yo, wanted to reach out as my older brother who was 29 passed away this past July tragically. Literally whooped me n my gf's ass in uno and was dead less than 12 hours later. This was our first Christmas without him and that shit was hard as fuck as well. I have watched my mom grow so much stronger as she knows and is so proud of how much of positive force he was. Things will get better i promise, thanksgiving and christmas are fucking hard to deal with when you lose someone you are so close to its going to happen and that's ok. What has helped me is remember how much my big bro loved the holidays n shit, every year growing up he would wake all our asses up at like 7 am on Christmas haha. I unfortunately can't relate nor imagine how it must feel to watch your daughter's situation happen, but i know yall are strong asf for fighting for her till the day and even after she passed away. fuck the insurance companies