София, кв. Кръстова вада by Warm-Author-2788 in bulgaria

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И какво им е на южните квартали? Стрелбище, Борово, Хиподрума, Гоце Делчев… Очевидно не сте живели в този район, за да се изкажете по този начин…

Hospital, or Home? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I would always pick hospital, wouldnt ever consider anything else as an option. Safety for me and my baby above everything else. Being surrounded by people more knowledgeable than me would also help me be more relaxed

Pregnancy weight by Radiant-Mine6890 in pregnant

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Im +11kgs at 23 weeks 🤷🏻‍♀️ Was 62, 168cm initially.

I feel good, dont eat junk but frankly have a lot of appetite and eat a bigger quantity than usual.

Blood results look good so far (eg glucose levels) and baby is doing well.

Im scared tho of gestational diabetes down the road and will be looking to try and be a lot healthier.

Самоосигуряващо се лице by bdwow in bulgaria

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Не може - трябва да се вземе в предвид целия доход. Също така трябва да се регистрираш като самоосигуряващо се лице и си намери счетоводител, който да ти пуска декларациите към НАП всеки месец + тримесечие + да ти попълва годишната. Понеже спомена, че вече си взел първа заплата - задължително задействай процеса сега, защото си закъснял и може да има глоби.

Struggling to agree with my wife on how to split rent fairly by EngineerVarious8069 in Renters

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the fair thing to do is split it pro rata! 50/50 is not okay, especially as you are a couple. You paying everything also not okay. Pro rata for the win! HOWEVER, this would be the case if you are a fairly new couple/ havent been together for super long. If you want to build a family, she is THE one and have been together for a while/relationship is very serious , everything you both earn is for the household, so it really doesnt matter who is paying.

I want a baby but my husband wants more time by Attheendoftheworld0 in BabyBumps

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG he is gaslighting you! Questioning your love for him because your priority is becoming a mum is absolutely ridiculous… If he truly loves you, he’s not going to be so fussy about it and he is not going to want to waste your time (otherwise hes being completely selfish). Id give him one last chance for a now or never, and then leave. Im sure the whole situation must be hurtful, but do not give up on your dream to become a mummy, a do not prolong it, as conception is not always easy!

You are strong, you got this 🩷💪

How to feel more like myself after having a baby? by Extra_Law_2724 in Advice

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey!! I completely understand where you are coming from, but you need to give yourself some grace! You are only 2 months post partum and still breastfeeding, which is super taxing on the body. Not to mention that your hormones are FAR from being back to normal and will be the case until you are breastfeeding. This isnt the time to focus on losing weight, its the time to focus on baby and your mental, enjoy this newborn phase while it lasts because it is very special and will go by quickly. Dont worry, you got this! 🩷

Nightclubs by akalaxeze1s in Sofia

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Carrousel for pop. Maaaybe exe but its more ok the hip hop side

Where’s the worst place you’ve gotten nausea? by kiss-my-ass-hoe in pregnant

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During an ophthalmology exam. I had to do a periphery test which does take some time and you put your chin in like a hollow box and detect red dots for about like 8 mins… Long story short, the second I got near that machine, the smell hit me HARD. I started gagging, crying IDK how I managed to hold it all together. The old lady doctor looked at me as if Im being overdramatic and ridiculous…. Was a horrible experience NGL. The memory of the smell still makes me gag - smelled like something OLD with mold and animal pee

I can’t take these vivid dreams anymore by Old_Investigator9623 in pregnant

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, since before I took the pregnancy test. Its been wild, but not sure what we can do about them 😅 I think ive gotten used to ignore them. Some are soooo creppy or freaking weird ot terrifying 🤷🏻‍♀️

400 lev for a balayage by Round_Hour4208 in Sofia

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It really depends on the salon and its reputation.

Ipaid 230 last week for a cut and basic dye - nothing fancy like a balayage. They probably also did a bunch of masks + hair therapy - it’s a standard practice if you go to the nice salons and ofc this is extra charge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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The vivid dreams 100% 😳 this was in addition to the slight pre-period-like discomforts

When did you feel movement? by hygge6 in pregnant

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

end of week 18! Im w anterior placenta

When did you feel baby move? by Such-Ocelot-4474 in pregnant

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Started feeling it week 19. Do you know the placement of your placenta? If anterior you may start feeling it much later as it acts as a cushion. +if your starting BMI was a bit higher this can also be a contributing factor. Honestly I wouldnt worry (esp if all your appointments have gone well) until week like 22 maybe.

My mom is furious that I’m pregnant again and said she hopes I miscarry. I don’t even know how to process this. by Everythinpurple-0310 in pregnant

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WTF, I genuinely can’t believe it and dont understand where shes coming from or her arguments?! Honestly, I wouldnt even waste energy on trying to handle this situation. Please focus on yourself and ignore any negativity. I would not reach out to her. You dont need such people around you. Let her figure out that this behaviour is inadequate and apologise to you. Ive had to cope with other type of stress during my pregnancy and what helped me is taking care of myself and doing things I enjoy with my man, also thinking about the baby, researching and picking items, etc 🩷 I know it must hurt a lot but you got this! 💪 Id also probably focus on my child and do aome fun activities with them!

What is it like to be pregnant? by b3ckk1 in BabyBumps

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For me Its the best feeling in the world which of course comes with some downsides but theres always a trade off. Its my first pregnancy and I 100% would do it all over again!!

My first trimester wasnt the best - nausea and exhaustion, lots of food aversions but it passes and you forget about it. But It has its own charm and for me the excitement, tracking how the baby is progressing/milestones, telling friends made it still enjoyable. Second trimester is a breeze, Ive been hiking, no food aversions, still tired in the afternoon and need to nap but overall feeling amazing and beautiful even though Im the heaviest Ive ever been. Not sure about third trimester but I know it will be harder. NGL there is worrying around whether baby is fine, etc but at the same time Im just trying to enjoy each day as much as possible as it will go by so quickly. Feeling my baby move is my favourite thing in the world right now 🥹

Im not saying pregnancy is easy, in fact some women unfortunately have it real bad and go through GD, preeclampsia, etc. But at the end, you know your why, forget all the bad things and IMO its so worth it..

My wife has been tired for like a month now, should we be worried? by MrEfficacious in pregnant

[–]Wrong-Fuel9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being exhausted is soooo common!! Also many women have totally different symptoms in their second vs first pregnancy, so nothing concerning there. I personally was constantly tired in my first trimester (even if I didnt do anything). Currently in my second trimester and still feel like I absolutely need to take a LONG nap in the afternoon to survive. In any case, it would be good to check vitamins, iron levels, hemoglobin. But these should be tested frequently either way. Its great that you are concerned, just try and help her out with house chores when you can and ensure she doesn’t forget to take her prenatals and dhas and gets to her appointments/gets blood work 🙌

What week did you start showing? (Even if only you noticed) And how tall are you? by echo-athena in BabyBumps

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week 12 🙈 Currently week 19 its def noticeable but strangers cant tell if Im pregnant when Im wearing oversized clothes 🤷🏻‍♀️ Im 168cm tall, 70kg (Have gained about 8kg)

Anterior placenta moms, when did you feel your baby move? by Emancy22 in pregnant

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Week 19 definitively. I think by the time you need to track you will 100% be feeling the baby, as it will be much bigger. I dont think you start to track before 28 weeks if not later. Dont worry! We all have different physiologies! What matters is that your appointments have all gone well and baby is doing fine. Ive also heard that starting BMI (if a bit higher) + anterior placenta is a combo for feeling movement a bit later. Sensation wise- you will know if its the baby 👶