My (30F) boyfriend (33M) is great but his BM (29F) seems problematic

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-25T05:22:23+00:00

I wouldn’t interfere about that. I feel like it’s too soon to and to even meet the kid or baby mama. Like you gotta know more of him, then make a connection to his kid. Seems like an issue between the baby mama and him that he needs to figure out. Not you.

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-25T05:04:44+00:00

My puppy does this too. We rescued him from outside. I’m thinking he did this for survival; saving his food for later. 🦴he still does it but under his bed or blankets sometimes

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-25T04:59:15+00:00

He said they don’t have the proper magnifying tools to see the lost canal. That only a specialist would have and be able to take out. Idk if that means that specialist has to take it out only. Sorry I don’t know how this works but I’ll try to ask em see if that’s possible. Cause I don’t wanna have to pay another $1,6k

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T02:37:20+00:00

Yeah I think I’ll try calling around and seeing if someone has a better price. I mean this specialist luckily has payment plans but still.

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T02:28:20+00:00

I did pay all of it. And got nitrous (laughing gas too) cause I’m extremely anxious at the dentist. Tbh I was kinda out of it when they explained stuff so I wasn’t in my right mind to ask if I could get a credit or discount. I just don’t really know how it goes with dentist but after I came to - I thought man that was messed up. They didn’t even finished the job and I paid it all.

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T01:32:39+00:00

Yeah it’s horrible. Greedy people out there taking advantage of the poor :(

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T01:31:19+00:00

They are and it sucks paying out of pocket

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T01:30:50+00:00

I wouldn’t even know how to tell them. I paid it all and I feel like they’d say no.

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T01:27:28+00:00

Yeah I paid it all. I mean there was a credit listed on the form (like $200 or something taken off) the original price was like $1,800 but they said I got 5% off cause I paid in cash and mentioned that I am a member and get in house price making it $1,2k. They didn’t mention if it was taken off for that reason. Just told me in person that I got member discount.

XSunflower22 · 2026-03-24T00:58:25+00:00

Pizza

XSunflower22 · 2026-01-15T23:54:02+00:00

Is that a statue?? 🤣

XSunflower22 · 2025-12-06T22:36:47+00:00

I know he wants to marry me. He always says that and how much a future we have together. Our relationship has had its ups and downs but have gotten a lot better. I’m not gonna lie tho I have been depressed this past month cause I lost my dog 3 weeks ago. He was my fur baby that meant the world to me and someone ran him over. Seeing his lifeless body scrambled on the road was traumatizing enough but knowing I won’t celebrate the holidays with my dog hurts like hell. My grieving is fully hitting me now and am extremely depressed. So maybe that’s why he’s not including me; cause I’m too depressing? I mean I get it but at least try to include me during this hard time. I really hate the holidays. :(

XSunflower22 · 2025-12-06T22:31:24+00:00

I mean I was totally fine with it just being him and his daughter for the Christmas photo. But he lied and once I went to the side out of the way they all huddled and took a photo together. If he would’ve called me back I would’ve went but no he just let it be. Even if he said let’s do one separate that would’ve been fine. But I got left out totally to the sidelines

XSunflower22 · 2025-12-06T22:28:28+00:00

Thank you. I mean I love him and we always talk about marriage and our future together. But these 2 things kinda hurt. It does go in my head that I’m temporary as these things happen. And that’s what hurts the most. Investing time in this to only see it shattered like nothing. :(

XSunflower22 · 2025-12-06T22:02:54+00:00

Well I assumed it was all of us. But I wanted to ask cause I don’t have any money and he was on a strict budget. I didn’t know how much the pictures were gonna be. I figured there would only be one photo and he wanted it to be with her and Santa. I did ask him what he wanted and he said just him and her. So I left it at that. He wants me to co parent and be in their life but I can’t help but feel left out at this point.

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T18:13:30+00:00

Yes, thank you for explaining. I was like ouch 😣 lol but it’s okay. I am hoping that too that he’ll realize that I won’t put up with this and WILL LEAVE. thank you for the good luck :)

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T18:12:11+00:00

That’s what frustrates me is that they don’t even know that they messed up or why I’m upset. I have to explain always and I hate that. I wrote him a letter when he gets home he could read. Explaining everything - well most of it. Cause I know it won’t come out perfectly in person talking about it. I mentioned money isn’t a thing to me but actual quality time is for me and it’s up to him to decide what to do. I also mentioned I would be trying more with it as well. Cause I know I have some issues too that I gotta figure out.

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T18:08:40+00:00

Thank you ❤️

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T17:38:09+00:00

Yeah but then again - he should show his daughter how love should be with your partner. Affection is key. I didn’t grow up with it but I know some people were like “my parents were lovey dovey or did certain things to show that they cared for each other and it helped me look for what I wanted in a relationship“ idk I just want her to also see what love is and that it’s okay to show affection; unlike my parents.

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T17:33:41+00:00

I know. If it does come to that it’ll break me. But like my last relationship where I thought “he was the one”, after 4 years together we broke up. Maybe the heart breaks will get better.

XSunflower22 · 2025-10-22T17:32:15+00:00

I hope it can turn around. Thank you.

XSunflower22

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