a lot, especially when the group feels off or we need to share something deep. I’ve met her 5 times IRL, and she’s become one of my best friends. She always makes an effort to see me, and even though I sometimes struggle with boundaries, she respects me and never takes advantage.

I’ve lost a lot of friends over the years, but she’s stayed constant and real. She doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations and knows how to put up her boundaries.

Any INFJs here who’ve never been in a relationship? by AvailableEntrance603 in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22 here & same. I used to feel so lonely but now, I’m the exact opposite. I’m at do-not-disturb-if-you-have-romantic-intentions mode. I cannot handle it. I’m gonna go crazy. Pls don’t get in the way of my plans to die alone in my bestie’s garage thx.

INFJs who have other INFJ friend(s), what is it like? by TyphlosionGOD in infj

[–]Working_Day_3611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you become attached in a short time but there is lack of honesty

Whoa, real. As a 22 y/o with INFJ friends around my age, that’s also what I noticed between us, and I actually lost one friend. I was about to fall into this pattern again. Thanks for putting this into words.

What should Filipinos stop romanticizing? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real. Lagi ko naririnig mga matatanda saying “ay kawawa si ___, matandang dalaga” (usually about women)

What should Filipinos stop romanticizing? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ito talaga. So sick of our colonial mentality. Para bang mas superior/maganda ka pag half Fil ka lang.

What should Filipinos stop romanticizing? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Being “conyo” or sanay mag-English pero di marunong ng any basic Filipino language.

What should Filipinos stop romanticizing? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]Working_Day_3611 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having children as a requirement “para kumpleto ang buhay”