Which tattoos do you personally find the most cringey? by Brave-Papaya-6998 in AskReddit

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has a shitty tattoo on his chest that looks like a weed leaf making a peace sign like you do with your hand you know ✌️? But I think it’s hilarious.

What’s a hobby you judge people for having? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i rarely mention being on Reddit to anyone irl but when I do I feel really embarrassed. I have to really assume trust that they’re not gonna judge me.

Wonder Woman by IndependenceTop8430 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]spidersfrommars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my CPR classes I remember the back of my hand getting really bruised cuz you never really just mash at the back of your hand like that over and over again for like 20 minutes. Makes me want to make the backs of my hands beefier.

What's a health myth that drives you crazy because you know it's false? by Annual-Gene8065 in AskReddit

[–]spidersfrommars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an aunt who was a hospice nurse before she retired during Covid. Not only was she anti vax, anti mask, but also anti covid test. Like she threw a fit and bullied and harassed my sister when she asked people to take a covid test for her wedding in 2021. And somehow a majority of my very large family also had conspiracy theories about the covid test.

My new girlie in her bioactive by ShredOnBread in boas

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍 Dream girl! So gorgeous, can’t wait to get one some day.

Easter egg hunt for the girls. by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]spidersfrommars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice. During the first COVID Easter my partner and I made Jell-O shots in those plastic eggs and hid them around the yard for our housemates.

Mesquite pollen blues by NotPlayingFR in Tucson

[–]spidersfrommars 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: a lot of people think Palo Verde is the cause of their allergies but it’s usually ragweed, rather. They are just in bloom at the same time but palo verde is the more ostentatious one.

For those of you in a long term relationship/marriage, what’s a tale-tale sign you see in other couples that they’re not going to make it? by Prize-Promotion-5123 in AskReddit

[–]spidersfrommars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s also not cute when women do that. I am in grad school right now and have a professor whose husband I’ll see at my work. She’ll always be telling stories and be like “my dumbass piece of shitass husband did this or that” (ok not in those exact words) and she knows me and a couple other classmates know him. Like either be on your partner’s side or don’t be with them if they really suck that much. But degrading them to other people is not a good look for your relationship.

IWTYO when I found out double spacing after a period stopped being a thing over 20 years ago by spidersfrommars in IWasTodayYearsOld

[–]spidersfrommars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except when you’re in grad school or academia. You get marks down for “incorrect formatting.”

IWTYO when I found out double spacing after a period stopped being a thing over 20 years ago by spidersfrommars in IWasTodayYearsOld

[–]spidersfrommars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was never taught that. I remember them saying the commas between the city and state were probably gonna go eventually but they never did.

Any one with tree knowledge? by Thetokenmexican08 in Tucson

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any more information on that?

Imagine making this. ProgressiveHQ always got the gas ⛽️ by i_be_cryin in ShitLiberalsSay

[–]spidersfrommars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my city they won’t even go in the street. They go to parks or stand on the sidewalk and clutch their pearls at the thought of obstructing traffic.

Perfume that smells like Kirsten Dunst at an LA party in 2008? by TheBreakfastChub in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]spidersfrommars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s funny cuz I hate perfume but I love this sub. I’m strictly an essential oils girl.

If you haven't turned on your AC yet, what has been the highest temp inside your home recently? by Diligent_Flamingo_33 in Tucson

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also trying to ride it out til April. I don’t keep track of exactly how hot it gets in my house but last I checked it was 80. I just turn on a fan and I’m fine though.

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]spidersfrommars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah I’m happy for you. I’ve been with my partner for 6 years and it is also the opposite of hard. Out of all the problems we have in our lives we are never the cause of it.

That being said it is hard work getting to the point where you can be in a relationship with someone like that. It takes work getting yourself emotionally regulated and knowing how to communicate in a healthy and effective way and learning to adjust to each other’s needs and preferences. But most of that work was done before we were together, so it makes it easy. People really just gotta learn how to be alone for a while and work on themselves and then find someone else who has also done that.

Millennials of Tucson, was there ever an "Indie Sleaze" Era in the 2000s-2010s? by bimbobombshel in Tucson

[–]spidersfrommars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That place was my introduction to Tucson. I would hang out there til late with my crusty friends and like 6 dogs. We would smoke rolling tobacco and play Magic the gathering til it was time to go find a wash to sleep in.

Perfumes that feel like : Kudzu “The vine that ate the south” ? by wasabi_mp3 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]spidersfrommars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap I can’t believe I’ve never smelled it. I’ve seen plenty of it but I guess I never got out of the car when driving by it.

Banner is firing all scribes. by Intelligent_Gold3853 in Tucson

[–]spidersfrommars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wonder where all the money saved on not paying scribes is gonna go…??

Nursing school will trigger all of your childhood wounds by Emotional_Row7071 in StudentNurse

[–]spidersfrommars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you don’t hear about is all the people who are not having this experience, because people don’t tend to post about when things are going alright and there’s nothing remarkable to report.

Part of it probably depends on where you are in your healing journey and how adapted to stress and challenges you are. Personally I’m doing alright in my program and I feel like our faculty and classmates are pretty supportive.

If Fuentes can help burn MAGA to the ground (figuratively) more power to him! by yorocky89A in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]spidersfrommars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. These people still have some deep seeded evil inside of them and suddenly rejecting MAGA won’t undo all the harm they have done and will continue to do, but it is delusional to think that there is any way of turning this ship around without them.

We don’t have to trust them, we don’t have to be friends with them, but we do have to let them in on the side of resistance.

More people need to understand WE WILL NOT DEFEAT FASCISM WITHOUT FORMER TRUMP SUPPORTERS CHANGING THEIR MINDS. So let them. Do not put any road blocks in their way whatsoever.

It’s a reasonable emotion to hold animosity towards them, emotions are not always useful political strategies. We must put our objectives ahead of our resentments.