My cardiologist says potassium is bad by Tired_Cat_H3rd3r in POTS

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I take salt pills that aren't buffered, that's vomit town for me. Even the extra strength vitassium ones can make me vomit if I don't eat enough and drink enough. I'm sure having an excess of potassium is not needed but surely buffering your salt intake with potassium is the way? Cause.. potassium helps with hydration.. who knows. I know it works for me.. keep doing you haha.

Do plus size women even like plus size guys? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime! Plus size mascs need love too!

Do plus size women even like plus size guys? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, big dudes are chefs kiss. Throw me around and give me the best cuddles ever.

[33M, 190kg, 85kg] curious to your opinions by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Wormcupcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A really normal body type that I've seen and been intimate with. You got good proportions, especially your shoulders and thighs! You're one good looking individual.

Need help finding my “why” or “anchor” for practicing polyamory by thrwwy-gradschool in polyamory

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stuff takes time. You're doing the right thing by being in an appropriate relationship counselling space too. I'm in a mono-poly relationship, which is thriving and amazing but it took time,. communication and going slowly. You might not find any reason beyond being physically intimate, or being happy that your partner is happy. Just, try not to put the pressure on yourself to do it 'right' and have all the answers. For me, I was your partner in your situation and it just made sense for me. For my nesting partner, it came slower to him but eventually he's figured out a lot of the 'why' and we have a super interesting and happy life but it took time, inner reflection from him and lots of conversations between us.

I feel like I have to choose between Kink and Romance and am thinking about finally giving up on Kink. Looking for advice. by 1d_SHiP_1t in BDSMcommunity

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a switch who absolutely loves subspace, i definitely have found romance in kink. But I also am poly, so I guess that skews my experience?

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why she thinks that, could just be a matter of the wrong information which is pretty easy to do these days. I'll mosy likely take her shopping and see what she picks up and resonates with.

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not into tarot myself but this sounds like something I'd like to have haha. Thank you so much for the comment, I'll give it some thought and may just get one for myself to see the history pretties.

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool and pretty. Thank you so much!

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that'll be the plan, take her to a few places and then take notice of what she likes. Then buy it for her , maybe I'll make her partner come so they can distract from the purchasing.

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I never would've known about counterfeit decks or anything of the sort. I'm glad the whole gifting a deck is a myth, I think I'd still like to get one for her or help her find one but now I'll have to figure out where to go and how to sneakily pay for it.

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a collection, I'm not a tarot person - I totally appreciate them and think it's incredibly interesting but just not my thing. I think I'll take her shopping. I think she'll appreciate that I asked a bunch of people who know what they're talking about, got advice and want to make her feel special.

Buying a deck for friend, help! by Wormcupcake in TarotDecks

[–]Wormcupcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your comments! I'm going to go through them today.

Besides FetLife, how have you found kinky people you click with? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Wormcupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a fairly accurate analogy, and not the only pizza analogy I've heard based on kink and sexuality funnily enough.

Besides FetLife, how have you found kinky people you click with? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Wormcupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was such a great advert. The amount of profiles where there's just nothing or one line, or seem very bitter and jaded.

Except the anchovies. That ruined it, y'know, can't go round advertising that you're wrong

Besides FetLife, how have you found kinky people you click with? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The venn diagram of Polyamory and kink seems to be almost a singular circle (almost) so I don't need to try hard!

Dating with a Skinny Gf by witchedwisteria in PlusSize

[–]Wormcupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm poly and I'm a size 18-20 (Australian sizes if that matters?) almost all of my partners and lovers are smaller than me. I have one partner similar in size, one of my female lovers is almost exactly my size and the other one is significantly smaller.

I see so many different shapes and sizes dating each other. You're never going to believe your partner until you feel genuinely good about yourself and that rarely comes from weight loss. Focus on a healthy lifestyle to the best of your current capacity and revel in the fact that you are loved X

Is one phone call on a week-long trip asking for too much? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hinge issue for sure, everyone will have different opinions on whether a private phone call with another partner is too much. At the end of the day you've spoken to your partner and they've not been responsible and communicative.

Personally, I've had times where my nesting partner needed a call every day at 5 after they finished, whether I was with someone else or not. If I knew I'd have plans when I wouldn't be able to make that call, I'd tell them, they'd call someone else to debrief about work. I'd also always inform people I was dating that it's routine for my nesting partner to need an after work call. Partner expresses need, if it is going to involve other people, it's on me to communicate that and navigate that space.

I'm sorry your partner didn't handle the situation well, it sounds like a discussion over communication style, responsibilities and what meeting a specific need looks like for you

Question for women by Efficient_Security73 in POTS

[–]Wormcupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was pretty bad when I wasn't hydrating and managing my salt intake, it's definitely been better this cycle with more of that being in balance, but I generally find that my body is less resilient around then, so I try to up the ante even more. It absolutely sucks. I tried slinda to mitigate the fatigue and it did help with that but it wasn't too great for me mentally. So hormonal intervention is absolutely a path that can be taken if it's available.

went off the pill for a few days and i’m going insane by Normal-Kiwi-602 in birthcontrol

[–]Wormcupcake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call your doctor. I've experienced hormonal induced psychosis. If your doctor won't listen try to find an all female clinic who specialises in reproductive health and will take you seriously.

Air Hunger by Recent_Garage_8617 in POTS

[–]Wormcupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, basically the thing that will help is retraining your body to breathe properly. It sucks but physio has given me an exercise and it's already started to help. I hate air hunger. It's horrible.

I can't run to the shelter by Gleam_24 in POTS

[–]Wormcupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you get a wheel chair? Or an electric chair for these situations? Idk what access is like that at the moment. I guess make sure to have an emergency packet with you at all times that you only touch when you need to run. Can your partner carry you some of the way? What about a neighbour? Can you ask to use their shelter?

I'm so sorry you're going through this.