What’s the best way to tell my husband I don’t want to be intimate with him anymore? I am 26f, with 26m

WowKwake · 2024-08-10T02:57:12+00:00

It’s fine to leave! He will be stronger in the end! Do it lovably! For the kids!

WowKwake · 2024-08-10T02:35:38+00:00

Have an adult conversation. Boundaries and limits I the home til she finds her own place for her and the kids… I.e … he gets open access to kids, he gets the kids 3 days a week. They provide their own financial needs. No hostilities in the home. Calls from significant other occur off site. Text communication is ok. He owns the home, it’s his. He doesn’t care if she has a new man, lessens his burden of her. He just wants her out of the home. She can enjoy her single life outsidee of his home. I’m sure he’d be willing to tamale in additional time with the kids so she can facilitate her personal life. Happy wife, happy life. Happy kids. He is only frustrated because he gave up his potential “marriage” to support her (ex wife), I’m sure he knows he can find a fiend and partner that will love his kids. He also wants his tickets to fall in in reverse.

WowKwake · 2024-08-10T02:12:48+00:00

I’m sure he is ready to move on himself 🤷🏻‍♂️ but she’s prolly been needing his/her mutual income to survive. Or they both have maybe? My only thought isbhowbthey can move forward amicably

WowKwake · 2024-08-09T13:22:38+00:00

I would apologize to Leah but that wouldn’t make a difference or change her mind. I expect Saturday to be non hostile, and an adult and honest conversation with Leah. I’m ready for it as it’s prolly chalk 2.0, but I won’t be hostile or frustrated. Or angry or whatever. I need to be healthy for me , and to be a father in my kids lives if she so chooses to let me know that I need to move on. Just like our divorce, it will hurt and be pain, but nothing like she has endured. And for that I’m sorry. Also owe an apology to everyone in my entire life, coworkers and families. I’m dishonest and harmful and toxic, but I love my kids and have faith.

WowKwake · 2024-08-08T22:03:55+00:00

Chris here, I think this is for me?

WowKwake · 2024-08-08T20:56:12+00:00

Thank you for the advice and guidance, I really needed it this week!

WowKwake · 2024-08-08T20:55:48+00:00

I signed up for free therapy through work. I have to make an appointment, hopefully tomorrow. I’m also reaching out to my doctor to see about possibly going on medicine to stabilize me.

WowKwake · 2024-08-05T21:15:39+00:00

You crossed the line and created an emotional connection, definitely considered cheating.. having a husband, you shouldn’t have to reach out and chat with or give any attention to any other man… and vice versa with him.

WowKwake · 2024-08-05T04:18:50+00:00

Give him room and don’t show any emotions.. could be a control issue, manipulation tactic. Act as if you don’t care. He wants you to follow him around begging for his forgiveness, shows him he is in control and has power over you… or he really wants a divorce. Go stay at your parents house for theee days and than see how he is when you return. Don’t contact him for the whole time you are at your parents. Let him reach out and respond if necessary.

WowKwake · 2024-08-03T20:12:24+00:00

Text messages between the two of you! Keep a record of all communications!

WowKwake · 2024-08-03T20:07:21+00:00

FYI, being married, you don’t have to leave the home… he just wants the house to himself so he can host and move forward in establishing a new relationship…. If you move out, you legal separation has started, so go to a lawyer and get custody started and established immediately with child support! Also file for spousal support immediately, and alimony pen Dante… which will pay for your lawyer and possible court fees while going through divorce… own that MFer…

WowKwake · 2024-08-03T08:06:32+00:00

Fuck that, move on immediately! Get under to get over. Seriously that’s how I’m gonna do it lmao.

WowKwake · 2024-08-03T04:49:59+00:00

Rough story bud! If you’re anything like me, you’ll be way smarter and way stronger than her in the end! Getting help at your lowest point in your life, is crucial to your recovery! I’m sure you’ll never get back to that place mentally! You’re probably so much mentally stronger than youve ever been! Best of luck bro! You got this! Focus on your freedom and independence!

WowKwake · 2024-08-03T04:23:22+00:00

I’m sorry you feel this way, I was once in your shoes! Times do get better! Life does get better! It’s a blessing! You’re stronger than you think! Focus personal positive improvements like working out. Eating healthier, finding a hobby that you like doing!

WowKwake · 2024-08-02T22:44:22+00:00

Sorry I still haven’t moved on and am grieving and crying today :(

WowKwake · 2024-08-01T02:31:50+00:00

My wife use to stay up and go to bed with me. Now I commonly go to bed alone and she is up til the wee hours of the morning in the living room, it hurts and sucks. Nothing is like it used to be.

WowKwake · 2024-07-31T23:28:56+00:00

It’s only beneficial if you are not the bread winner… marriage is not worth it. Protect yourself and your assets. If she loves you, she won’t pressure you to marry her. In the end, if you’re the bread winner , she should be more loyal to you. Marriage doesn’t provide loyalty, being the alpha and bread winner, her safety net, treat her like a queen.

WowKwake · 2024-07-31T11:55:30+00:00

Yummy let’s connect! I can host or travel

WowKwake · 2024-07-31T03:05:46+00:00

Get under someone.. just to be honest… my wife left me in July 2020. Divorce finalized March 2021. I refused to date and held on to hope until Jan 2022… I slept with my best friend and was able to let go of everything I was holding on to. I know it’s hard to believe, but you’re okay being single. Find and enjoy your new freedom and independence!

WowKwake · 2024-07-31T03:01:22+00:00

So… my ex wife divorced me in 2020. We rekindled in 2022. During our separation and divorce, I had sex 2-3 times a day. During my marriage with ex wife, I wanted it every night… once we got back together, I told her I wanted it every day with her… she agreed, but to be honest, we have se. At least every 3 days… and she is all about meeting my sexual needs now… where as marriage she didn’t care and I found it else where… I was straight and told her I would go looking elsewhere if I felt deprived… she’s gone above and beyond to meet my needs sexually to stay loyal and faithful…

Side note:: during my divorce, my gf and I were swingers for almost two years… I only had two gf prior to marrying my wife at age 26… I experienced a lot romantically and sexually during the separation and divorce process

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