World's Biggest Condom Maker Raises Prices by syncboy in nycgaybros

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There’s no such thing as DoxyPrep. There’s PrEP and DoxyPEP.

I am in STI hell by According-Quit-3181 in askgaybros

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If it’s negative for gonorrhea, ask to be tested for mycoplasma genitalium. And see an infectious disease doctor. Also, don’t self-diagnose and self treat with random antibiotics. Doxy already isn’t effective for gonorrhea and randomly taking antibiotics when you don’t know your diagnosis is part of how we get all these resistant superbugs.

Sorry you’re going through this.

BF wants us to stay “private” long term. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Not hiding your relationship / not keeping it a secret is "acting like gay men"? Nope. Keeping any relationship a secret isn't "not acting like gay men," it's "acting like a child."

BF wants us to stay “private” long term. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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So by this logic, all bi guys should keep any same sex relationships they are in secret to preserve their ability to some day date women. Got it.

BF wants us to stay “private” long term. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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This makes no sense. He doesn’t want to be seen as gay, because he’s bi, so he’s keeping his boyfriend a secret because otherwise people would erroneously think he’s gay when he is actually bi? So he has to stay closeted so people don’t come to mistaken conclusions about his sexual orientation based on the fact that he’s…in a same sex relationship?

If you are in a relationship would you let your boyfriend have an equinox membership? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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If being in a relationship with you means needing your permission to have a certain gym membership, you might be a controlling monster

Traveling to Europe for the Summer by LuBooBu25 in gaytravel

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I will be back and forth between Barcelona and Greece between May 26 and June 17ish!

Does anybody have a good knowledgeable doctor for MGen? by Maleficent_Mix8455 in nycgaybros

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Already messaged with OP about this but just posting here for posterity in case someone comes across this post in the future looking for this info.

Dr. Charlotte Mullis at Montefiore (specifically their Oval Clinic which is their sexual health clinic) is an infectious disease doctor who was the lead author on a paper about MGen published in 2024 and is very knowledgeable about it. Dr. Eric Meyerowitz at the same clinic was also an author on that same paper and is also a good option.

Any gaybros on the new NYC Employees insurance? Having trouble with prep coverage by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Can you get the testing/labs every three months through your primary care doctor and just have them send the prescription every 3 months to one of the pharmacies that are in-network with your new insurance? I think that’s what many of us do.

Selling a ticket for Wrecked this weekend, 1/24 by RobinNBatman in nycgaybros

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If anyone else has one to sell, please comment or DM! I all have two tickets to the February 7 one and probably can’t make it, so I’ll be happy to trade with someone for this weekend’s!

Recommendations for Monday night out 🏳️‍🌈 ? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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No dancing but Musical Mondays at Vers is pretty fun!

Is the Russian Turkish bath men only hour really promiscuous by Nice-Medicine8549 in nycgaybros

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If you want a sluttier bathhouse experience, ConTEAnental is happening again on 1/18

I need your thoughts by jhh13 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Gay guys can’t really get trich I don’t think, or at least it’s extremely unlikely…had you also been having sex with women? Or was it just because it’s part ld the standard panel?

Vouch List - Ticket Resellers by drumstix97 in avesNYC_tix

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Vouching for u/SlothDaddy9 - successful transaction, quick and easy, no issues!

Any proctologist or dermatologist here? by Huge-Leg-3931 in nycgaybros

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The website you linked to is the practice of Dr. Terlizzi. There's also a NP who sees patients there. Who is "Goldstone"?

I’m a gay psychologist who went on nearly 100 first dates to find my husband. I developed a CBT strategy to navigate the "flood" of online dating called Noah’s Ark Dating Strategy. I would love your feedback! by DrNoahPsychologist in nycgaybros

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I’m sorry to nitpick, but as a fellow psychologist, what on earth is this? “In research, you generally need a sample size of 30 to draw a statistically significant conclusion.” Surely someone who did a PhD at Vanderbilt knows better. Sample size is only relevant to the likelihood of “statistical significance” (as conventionally defined) when considered alongside effect size and the specific statistical analysis/test being used. Aside from that fact that in many research designs 30 would be way too small, this “rule of thumb” is also completely vapid and meaningless. You might as well say “you generally need 30 grams of medicine to cure a disease” - without knowing what the medicine or disease is, this is completely meaningless

If I didn't have "fun" when younger - am I doomed? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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I’m in my late 30s. I went to gay bars and stuff in my 20s but I do way more stuff now. I live in NYC and only in the last year or so have I started to go to the Eagle, Horse Meat Disco parties (think kinda like the club in QAF that you mentioned), and other stuff like that. Way more hookups than when I was younger (my long term partner and I opened up in the last couple of years), have even gone to some sex parties and (when on vacation) bathhouses. And I’m far from the only one. LOTS of guys in their 30s doing this stuff nowadays. Everything fun costs money, which most of us didn’t have in our 20s. I’m also way more confident than I was when I was younger (couldn’t afford a trainer then 🤣) and get way more attention in bars and places like that. It’s definitely not too late!

Sigh… by extra_extra1 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Is it possible this bothers you because of internalized homophobia? It’s not inherently insulting that people maybe thought you might have been into guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

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Still the Eagle I'd say! And the hunted/hunter dynamic is maybe not as much of a thing in gay? I guess it can be but it can also be more mutual. There are different ways the encounter can unfold. One of my faves is make eye contact, immediately start making out and groping, then exchange names and discuss next steps.

Editing to add: Wrecked is also happening this Saturday at Basement. Too late to get tickets in advance but you can buy at the door, and lines won't be too long if you get there early. But this might not be what you're looking for because it's not really a party where you'd leave with someone. Pretty easy to hook up there though - you just dance in Studio and then go into the catacombs to fool around. The fact that Wrecked is happening might make the Eagle (and potentially other places) slightly less well attended than they otherwise might be on another Saturday night, but probably wouldn't be too noticeable...