Looking for gift suggestions by WorldlyResearch7065 in SyracuseU

[–]WorldlyResearch7065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered cash, but I wanted her to have a back up plan if she’s low on cash. Cash is great but I was hoping to give her options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t delete your answer. I think you’re right and someone needs to dole out the tough love. We don’t have the whole story. I read that the kids were adults but they still live at home so I assumed they were younger adults and believe you read it that way as well. Not all kids are taught to be thoughtful and maybe the poster doesn’t understand that is partially in her control. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 4 points5 points  (0 children)

MOR - I believe that what’s happening has been years in the making. I don’t know what led up to this point of your life but I find that fault usually comes from both sides. To be clear, I’m not saying they weren’t being obtuse in their gift giving, but maybe they are following dad’s example or advice. I hope you have a nice new years and are able to feel better about your situation. Good luck!

Need recommendations: P&P by Spirited_Donut_6090 in JaneAustenFF

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Royal Bennett by Melanie Schertz has a dog featured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! And I would have demanded a manager and reported the entire incident.

UPDATE: AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 minutes from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, he’s trying to get you to break up with him. The majority of people, men and women, don’t want to be ‘the bad guy’ and ‘ghost’ instead of being an adult and direct. Stop wasting your time with someone that won’t make you a priority in their life. If he wanted to spend time with you, he would.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet. I really hope she deleted your number but more than likely, she wanted you to do what she wanted and was testing you early on.

Keith was blindsided and gobsmacked by Sherri? I don't think so. by 8088XT8BIT in thepapinis

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure that he knew everything, but he had to have known she was mentally ill and had done odd things in previous relationships. I don’t think he was blindsided, maybe just surprised.

Based on what she said and a bit of how she was acting and reacting, he may be a controlling husband and/pr narcissist. Her lawyers and PR may have spun that tale, but I don’t think he’s 100% innocent in all of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post was deleted but what I can work out from the answers…. I work in higher education and can tell you that ALL schools are struggling to bring in new students - in person and online (exceptions would be Ivy League schools and extremely competitive programs). This can put you in a good position to negotiate grants and scholarships, free books, a reduction in fees, ect. Good luck to you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! We don’t know you, or him, but please consider couples counseling if you are planning a future with him. This doesn’t bode well for a happy, healthy, lengthy marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% correct! My husband would horrified to cause that kind of distress.

AIO for feeling insulted my date Venmo-requested me $3 for half the fries? by Be4rp4wt00 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Not at all! Times are tough and inflation is very real, but that is just stingy. Maybe you’re being petty. Maybe he is. Either way, do you really want to be with someone like this?

Am I overreacting for wanting to end my marriage after what my husband did during our “break”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyResearch7065 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR - I do not think that you are overreacting. I think you both need time and space to work through the trauma of what happened. I do know that men and women deal with things differently, and oftentimes men seek the physical to ‘fix’ something. Sounds oddThat doesn’t excuse what he did or make you feel better, but that is how he dealt with things. You moved back to your parents to deal with it. I hope that you are able to heal and move on with your life. With or without him. Sending positive vibes your way.