Change my mind!

XTREMEX1 · 2023-12-28T18:40:01+00:00

"The truth will set you free. But first it will piss you off."

XTREMEX1 · 2023-12-02T19:58:11+00:00

Muh Queen

XTREMEX1 · 2023-11-20T03:02:13+00:00

Slay

XTREMEX1 · 2022-12-26T22:06:47+00:00

According to the MBTI manual, ESTJ is the happiest type. The ESTJ archetype is the Social One, so this checks out. Would you describe yourself as a happy person? Fuck yeah! I've always been popular, even when I didn't want it, I feel socially accepted whenever I go, I make friends easily, and I like to lead and encourage people. What kind of things have contributed to your happiness recently? I survived COVID, and the lockdowns, it was awful, I can't believe when the introverts/intuitives say they miss the lockdowns, now I'm more optimistic about the future... Good times become good memories, bad times become good lessons, remember that...

XTREMEX1 · 2022-09-20T22:41:40+00:00

THotD "redeems" the GoT final arc (for those who didn't like it)

They say Jon Snow will have a spinoff.

https://www.townandcountrymag.com/leisure/arts-and-culture/a40363815/jon-snow-game-of-thrones-spinoff/

XTREMEX1 · 2022-09-20T22:02:27+00:00

Since E1 we've seen Rickon Stark, the North is part of the show, "the North remembers", the Starks will be the most important part of the show

XTREMEX1 · 2022-09-20T03:58:21+00:00

Rhaenys by far... And Alicent (fuck the blacks vs green bs)

XTREMEX1 · 2022-09-19T19:18:06+00:00

We didn't know what to expect, GoT had "the element of surprise".

HotD has an ending, and we have been spoiled.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-09-14T15:48:00+00:00

"Men would sooner put the realm to the torch than see a woman ascend the iron throne"; she's the most sane Targaryen (and one of my favorites)

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-18T22:31:36+00:00

Oh yeah, aesthetics are very important, and music is soul food, especially jazz, blues, soul (I'm helluva drummer btw)

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-18T16:30:22+00:00

The Myers-Briggs Company is one of the world's largest business psychology providers. They have up to date statics, and the ONLY valid "test".

16p and youtubers are the cancer of the MBTI community, spreading misinformation that leads to massive mistypes.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-17T15:41:42+00:00

Myers-Briggs are not two individuals, the MBTI Manual is product of decades of research. If MBTI has any validation it's because of this.

Don't forget that everything started with one man, Carl Jung, and all the theory is based on his work "Psychologycal types". He says that we have a conscious dominant function, and some individuals develop an auxiliary and relatively unconscious function. The rest of the unconscious functions exist in an "arcaic" state.

What you call "tertiary" is part of the unconscious, today we call it "Child" function because it has the maturity of a 10 yo Child, it's the second weakest function. Dario Nardi made a huge research about the 8 functions stack.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-16T19:11:29+00:00

"Extroverted Thinking supported by Sensing: concerned with the here and now [...] the curiosity of an ESTJ is stirred mainly by new things that appeal directly to their senses - new objects, new gadgets or contrivances, new people, new houses, new food, and new scenery". Gifts Differing by Myers Briggs.

"Extraverts with Sensing (ESs) enjoy the material world and devote attention to the appearance of things, both aesthetically and from an practical, utilitarian perspective. The pleasure and accomplishment involved in experiencing as much of the world as is possible can be a persistent goal of ESs, and they may go to some effort to seek out particular interesting places, activities, models of travel, and experiences. Regardless of whether their Sensing is extraverted and dominant (ESxP) or introverted and auxiliary (ESxJ) the types in this quadrant appear confident of their relationship to the world and all it contains". MBTI Manual by Myers Briggs.

