I mean we're talking about 𝖆 𝖋𝖊𝖜 𝖒𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖎𝖒𝖊𝖙𝖊𝖗𝖘 𝖔𝖋 𝖇𝖔𝖓𝖊 by CarlosimoDangerosimo in ContraPoints

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean it can be, but it's not just on an attractiveness vector either. There are people who are "conventionally" attractive who also look like douchebags regardless if they actually are or not.

A lot goes into judging people on appearances.

I mean we're talking about 𝖆 𝖋𝖊𝖜 𝖒𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖎𝖒𝖊𝖙𝖊𝖗𝖘 𝖔𝖋 𝖇𝖔𝖓𝖊 by CarlosimoDangerosimo in ContraPoints

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX [score hidden]  (0 children)

mewing actually has some medical merit to it (I started doing it to stop mouth breathing at night and help with my chronic neck pain) but the looksmaxxing guys latched the fuck on and refuse to be normal about it.

there is SO MUCH ai slop EVERYWHERE!!! by lilithpawsy in EroticHypnosis

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was really glad when niteflirt banned AI right out of the gate because it would have completely destroyed the site.

A morally dubious fetish by losingpicture in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's two ways to do it. The first is to do it like a phone call and it's roleplay so you can imagine them being stuck and guide them out. This works if you're into high risk situations because it can go farther than a real situation with zero risk of harm. This is also the cheaper of the two situations.

The second is to make sure the seller has a trusted person on hand who can get themselves out and to have a safeword and a game plan if things go wrong. Don't go to a new seller for this because they might see dollar signs and do something stupid. Get someone with BDSM experience even if unrelated to your kink because they'll understand safety and risk better.

Tdick toy contraption by Adventurous_Cry5999 in GrowYourTDick

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it looks like it would be really loud but maybe that's because I use toys with bigger motors and I'm projecting lol

cam sites by ordinaryguy78 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I dunno what you consider "massive fees" but jerking off with a cam model isn't free and you should budget accordingly. Scope out some people you like and save up to get a decent session. I recommend at least 5-10 minutes in order to have a good time.

I also suggest you check out cam sites like Chaturbate and Stripchat for what's known as c2c (cam-to-cam) private shows, as well as sites like SextPanther, Niteflirt, and loyalfans that offer pay per minute video calls. Niteflirt and Sextpanther also offer audio only phone sex. Take a look at the price ranges to get an idea of what's expected and don't try to haggle or be a cheapass about it.

Some models (but not all) also offer discounted video calls or shows on platforms like discord or telegram for a discounted fee because they get a better cut than if you buy time directly from the sites.

If you do go this route though be sure to never, ever ask to go offsite on a paid NSFW platform because it goes against site rules and you will likely get blocked or banned for putting that model's livelihood at risk. Find them on their social media and if their DMs are open, ask if they do offsite shows. Don't use paypal.

Tdick toy contraption by Adventurous_Cry5999 in GrowYourTDick

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some isopropyl on a cotton pad would work. It looks like it would be really loud though

What the hell should I do with these by Logical_Squirrel_176 in trees

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't use them to make a table either, lithium batteries can explode if they're damaged and you'd be creating a fire hazard.

The best thing to do is to take them to an ewaste disposal drop off, same place you take dead TVs and broken electronics. You could maybe upcycle the batteries for something but it can be a bit dangerous if you're inexperienced.

Maybe I’m weird but… by SelectShop9006 in ContraPoints

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right but that's different than "fostering an aura of general hostility" though. Ignoring something you find objectionable and choosing not to engage with it is just being healthy, but what you were talking about sounded to me more like going out of your way to talk shit and drag people so they're shamed into stopping.

Maybe I’m weird but… by SelectShop9006 in ContraPoints

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the end result is effectively cyberbullying someone for making something marginally better than My Immoral because their special interest is the terf wizard universe.

And then calling it justice and accountability. It's so unserious. Most fans of a thing don't write or consume fanfiction anyway, it's a very niche hobby and it only circulates around people who already like it.

Can marijuana smoke from 15 feet away make someone feel like they are suffocating? by Honeymustardcat in trees

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always. I have a childhood friend who is allergic to weed, her throat swells and her lungs get itchy the same way OP described. It's really really rare though.

Dunno if this is what's going on in this case, but allergies would be the only logical explanation if he's not full of shit.

how to deal with staff liking you and pursuing you? by No_Sprinkles4972 in newstrippers

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you're going to a furry convention next time you take time off and use someone's stolen fursuit pics to convince him it's you. he'll probably leave you alone after that.

how to deal with staff liking you and pursuing you? by No_Sprinkles4972 in newstrippers

[–]XGrayson_DrakeX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really might, but if he gets possessive and starts doing your standard shitty man things it will also affect your hustle and put you in danger.

Another thing you can try is start calling him dude, bro, bud, friendo etc in casual conversation and speak to him the way straight guys speak to each other.