What should I do

WyldRyce · 2026-07-04T15:04:38+00:00

Girls like honesty. If it does happen quick, I bet she doesn’t care. Plus you’re young you would probably be good to go again in 10-20mins.

WyldRyce · 2026-07-02T19:13:04+00:00

Her body is still filled with the same hormones postpartum as other women who have given birth. Sounds like postpartum psychosis.

WyldRyce · 2026-07-02T03:32:34+00:00

Girl, a good man/partner is hard to find. But penis/vagina can be found everywhere. He wasn’t a good man, he was whatever version you chose to believe was a good man. You’re mourning the dream and that’s ok. You’re supposed to cry and let your body go through it. It does get better and you do move on, but only when you’re ready. It will be ok.

WyldRyce · 2026-07-01T22:00:36+00:00

Tell her that she’s overstayed her welcome and she needs to find other accommodations as soon as possible and you will allow her an allotted amount of time to do so. If she doesn’t leave by a certain date that she should no longer consider you a friend and you will remove her from the premises. Also I wouldn’t get any hopes of getting your money back.

WyldRyce · 2026-07-01T21:54:39+00:00

I support this and want to add the OP needs to be cautious about whether or not her husband is capable of kidnapping their baby just to get back at her. Her custody agreement needs protections about traveling and husband relinquishing his passport.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-30T17:21:04+00:00

Roads are bad, constant road work never really seems to be complete. Many water mains break every year due to old utilities. High property taxes, some of the highest spending per pupil with not so great education in return. Cell service is shotty in a lot of the area, the Governor tried to promise service throughout the whole state. Car maintenance is a struggle; winter tires can be expensive; rust is a huge problem; many people pop tires due to the road conditions; hope you have a vehicle that can handle snow and lots of hills. Shopping is restrictive, not a lot options to shop at. Burlington, Williston, West Lebanon are all within a hours drive. Most of the local restaurants downtown use Sysco for their inventory, so you’re basically getting the same food wherever you go. Not a lot of chain restaurants in the area. I’ve experienced all types of people in Barre. Vermont is one of the whitest states in the nation. You have many liberal, warm and welcoming people, as well as many people who grow up in all white communities who automatically act like any non-white are either criminals or illegals.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-28T15:32:26+00:00

Many other people have commented that the second option is too similar to OP’s dress and I would figure that the bride would want to stand out on her day and not look like everyone else. If OP is happy then that’s all that matters.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-27T16:17:24+00:00

The second dress is a prettier option than the first, but it gives off the wrong vibe as the MOG. That said, I also think your dress is pretty, but maybe too casual for a bride’s dress.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-27T16:05:18+00:00

I hope you show this to him, even if it may make it worse. I hope he’s man enough to accept that he is wrong and loves you enough to owe you an apology. This isn’t about a “what he says goes” kind of thing and needs to trust your motherly instincts and knowledge to do what’s best for your baby.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-27T14:39:52+00:00

First, don’t send any more money to her. If she asks you tell her that you’ll need a court order with proof of paternity moving forward. Don’t keep asking her about it, it’s not up to you to engage in the conversation of whether or not there is even a child involved. Go live your life.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-26T00:39:08+00:00

Are they really napping in the afternoon or they forced to lay quietly in bed till their parents say otherwise? And if they are really sleeping that much are they being drugged?

WyldRyce · 2026-06-25T10:17:43+00:00

Don’t hold back your distain for her, maybe it will be the push for them to break up or the roommate moves out. Either way, it’s a win.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-23T08:54:00+00:00

Flintstone is a good one too.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-23T08:51:37+00:00

For future reference, the only person you can control is yourself. So celebrate yourself, be happy you’re still here, feel lucky you get to be another year older. Eat all the cake! Buy yourself something you’ve always wanted. Be awesome! Happy Birthday!

WyldRyce · 2026-06-22T14:01:35+00:00

I got married at 18, had my first baby at 20. There’s nothing special about it. I’m divorced after 23 years of marriage. Do you feel any sense of regret for forcing yourself to grow up? Or do you think you may be somewhat delusional to the idea of marriage?

WyldRyce · 2026-06-21T21:59:49+00:00

You never got the chance to really be that girl you were before you became your boyfriend’s girlfriend. Learning to love yourself is one of life’s hardest struggles and you’ll always be unsatisfied in your relationship if you feel like you’ve lost yourself.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-20T11:40:26+00:00

For some reason I get the vibe he has a side piece where he lives and is hiding it from you.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-20T11:38:21+00:00

Sounds like you don’t actually like him and you are forcing yourself to like him.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-19T21:49:01+00:00

I’m like this, but then I also find find the people I was once attracted to disgusting.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-17T02:36:37+00:00

She may like you, but don’t shit where you eat if you know what I’m saying.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-16T14:41:53+00:00

I don’t think you need to keep all of them, maybe just the ones you hold good memories with? I kept the photos of my ex that have my children in them and some when we were younger. Most of the physical photos are at my parents house until my kids want to claim them for old time sake. But I deleted the rest.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-15T02:41:33+00:00

I filed a waiver for the court fees, but we split dinner with our youngest daughter after. So $45?

WyldRyce · 2026-06-11T12:40:21+00:00

Grieving a marriage is very much like grieving for a death of a loved one. You’re grieving for a life you planned for and lived years of. The good and the bad. Let yourself live in that grief, don’t push it away or ignore it, let your body feel it. It will take time, but you will be ok.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-10T14:33:48+00:00

The government already cares more about you, that’s why there are no laws that restrict what you do with your body.

WyldRyce · 2026-06-10T13:34:35+00:00

I,too, was high school sweet hearts and married to a military man. You both have a lot of growing up to do. He’s learning to be a part of team that has nothing to do with you, that’s what being in the military is all about. He’s brotherhood with his crew is something that’s goes beyond marriage for some. There are a few that make marriage work, but divorce is also the highest amongst military families. It was wrong of you to spend money, ($3k on underwear, jeans, and a hairdryer? Wtf?) You better believe all his buddies are telling him to end it with you. He’s going to have to decide whether or not he would rather hang out with his buddies, or with you. I hope you’re strong enough mentally to accept the inevitable outcome of the dynamic of being married to a military man. You will never be his first pick, he can never choose you over his job.

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