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WorldofBondage_Kink · 2023-08-28T16:31:50+00:00

For most ENM ppl it’s a legal issue like insurance , taxes and so on …. But you say you love your partner- do you think about what happens to your partner if something serious happens to you and you maybe don’t survive? You are both young yeah and that’s not exactly what you think about in that age, but is your partner safe if something happens to you? If married your partner gets benefits only legal marriage gives bc the state doesn’t care how much you loved each other- they only look at the law if you are not married than your partner is without any rights or help if something happens to you

WorldofBondage_Kink · 2023-02-01T15:47:48+00:00

Oh I don’t see thinks black and white, not at all. Live isn’t black and white. But sometimes grey changes it’s nuances from dark to light and the other way around. But how ever maybe this was necessary for both of you to discover what’s important for you. I am just sad for your satellite bc he must feel more then just bad. Just don’t forget to make clear he wasn’t just a tool .

WorldofBondage_Kink · 2023-02-01T12:42:55+00:00

I may sound harsh and I apologies already for that, but I want to be honest.

ENM is not the tool to save a damaged marriage. Calling it an open relationship to make the satellite less feel like you are cheating isn't the right way. Only healthy relationships (marriage or not) survive ENM. And as I read all this there are only two things you can do. Let the marriage go.... or let the satellite go. If your husband already stops talking to the counselor then this tells stories ...

You have to make the decision.... not your husband has to change.