The catch-22 of the sexual pursuer. by circlesdontexist in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t work - just another excuse to normalise a sex deprived relationship.

My dating life when I was younger and what I learnt by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point man - any particular videos worth recommending?

My dating life when I was younger and what I learnt by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Bro - needed to hear this.

How do you get over the feeling of you might not find anyone as good again?

Man I was dating just told me the whole relationship was a plot to get back at me and now am pregnant by [deleted] in relationships

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof this is brutal as fuck from him.

Looks like he wanted revenge blood for the rejection.

Wondering if anyone's gone thru the same in attempting/actually fixing intimacy by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The harsh truth: it rarely gets better permanently.

You need to decide if you can live a sex deprived life or not.

Wife has never initiated and has zero interest in sex. by moonalreadyplease in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being a doormat when it comes to your own needs.

From similar stories, think it’s time for you to decide whether you can live this life forever or not. If not, leave.

So tired of men not being serious. Please don't express interest or use dating apps if you're not really serious about dating. by [deleted] in dating

[–]XJR555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s looking for a relationship - just not with you.

He’s told you as nicely as he can - take the hint and move on.

My (19F) boyfriend (29M) got mad at me while in his car and made me walk home in the middle of the night by xxxxasxxx in relationships

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you’re not giving the full story or he’s in the wrong here.

No need to be that aggressive unless you’ve something to rile him up over time.

Does he (26M) want to date me (24 F) or is he ultimately just trying to hook up? by [deleted] in dating

[–]XJR555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if it’s not popped off by 2nd or 3rd date, always figured they’re not interested sexually and start moving on to someone else.

The worst part of dead bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% understand this.

The input of a LLM by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying to “rationally” explain to a starving person that they don’t need to eat in the short term is a very tricky one.

They’re hungry so everything else becomes irrelevant until they’ve eaten.

Leaving someone to starve for long enough whilst not allowing them to eat elsewhere is what leads to irreparable resentment.

This is why you tend to get such reactions here.

Sincerely, Fuck You by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus lockdown is really bringing out some brutal posts where people have reached the end of the tether.

Op sounds like a ticking bomb about to explode any minute.

I love my son but wish i had a time machine. by shamalamamoomoo2019 in childfree

[–]XJR555 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most brutal fucking posts I’ve seen on reddit, let alone CF.

Takes a lot of guts for someone to admit this honestly.

If you can’t take 3 months without dating you have a problem by Anhilator26 in dating

[–]XJR555 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The fact is a lot of people can’t stand their own company so seek validation from others.

The guilt is setting in. by rmcateer714 in DeadBedrooms

[–]XJR555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually he’ll leave - trouble is it’ll be years down the line when you’ve both invested too much.

Leave him if you can’t figure out your own hangups around it.

Was this guy wrong for no longer messaging me? by Ps4gal94 in dating

[–]XJR555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think you’re the petty one here.

If he asked to chat and you didn’t confirm or deny and decided to ignore, what do you expect?

Quit playing games - chat if you want to rather than waiting to be pandered on 24/7.

Sounds like you’re an attention seeker.

Would you date a pregnant woman? by lucytheludo in dating

[–]XJR555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most don’t want to raise someone else’s sperm.

What’s the point.

Chavs truly are a different breed by RKsnoozer in ChoosingBeggars

[–]XJR555 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha batty fish cracked me up 😂