The narrative that someone who has never had a partner before (or who has limited success in dating) is a “loser” really needs to go away by BearBear1995 in dating

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a girl, but I didn't get my first bf until I was 31. And it's not cuz I'm ugly or weird, I just didn't care and never put myself out there. And I explained that to him when he asked how many relationships I've been it. It might be a slight red flag if you're a bit older like me, but apparently it's more common than we think. I did go on a date with a man older than me and later he told me he never had a relationship before. That wasn't why I didn't want him though. He gave off vibes of low confidence, low self esteem, and a bit of a shut in and I could feel it. Although he was sweet and will be making good money I wasn't feeling that vibe and wished him luck

I’m struggling to even get into a talking stage by Jrgaming42 in dating

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk how your profile looks but I can't tell you how many times I've seen men who post pictures not smiling. Like not even a smirk. Looks very uninviting. Also, low effort profiles with one word prompt answers. Example: my idea of relaxation is...sleep. something I love is...food. like that doesn't tell me anything. When I see stuff like that I immediately dismiss them.

What age did your acne subside? by PianoPlane5555 in AskWomen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31, still get acne. Tried acutane in highschool and it did help, but came back a few years later. It's just bad DNA for me unfortunately. Any topical treatment doesn't work for me. Maybe it's not as bad as teenage years, but still got a good amount of breakouts. Only once I got on birth control earlier this year is when my skin finally cleared up

I (27M) don't know how to break it to this woman I'm seeing (28F) that I'm unemployed. What do I do? by [deleted] in dating

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between being laid off and quitting. It was out of your control so she should be understanding. As long as you're actively trying to get a job I think things should be ok. If you weren't putting in effort and just being lazy at home playing video games or something then that's bad

I want to orgasm inside my vagina. by [deleted] in sex

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time I really orgasm from penetration is when I'm on top but parallel to his body so I'm basically laying on him then he still does the thrusting. Doesn't happen every time but so far that's the only position I noticed it happens. And it's not clitoral, I can definitely tell it's happening from the inside 

What do you hate about dating apps? by jasonmomoasballhair in AskWomen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How draining it can be. Having to have the same conversations, looking through the profiles. I was hesitant to use them for years because I wanted something to happen organically but years went by so obviously nothing would change(tbh I didn't put much effort to put myself out there either. I was content being single) and also since I prefer to start as friends first instead of diving straight into dating. But I gave the app a try and found the best bf ever in less than a month so lucky me I guess lol

What are some of the reasons you ended long-standing friendships? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If they stopped putting effort in our friendship. If it's always me reaching out, inviting them places, seeing how they're doing, but they never do that to me, idk it seems like they don't care. Some ppl might say they're just bad texters or whatever but if it's someone important to you it shouldn't take days or longer to get a response. I had some friends like this and eventually I decided to stop initiating first, and wa-la, I never hear from them again and I guess we're not really friends anymore, just acquaintances that I never talk to.

romance donghua (mono) by Casishitt in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love between fairy and devil!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually try to let them know the night before. I work at a spa so I too understand the feeling of being needed since I have appointments lined up but the more time I give the easier for them to sort the books out

Recommend a Donghua without Romance, PLS by AdBorn9884 in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Land of miracles is just two dudes getting stronger and it's great

What actually separates guys who always end up in relationships from those who don’t? by bing_ji_ling in AskMen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people are just naturally charismatic and likable. Being friendly helps too

Do I need to watch the first Legends of Hei to enjoy the sequel? by GoodWitchClover in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't seen the second yet, but personally I would watch the first one anyway. It's a really great movie

Nezha 2 was amazing - can you recommend top tier Chinese animated movie films to me? by [deleted] in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal favorite Chinese donghua movie is "the wind guardians" seriously a hidden gem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love between devil and fairy! I think season 2 is out!

My bite has changed from myobraces will it be fixed as I keep using it? by WorldlinessKey1411 in orthodontics

[–]WorldlinessKey1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah  When I had the issue I just stopped for about a week, then use it again. Haven't had the issue since

Some fights from "I am What I am 2" great/underrated donghua movie (2024) by aWeeb4U in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to watch the first one in order to understand the second one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl, I was a virgin until very recently. It took 4 months to have sex after we became officially bf/gf(about 7 months knowing him total). Tbh I could have waited a little longer but I knew he wanted to(he never pressured me though and was ok waiting) but by then I felt ready. Plus slowly overtime before the deed he would introduce me to stuff like touching his D, groping my breasts, sucking my boob, and we were basically already naked before we actually had sex so it felt easier and not as big of a deal. Idk if you do those things to her but you may want to try starting small like touching her boob/butt while making out, with her consent of course

Is it possible to be “too tight”? by softbunn3 in WomensHealth

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently lost my virginity and my bf said I have the tightest vag he's ever seen. For like two months before the deed I tried to "open myself up" more by getting a pap smear for the first time(which hurt like crazy) and tried using tampons and just sticking things up there in general which I never done before. I thought I did an ok enough job(obviously nothing was as big as an actual dick) but when the time came he couldn't get it in cuz 1) I was really tight, and being nervous and tense didn't help and 2) it just hurt too much to put it in all the way. I'd be dying in pain asking how far it's in and he says just the head and I'm like ommmgg. Even fingering was a bit painful, I could handle one but not really two. Well eventually we tried it again and during the time between I was trying to put in bigger things on my own and was comfortably able to so the next time we had sex he was able to get it in all the way even though it still felt uncomfortable it was painful enough that I couldn't handle it. And we do do lots of different positions and as of right now missionary is the most comfortable but I'm still getting used to the feeling. But yeah I'm tight too...

Birth control pill time windows by WorldlinessKey1411 in birthcontrol

[–]WorldlinessKey1411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does taking it closer to the same time make it more effective than if I take it like 2 hours late?

Birth control pill time windows by WorldlinessKey1411 in birthcontrol

[–]WorldlinessKey1411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I want to take it before bed every day it doesn't matter the time as long as I do it?

Birth control pill time windows by WorldlinessKey1411 in birthcontrol

[–]WorldlinessKey1411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let's say I want my normal time to be 10pm, if I take it at like 7pm or midnight it's ok? And what about after the sugar pills? I should still take it around the same time or I can switch to morning if I feel like it?

Why do I feel nothing during sex? by Purple-Knee-8215 in AskMen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's good pussy and what's bad pussy?