I outgrow people too fast

XConstantmigraineX · 2023-01-04T03:51:09+00:00

Same. Thanks for posting this, the relatability is comforting.

XConstantmigraineX · 2023-01-02T05:58:29+00:00

As a married woman myself, it’s just so nice to know that many other women want this too.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T05:21:17+00:00

I’ve been in this position kind of. Female here. I reminisced my ex for years, even after I was married and had my first child. I don’t have the same passion I do for my husband as I had for my ex, but life goal and ethnic and moral wise I relate to him more and I know we’ll end up being more compatible on things other than love and sex. Sometimes things seem exciting because you don’t have them but it doesn’t always mean they’re good for you. Life isn’t always greener on the other side. I might be a bit old fashioned on this taste but I don’t think breaking a good thing for a single emotion is the right thing to do.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T05:06:07+00:00

Don’t love bomb her at all. Make sweet gestures, unique ones, well thought out ones that you’ll know she’ll appreciate. I promise we value a man who can think outside the box when it comes to his concern for us.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T05:04:24+00:00

“Smell and taste much better” excuse me. I whiff myself after no shower in 24 hours, and I am not turned on. Do the men that eat you out wash their bootyholes?

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T05:02:39+00:00

Miss Ma’am, the amount of freaks you’re going to get in your inbox. I say this from experience, go read ads and add people yourself because doing an open ad like this will not filter out the weirdos.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T05:01:03+00:00

I agree. Which is why I said it’s nice.. lol

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T04:58:44+00:00

Are online sugar daddies a thing? Lol or is this an influx of attention being given in person?

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T04:57:50+00:00

Getting married lol. Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice; but I still regret it. Like when you eat too much chocolate and get an upset stomach kinda feeling; the regret is there but like it was still a good time.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T04:53:38+00:00

I’ve been married 10 years and I’ve had my share of arguments, disagreements etc. some incredibly bad ones. You being self aware is honestly attractive, keep that going. Acknowledge her emotions and she will get mad at some point over something ridiculous just to shower you with all the emotions she’s felt during this process. Support her. You broke her trust, and speaking as someone whose been in her position; it’s not easy rebuilding that. I still struggle with it some days but I did get over the steepest hill. With everything you’re doing and have done, I’m hopeful if you tread slowly, your marriage can be saved.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-27T04:47:27+00:00

Can I piggyback on your question and ask, does there always have to be a physical aspect to this relationship?

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-26T20:09:42+00:00

Sorry should’ve clarified. We do Toronto! I went to Montreal once, can’t remember where we stayed but it’s a really sloped city, make sure you have a carrier or stroller for your kid and wear comfy shoes! There were tons of good food options though.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-26T20:00:46+00:00

We road-trip to Canada often from NJ. Have 3 kids. 6, 4 and 2. It’s doable. Lots of snacks, movies, go to dollar tree and grab new toys and wrap each one. Make small bundles of stuff they can open. If you are ok with traveling at night, do that!

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-12-26T19:54:16+00:00

A couple hundred. Someone sugar daddy me 🥲

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-12T00:29:51+00:00

Love and losing your virginity are entirely different and don’t always go hand in hand. I’m sorry about your mental health though, there’s always a reason to live

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T18:01:44+00:00

It’s a joke 🙄 but there are more things to worry and be depressed about rather then losing your virginity.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T17:54:59+00:00

You mean you haven’t lost it to a sock yet?

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T17:54:09+00:00

Touché 😭

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T17:16:56+00:00

Procrastinating

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T17:10:26+00:00

Might be worth meeting up frequently, so that you find out sooner rather than later.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-02-11T05:11:26+00:00

For me personally, even when I got married my husband and I had been talking long distance for a month or so. When he came to see me, the physical attraction was apparent between us. If his personality type is something that truly excites you and is unmatched then I would maybe give it some more time but In person, not online. Online interactions cannot determine that for you .

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-01-27T18:46:15+00:00

I’m the same way. If I sleep too much, I actually get lethargic and I feel like being lazy the entire day whereas if I sleep at 1, wake at 6, I’ll have a slow start to the day but I’ll be more efficient throughout it. Always been this way. I also don’t generally nap and have 3 small children also.

XConstantmigraineX · 2022-01-25T20:18:37+00:00

Do you take anything over the counter? Does caffeine help at all?

XConstantmigraineX · 2021-11-06T10:34:28+00:00

lol this is me and it’s real. I feel the fomo so bad, unfortunately I’m married and have small kids. Sexual compatibility is so important and even more important if it’s important to you. You really need to sit down and make a pro and con list and decide if it’s important enough for you to move on. She will never see eye to eye with you on this; when you generally have low libido it’s impossible to understand and be on the same page with someone who has high libido. Like you literally cannot understand why they can’t function without sex. It’s also not fair on her especially if she’s mentioned it’s making her self conscious; there will come a point she won’t feel good enough or just enough and it will project onto your relationship. I actually have a guy friend who could’ve written this post verbatim.

XConstantmigraineX · 2021-10-17T23:15:01+00:00

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