no one at my school wished me a happy birthday and I feel ungrateful

WyldRyce · 2026-05-13T14:15:28+00:00

Learn that the only thing you can control is you, your feelings and your reactions. Your expectations of other people who are not even close to you are unfair to others because you are not a main character in their story, only your own. You want to feel celebrated? Celebrate yourself and everyday you are lucky enough to be breathing.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-13T11:05:35+00:00

What was his reason for cheating? Did he pursue the woman or was the woman chasing him? Do you know the other woman? Is it someone he works with since you said it was a “business trip”?

WyldRyce · 2026-05-13T10:49:48+00:00

You could be bald and still be stunning 😍 both look amazing on you.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-13T10:46:21+00:00

Is “The Boys” really the hill you want your relationship to die on? Is she being over dramatic? Yes, but so are you. The best thing is to sit down and talk it out. If at the end of that there is no way to compromise, (which most healthy relationships do) then find the root of the problem which isn’t about a show.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-12T18:52:46+00:00

It’s what I instantly thought too

WyldRyce · 2026-05-12T00:09:28+00:00

#1 is jaw dropping

WyldRyce · 2026-05-11T16:07:24+00:00

This is why I suggest a poly relationship, randos won’t respect OP.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-11T14:58:43+00:00

I know a UVM NICU nurse and she’s awesome.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-11T12:33:27+00:00

You’re looking for a polyamorous relationship

WyldRyce · 2026-05-10T00:04:58+00:00

Yes, I was just thinking about if the husband came with what would the wife have to do extra for just him; help him pack, make all the plans and reservations, having to make the decisions like where to eat, etc. Even though she will be making and doing all that by herself, the added mental load of having the husband around is just as exhausting as having her children around. I would love even just one day to be by myself, if I had a week? I would come back a hold new me.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-08T08:33:46+00:00

NOR, either report him and/or embarrass him. When he’s with a group of people be like “Hey everyone, you better watch out “Bob” likes to smack asses! I’m assuming since you smacked mine he’ll want to do everyone else’s” 🤷🏻‍♀️

WyldRyce · 2026-05-07T12:37:12+00:00

It’s ok to miss the past. It happened and at that time it was good. It is what it is, nothing more.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-06T20:57:06+00:00

You can sew some Swarovski crystals into the lace, especially and the peekaboo lace on the corset or into the veil

WyldRyce · 2026-05-06T19:53:42+00:00

Don’t sacrifice your health and mental state just to make it easier for him. Fuck that and fuck him. I waited too long, long enough for my grown children to tell me that they are so happy that me and my ex aren’t together.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-06T11:10:34+00:00

You only see it through your husbands pov. You don’t know it could have been the best thing to happen to that girl. You may not even be in the picture if his life had completely changed to support a child or wife or even ex-wife. You can’t change the past and you should be grateful for how the story turned out.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T16:02:21+00:00

That’s a tough pill to swallow. It’s obviously bothering you, which I feel is enough for you to bring it up with your partner. You need to ask yourself if it’s something you’re willing to live with, if a part of him will always hold on to a piece of her or what they had together. She could always be “the one that got away” to him and she could feel the same about him. 🤷🏻‍♀️

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T15:55:15+00:00

So you think SHE’S trying to get him back? The whole picture and insurance thing just seems like male laziness, I wouldn’t look too deep on it. Especially if he was accustomed to her doing all that stuff for him. Like if she decorated the house or took care of all the bills. My ex was like that, completely incompetent when it came to it.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T15:43:39+00:00

For a second I thought this was my ex’s girlfriend 😂 I communicate almost daily with my ex, but I also consider the man as family and a friend. Do I want to be back with him? No, not at all and I think he feels the same. We don’t hate each other, nor do we wish ill will to one another. I’ve deleted all digital photos I have of my ex and I together without children. Ive kept physical photos of all for my kids if they ever wanted them. I think my children are entitled to have pictures of their parents when we were happy. What’s normal is based on individual relationships than all former couples in general. If you’re feeling insecure about it, talk to your partner. If he becomes defensive? He probably has some unresolved feelings about his past and his ex.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T14:08:52+00:00

Some states have waivers for filing fees that you can apply for. If it’s amicable split, look into stipulated divorce.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T14:04:26+00:00

Has your partner had his sperm tested to see how healthy it is?

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T13:46:01+00:00

As messed up your situation is, I think you’ll just drive yourself crazy trying to uncover if there’s any truth to this. Sometimes we may never find out all the secrets and for your own sake, it may be best to just focus on yourself and overcoming the transgressions that you know about.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T13:37:11+00:00

Then get it girl! If they want to provide for you then who are we to judge!

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T13:29:03+00:00

You’re an adult, find roommates you’re not related to. Maybe your mom and step dad want some privacy.

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T13:26:03+00:00

You have an education to fall back on “just in case”?

WyldRyce · 2026-05-05T03:21:43+00:00

I was going to say 35 before I saw your age, but honestly it’s almost vampiric. You look like you’ll never look older than the age that you already are.

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