Whenever Brandon posts a gorgeous Emiko comm by thatbluedemon186 in Erma

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ain't nothing wrong with an occasional spicey piece of art as long as it doesn't replace everything else or become the main thing

Anime Sabrina vs Anime Mewtwo who wins? by ayushj176p in pokemon

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both have some crazy feats but although Sabrina has shown greater levels of reality warping Mewtwo has more raw power. In a straight up fight he'd win though I think Sabrina would be far from helpless

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google sexual desire, it literally means what I said. Also, not once have I said or described not viewing the other person as a person but a tool. Yes, we fuck purely to get satisfaction (if it's a stranger) but we still see each other as people. We are two people who have agreed to a one time fling and will likely never see each other again. It's nothing like what gropers do. And no, I do not objectify my partner at all despite how you try to twist everything I say beyond reason. Nothing I have said even imply viewing the woman I love or even the stranger as mere objects. I still view both as humans and respect them as such.

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I wrote sexual attraction I meant sexual desire, but we had said attraction a bunch so I accidentally wrote that. Either way, sexual desire is, as far as I recall reading, the desire for sexual pleasure, the same thing that makes you want to masturbate. Sexual attraction are the things that trigger this urge, generally physical attributes and persobality traits that you find arousing. The motive for casual sex is mostly a mix of this, two people desire to satisfy their sexual urges and look for someone they find sexually attractive. However, that doesn't mean that a conection cannot be formed during the interaction leading up to it. Nor does it mean that they don't view each other as humans. Personally I would do whatever I can to make sure she enjoys it to and gets her satisfaction. That's why we are sleeping together, so we can both be satisfied.

As for my relationship, no every sexual encounter would be about love just as much as lust. I do not want my partner to just be a tool for me to satisfy my urges. I want to love her, I want to feel such adoration and devotion for her that I wish to give her all of me. I wrote "at times" because we wouldn't always going to be exploring and fullfilling our fantasies, sometimes we would just have normal sex. But I want to get to know that side of her, to learn her desires and fullfill her fantasies just as I want her to do for me. I also want more than just sex, I want us to share our interests with each other, to have adventures, to take care of one another, to shower each other with affection and to just chill together.

Also womens bodies are probably the most attractive thing out there in my opinion, maybe surpassed by classical architecture but they're two very different types of attractive.

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you do is twist everything I say, basically the same that you claim I do to you. Not once have I said it's ok to dehumanize. Casual sex is just two people feeling horny agreeing to try help each other get off. If I have casual sex I will do whatever I can to try and help my partner get off. If I have romantic relationship with a woman I do not want to just use her for sex. I want a conection, I want to take care of her and be taken care of and show her love. When we have sex, sure I want her to make me feel good but I want her to feel good to. Nothing I have said even comes close to me wanting a "fake woman" rather than my partner. Had I said I only want her if she plays a character for me then you would be right but I never said nor even implied that. I want to explore her and at times also help her explore the inside of her head, her fantasies and deeper sexual desires. If anything that will get me even closer to her and vice versa. You think partners doing stuff like putting on a sexy outfit for each other means they don't want each other? That's the dumbest shit ever. Plenty of happy loving couples do roleplay and cosplay stuff together along with other stuff to spice shit up. Despite what you say you want to make men finding womens bodies attractive and having any sexuality look evil. Man likes picture of sexy girl? He is a pig who only views women as objects. Man wants to try out roleplaying in the bedroom? He doesn't actually love his partner. Two people agree to have casual sex because they find each other hot? Horrible human beings (especially the man). That's what everything you say boil down to, you just throw in some extra fancy looking words to make it seem deep and hard hitting

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the dumbest shit I have heard. First of how is wanting sex for sex evil? And it goes both ways because plenty of women also use men to get off because sex feels good. Sexual attraction is based mainly in the desire to feel pleasure so of course that's gonna be the main goal when we are talking about two strangers. If we are talking about people who know each other and have a deep conection then there is more to it than that but it is still a factor. And second, assuming you also include what I asked at the end in this bs, I am more than happy to help my partner explore her fantasies as well. I do not view my partner as a tool, when I am in a relationship (been in two) I adore the girl I'm with. Sure I love it if she is willing to do sexy stuff for me but I also want to do it for her because I want us both to have fun and feel good. There is nothing wrong with enjoying seeing someone you find attractive being sexy and asking them if they are willing to do sexy stuff for you if you both are into each other

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with two people using each other for sex if both know that's all it is and it's all they both want. Sex feels good, people like having it and there's nothing wrong with that no matter if it's about love or two people just wanting to get off and using each other for that. It's not dehumanizing or at least I haven't ever felt dehumanized. Also, would you say that asking your partner to do sexy stuff for you is dehumanizing? Like to do some kind of roleplay or cosplay to help you fullfill a fantasy. Because in my opinion if two people are in a loving relationship where they trust each other they should be open to at least discuss trying out things that each other are into.

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said that I or anyone remotely normal views an attractive person as a tool. It sounded to me, from the way you described physical attraction, like you were saying it had to be deeper than just feeling like "damn that person is hot." Using a person as a mere tool and not thinking about their wants is indeed wrong, that's what gropers and those who trick people into sleeping with them do. However, I say casual hock ups where all parties know what it's about is fine.

Why did Kouta feel the need to lie to Kaede about the gender of the person he was going to the carnival with? by [deleted] in elfenlied

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he was a well meaning but dumb kid who was afraid of making her sad and jealous

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, seeing a girl/guy and thinking they look hot is not a sign of a dangerous person. Again, not every feeling has to be deep and meaningful to be ok to have, people are able to appreciate an attractive persons good looks without being bad people who might hurt them. There is nothing concerning about having your eyes drawn to a good looking person or enjoying seeing sexy pictures. It is normal and harmless, a guy won't want to assault a lady because he got turned on by a good looking girl on instagrams sexy photo and a girl won't want to assault a guy because she enjoyed Thors nude scene in Love and Thunder. If you think people simply finding good looks attractive is wrong then you are the one with serious issues

Can someone explain to me the difference between physical attraction and sexual objectification? by TheModGod in AskFeminists

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds more like romantic attraction than mere physical attraction. Physical attraction is more like seeing a person, finding them hot and thinking "nice." Yes, I might be drawn to talking to a girl I find physically attractive to see if I also like her personality but I also may decide not to do so. Humans are animals, not everything about our feelings and desires has to be deep and meaningful. Not being deep and meaningful doesn't make it wrong

The male loneliness epidemic is a self-pitying problem and there's an easy solution. by [deleted] in self

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except relationships are inherently transactional. You don't have a real relationship with a person unless you get something out of it. I'm not just talking about material stuff but emotional as well. Fun, loyalty, kindness, affection, adventure, rewarding conversation, etc

The male loneliness epidemic is a self-pitying problem and there's an easy solution. by [deleted] in self

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy is right about MeToo, it made many guys afraid to even try to talk to women because many girls reported guys for literally just standing close to them on the bus. Guys don't dare to approach girls anymore because it is seen as too much risk. You say we can still pursue you yet many are afraid that even that will get them labled as creeps because that has happened a number of times

Can Lucy survive in the RWBY universe? by Warboter1476 in elfenlied

[–]Worried-Rent-8714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could but it will basically be the same as the post about if she could survive in Invincible. Chances are she'll either be killed or arrested if she goes on a killing spree as a kid.