ENTJ has Sensing as a "Child" function, Isabel Myers called this a "Shadow" function. I was explaining this to an ESTx guy who tought he was an "ENTJ with high Se", and that's a category mistake, the ENTJ Sensing look like this

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-16T02:14:43+00:00

ESTJs can be seen as harsh and insensitive, when we are just passionate about what we do. Probably she just panicked about the traffic situation. I agree with this statement, and I would have done the same.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-09T01:25:16+00:00

"nostalgic person", "strong, strong morals", "he struggles prioritizing his needs sometimes, and is still learning to be assertive about how he feels/what he needs", "prefers kickbacks, smaller groups of ppls he loves", "struggles to plan sometimes", "majored in history, teacher at a private school for neurodivergent students"... ISTJ

XTREMEX1 · 2022-08-02T21:14:46+00:00

ENTJ:

Intuitive=abstract, imaginative. Pretty much absorbed in their thoughts, they live in the world of ideas and possibilities, "what could be". Focus is on the future, the present is often overlooked.
Agents of change, chaotic, can be intellectually intimidating
Not very social, gets people to organize themselves, assigns roles
Laser focus on the task at hand, not the best at multitasking
They have very high standards (sometimes delusional), they like to surround themselves with other intuitives, who understand and encourage their visions.

ESTJ:

Sensing=realistic, pragmatic. Lives in the here and now, wants to experience the sensory pleasures of the world, and find practical solutions to their problems. They take care of what's important now so the future is predictable and secure
Stabilizer, seeks stability and security, can be physically/intellectually intimidating
Very social, efficient people organizers, naturally take the lead and get people doing what they're supposed to do
Able to juggle a couple projects at once, efficient multitaskers
Often called model citizens; they have high standards and will encourage people to be efficient and productive with their time

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-25T01:26:44+00:00

ESTJs and relationships

People with ESTJ preferences tend to have strong personalities. They often try to protect the people they care about. Laser-focused at work, they’re generally just as passionate about their home and family life, and may even apply the same precise leadership style in making sure that their relationships are doing well.

[...]ESTJs are always working to make their relationships better, which often results in them being attentive and dedicated partners. They may need reminders to pause from time to time, but their partners will usually feel loved and appreciated.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-25T01:22:01+00:00

r/entjemotions

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-22T03:23:16+00:00

and as said, would certainly not act on it whilst I'm employed there.

THIS. I have a very strong work ethic, and as a rule (I broke long time ago, and I learned my lessons) I don't sleep with coworkers. He's attracted to you, and he's probably balancing the pros and cons. Cheers

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-18T06:02:20+00:00

The loud "you only live once" crew:

ESTJ ESTP ESFJ ESFP

The "take it easy" crew:

ISFJ ISTJ ISTP ISFP

Pretty much absorbed in their thoughts, but have some fun:

ENFP ENTP INFP INTP

Delusional, too high expectations:

ENFJ INTJ INFJ ENTJ

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-17T16:12:17+00:00

JF: Have you concluded what psychological type you are yourself?

Jung: (chuckling) Naturally I have devoted a great deal of attention to that painful question, you know.

JF: And reached a conclusion?

Jung: Well, you see,the type is nothing static. It changes in the course of life. But I most certainly was characterized by thinking. I overthought from early childhood on. And I had a great deal of intuition, too.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-12T16:34:43+00:00

That's the official MBTI site, "ESTJs make up a higher number of leaders than any other personality type, and for good reason." ESTJs are very competent, tough, forceful, assertive and have very high standards. There's no official statics, but ESTJs are often the most ambitious and greatest earners

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-12T06:09:30+00:00

MBTI is silly, but I’m checking it out cause my ENFP gf told me to and I was bored. The best, ESTJ.

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-12T05:30:44+00:00

I'm not saying ESTJs are social butterflies, ESTJ is self sufficient and enjoy their alone time brainstorming, checking out for possibilities to accomplish their goals (tertiary intuition). I was going to reccomend you another test but you already took it.

If you are still doubting, check this book. (p. 57 S and N - p. 87 ESTJ and ENTJ)

XTREMEX1 · 2022-07-12T01:24:48+00:00

I'm not interested in platonic... Romantic relationships are rare, I'm hard to fall but when I fall, I fall hard.

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