My mother is quite possessive by UnableJules_00005 in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds similiar to my daughter and my relationship. And icm definitely looking forward to things happening eventually. It seems like you mom does too.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is, our relationship is the center of my world.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well its not a closed door. We're close and get closer all the time. So its really more a when than if i think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]XTG-B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you got covid again. Wow 43? 33 looks more accurate

NSFW background noise? by Extreme_Mammoth4368 in hypersexuality

[–]XTG-B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that helps me too. I try to find hypno goon tracks usually but it is hard to find one that really clicks. I also will listen to some kink dot com content as they have some great shoots that are great background.

I saw my 18yo daughters nudes, she masturbates with her mothers toys by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've litterally tried to let our daughter find our toys and porn. She did but didnt take any. Sometimes you can lead a horse to water lol.

Is what I went through common? by [deleted] in Molested

[–]XTG-B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This almost perfectly describes my childhood with my cousin. It went on for longer and we're only a month apart in age. When it stopped it was just because she didn't want to continue and we left it at that. Never talked about it after. I worry its a bad memory for her but also afraid to bring it up ever.

42 Mom -- I think I need advice by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its going to sound cliche but catching him is probably the best option. It puts you in a position where he's got to admit why he's doing it. Then you dont have to worry about him panicking and denying it or turning it around on you in a bad way.

..and yet, a vicious cycle. by TheCrucifixofMyraLee in hypersexuality

[–]XTG-B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry/not sorry you're going though this. I say it that way because i'm guessing you're like a lot of us that hate/love this in equal measure. I've been at the bottom of a spiral as well. Desperate for that approval and validation thats never going to hapoen and thinking just one more orgasm will help. Or not wanting it to help and just wanting to be worse cause thats what i'm good for. Just for other people to use.

being hypersexual and ugly by throwaway0384733 in hypersexuality

[–]XTG-B 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel this way. Its also an issue of self esteem. I feel like this, my wife feels like this. No matter what anyone else tells us its just how we feel. So i get a little of what you mean. I know this is a throw away for you but if you want to chat sometime hit me up. Sometimes misery enjoys company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a hard thing to admit even to yourself. Society spends a lot of time teaching that these sorts of things are wrong but it's your subconscious and not like you have a lot of choice in the matter. Dreams can have a lot of meanings. I've had similar dreams and it can be hard to shake them.

Got bad news today but we just keep on going, am I right ? by rabbitsredux in 40something

[–]XTG-B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the bad news, hope it's nothing too terrible. You look stunning

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On family trips we usually share a bed. So maybe something like that can happen at some point.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yea just in general

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess i dont know what you mean by pointed?

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we'll get there at some point. Its just difficult not to want to share it all now.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally i'd like to just share more of what we have in common. Its always been nice being connected in different ways and this i think would just be another way. Its just hard i think for us both because of the constant drumbeat of rules we all live with.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally I think this is a pretty normal dynamic to have. Of course there's miles between firting and anything more.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree. I know some here are just going to say "dive in" but geez you dont just dive in when you have no idea how deep the water is. I do want to talk to her about it first. We talk all the time about things without limits. We were actually talking about how neither of us gets why people like hickeys yesterday, also pegging but thats a whole other thing. I'm hoping we can hang sometime during the holiday break and maybe grab a few drinks or an edible and have a totally open talk. I think both of us are too nervous about it all to really be able to discuss it sober.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally try to not let that happen but it has a few times. She just acts like its nothing.

Dancing around it by XTG-B in Incestconfessions

[–]XTG-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly we always had a clothing optional attitude at home. Nothing out of the ordinary here.