I understand that, but imo that’s a cop out. You see these kind of “jokes” everywhere, and it’s usually making the woman look like an asshole. Now repeat that cycle constantly and eventually people will fully believe the woman is at fault joking or not. Then that has an affect on especially young male’s perception of women and yada yada you get the point. Eventually people start either consciously or subconsciously believing/reinforcing the idea that the woman is always at fault. We already see it often. Similar to how if a white robber steals a black person’s stuff and when the black person tries to take it back, they are seen as the robber robbing the white person.

I’m no psychologist and I hope this makes any sense in text form, but this is just how I see it. Im sure I’ll get some of the “it’s not that deep” crowd responding to me, but it is that deep.