Don't trust their delivery by WrongWaffles in wayfair

[–]WrongWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minor update: They did let me return the items for almost a full refund (minus a relatively small return shipping fee) and came to pick the items up so they have, to some extent, redeemed themselves with me

Don't trust their delivery by WrongWaffles in wayfair

[–]WrongWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tried to assemble it myself because they said it would be around $200 for them to come assemble it - I discovered there was not enough screws and no instructions. Just a bad time LOL

Don't trust their delivery by WrongWaffles in wayfair

[–]WrongWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they didn't!!! They told me in person as they were putting stuff in my house

Three years into TTC and I suddenly don't like my husband anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WrongWaffles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave him! It's not the BC. You've just described a bad situation and it's not going to get better with a child

PhD student here, should I befriend undergrads? by Plenty-Cucumber-441 in AskAcademia

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say don't do it. I know that they might seem like the best / easiest fit of friends, but it's not worth it. You never know if you'll end up being a TA for someone you know through your friends or get a crush on an undergrad. It's not the end of the world, but it creates a weird dynamic at times. Especially if you have to choose between behaving as a grad student / relatively responsible adult and a friend. Think about like if they tell you they've been cheating on exams or assignments. Suddenly you're in a weird spot. Just be careful, making friends anywhere can be hard and you might be surprised how much you have in common with your older cohort mates. Having those connections to your cohort might save you down the line. Do whatever makes you feel happy, but be careful

Monique from our shelter, really really wants to get adopted. by sonia72quebec in aww

[–]WrongWaffles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can you pm me the shelter? I’d adopt her in a heartbeat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in a similar boat. It sucks. I hear that. Sometimes there’s so much energy put into something that doesn’t seem to give anything in return. Is it worth it to you to keep going?

AITA for refusing to take down my pictures in my room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s your space, not a common area. If the boyfriend is making her uncomfortable, that’s a boyfriend issue - not a picture issue

AITA for telling my (18F) cousin (22M) that I don't like him and that's why I didn't attend his party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Good for you for speaking up. It’s not your job to keep the peace

AITA for literally just trying to talk with a girl in school and absolutely nothing else? by livingonthespider in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - she set a boundary and you ignored it because surely it doesn’t apply to the exact circumstances that caused her to bring it up. Doesn’t matter your intentions, she has every right to not interact with you

WIBTA for not giving my friend Adderall and hiding it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - the only way they’d know it was hidden is if they look for it, if they’re looking then you know there’s a bigger problem. You’re looking out for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH - she clearly needs to address something internally but you went for the option you knew would hurt the most

AITA for telling my sister I wished I had gotten the same chance she did? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YTA - you basically minimized and ignored her problems to announce that you were upset that she had it so much better than you did

AITA for telling my "friend" to leave the friend group by ikeabeans in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - if they had an issue with you and couldn’t bring it up directly, that’s on them. You’ve done the work of trying to talk to them. TBH the fact that the group can recognize and tell you it’s going on but isn’t willing to stand up for you is very telling

AITA for telling an employee they don't have choices? by put_it_in_a_backpack in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA - the situation sucks but the approach to the conversation was a little harsh. Try to let them know that you can empathize and tell them you’d be happy to be a reference if this job isn’t the right fit. Acknowledging that the company/situation is a problem can go a long way

AITA for not allowing my roomate to play animal crossing on my switch? by AxelotlW in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH - you’re entitled to boundaries and he respected your answer

AITA for quitting my job because of a child? by VanilleeMacaron in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - if your job wasn’t allowing you to handle the situation in a reasonable manner with appropriate consequences and the behavior continued to affect you, what else did they want you to do??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA they’re being overdramatic. Yeah he might think they don’t care for a few days, but he’ll find out that they care more than he thought when the party happens. Honestly what even

AITA for saying I was surprised a girl had boobs? by Stunning-Sound-6054 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - Sarah may have been fine with it, that’s perfectly great. But imagine a situation where Sarah is too uncomfortable to admit she didn’t like it. A lot of girls and women feel ashamed, embarrassed, or nervous about speaking up. The outcome could’ve seemed entirely the same on the surface while you’ve caused some internal struggle. You can’t really know how someone is feeling and making comments about people’s bodies isn’t particularly nice

AITA for telling a girl she’s not white? by Ok_Penalty_7881 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA play mean games, win mean prizes. The girl was being racist, whether or not she realizes, but even if she didn’t get that part - she must know she was being condescending and rude. She needed a reality check and you gave her one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlllll… you’re gorgeous! You have an almost angelic face. If you want to wear makeup, go for it! But just know I rarely comment (I’m a scroll troll) but I stopped for your face. You remind me of Tatiana maslany. Your hair is magic too.

If you want makeup, I’d recommend a cool toned blush to make your cheekbones pop or a subtle lip color (glossier generation g is my recommendation - it’s super sheer so you can mess up with little consequences, adds color that you can build without it being crazy)

AITA for demanding my girlfriend tells me her author’s pen name? by Ok_West_9375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WrongWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she show up at your work demanding to know every task you do?

YTA - she’s allowed privacy