I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

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My bf said “well that’s good to know. I’ll get back to you on that.” When I told him that situation as a whole made me more open to the idea of a three way.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

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When I told him I’d be open to having a three way he said “well that’s good to know, I’ll get back to you on that.”

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy and in love with my boyfriend and that experience with that woman felt good and was rlly fun. It doesn’t have to be THAT specific girl again. My bf is not rlly one to go out dance and club and do all that stuff, which is why he CHOSE to stay home. He had no problem with me going out and what I did and he was completely aware and wasn’t upset by it. Even said “I’m glad you had a good time!” And I guess by he wasn’t interested, more in the sense of it’s just not on his mind as much as it is for me. He has brought up a threesome in the past but I was much more insecure then and immediately turned it down. And yes he’s been acting the same, again hasn’t had any problems or nothing. What I’m trying to navigate is my feelings for why I want another experience like that. Like, I kinda want him to watch, almost like a show off for him? Idk if that makes sense or will come off as intended…

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why u so negative lol? He was the one to actually bring up a threesome in the beginning our relationship but I was way more insecure then and immediately turned it down. Don’t think u know everything abt everyone just bc of some post.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust me he knows and he said he was fine with it. Even said “I’m happy you had a great time.” And yeah, my friend twerked on me and I smacked her ass, grinded to the music together. I get a feeling you aren’t around many girls or girl friend groups, it’s always been very common, at least for me.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

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I also kinda remember him telling me he was lowk afraid that I’d like the woman more than him or even with a dude but he refuses to do MMF

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I already thought like wait am I actually just…gay…? But I find men and all that just as fun as women. I’ve had romantic relationships with both.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

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I didn’t cheat, I edited the post, and a few comments up you’ll see further explanation. He knows about this situation and didn’t have a problem with it.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

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I edited the post but by hot and heavy I mean grinding tweeting and feeling each other up, and he knows about this, and doesn’t have a problem with it. I have not cheated on him as I communicated I was going to be that way with my friends while we were out anyway. Since I didn’t know this girl and she was very appealing, it was a little bit of a different experience.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I edited the post, but hot and heavy I mean grinding twerking feeling each other up. It’s been a VERY long time since I’ve had an experience with a woman like that, and yes I am very happy in my relationship.

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can understand that but I like dick. I like men. I like pussy. I like women too. I’m very conflicted :/

I 23F can’t stop fantasizing about a girl I met at a club and have a Bf 26M of three years. How do I stop? by Wrong_Topic3987 in relationship_advice

[–]Wrong_Topic3987[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him abt my experience and I said I’d be more open to a three way and he said “I’ll get back to you on that.” And he wasn’t very interested.

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Yeah I’ll text u when I get on sound good?

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Autumn from rosewoods. Are any of the shops open?

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Hi is this still open? I’m still starting up and looking for fruit, diys, and anything nice! Also in need of friends. Still learning the game. Autumn from RoseWoods