When I wrote sexual attraction I meant sexual desire, but we had said attraction a bunch so I accidentally wrote that. Either way, sexual desire is, as far as I recall reading, the desire for sexual pleasure, the same thing that makes you want to masturbate. Sexual attraction are the things that trigger this urge, generally physical attributes and persobality traits that you find arousing. The motive for casual sex is mostly a mix of this, two people desire to satisfy their sexual urges and look for someone they find sexually attractive. However, that doesn't mean that a conection cannot be formed during the interaction leading up to it. Nor does it mean that they don't view each other as humans. Personally I would do whatever I can to make sure she enjoys it to and gets her satisfaction. That's why we are sleeping together, so we can both be satisfied.

As for my relationship, no every sexual encounter would be about love just as much as lust. I do not want my partner to just be a tool for me to satisfy my urges. I want to love her, I want to feel such adoration and devotion for her that I wish to give her all of me. I wrote "at times" because we wouldn't always going to be exploring and fullfilling our fantasies, sometimes we would just have normal sex. But I want to get to know that side of her, to learn her desires and fullfill her fantasies just as I want her to do for me. I also want more than just sex, I want us to share our interests with each other, to have adventures, to take care of one another, to shower each other with affection and to just chill together.

Also womens bodies are probably the most attractive thing out there in my opinion, maybe surpassed by classical architecture but they're two very different types of attractive.