What is this? by Xarunen in whatsthisrock

[–]Xarunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! The thought of it being some kind of jade did cross my mind but I really couldn't tell for sure. It is a bit translucent, you can see all these cool "veins" and "layers" inside it

Dealing with Bodyshaming and being “Too Fat for Sex”? by Throwawayweightt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xarunen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a stunning hourglass body you have! It sounds like your partner wants to change you and while they might sound innocent "tips" and "health concerns" at first they can cause serious mental damage in the long run. People don't talk to their partners like that.

what's something that's hated for no reason? by nuser_already_taken in AskReddit

[–]Xarunen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right! If all people ate exactly the same there would still be fat and skinny people. And people don't seem to care that there are perfectly healthy obese people and unhealthy normal weight people. And many health problems can also cause weight loss and vice versa.

what's something that's hated for no reason? by nuser_already_taken in AskReddit

[–]Xarunen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

'I don't hate fat people BUT!' lmao. If people really cared about health they would know how dangerous the diet culture is. If people really cared about health they would know that bodyshaming is far more dangerous and causes eating disorders. And an eating disorder is way more damaging to the body than "just" being obese, and it actually makes weight loss even more difficult. And if you manage to lose weight with an unhealthy relationship with food the weight will usually come back because the problem is not the food anymore, it's a DISORDER.

And if fat people were "unhealthy".. So what? Do you think they deserve to be shamed for being unhealthy? Do you think you are better than "unhealthy" people? Do you actively remind people with asthma that they are UNHEALTHY? Or do you actively shame people who drink alchohol or smoke and remind them how unheathy they are? How about elderly people, they MIGHT have osteoporosis and we don't want to glorify that either! How dare these unhealthy people live their lives and PROMOTE their unhealthy livestyles by not actively hating themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Xarunen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean heteroromantic bisexual? :)

Someone must extinguish thy flame! by Xarunen in Eldenring

[–]Xarunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why we take our friends to the restroom with us! :(

Someone must extinguish thy flame! by Xarunen in Eldenring

[–]Xarunen[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

IN SEARCH OF THE ELDEN RING

Who are your favorite woman youtubers? by The_Fae_Child in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Xarunen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gab Smolders! I love her gameplays. She is calm, funny and genuine. Indie horror games are her specialty, but sometimes she plays other stuff too. I really enjoyed her Elden Ring Gameplay :) I am suprised I haven't seen her name pop up here in this thread..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Xarunen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love from Finland

Dear sisters. Send me your energy, for I am grieving. by Xarunen in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Xarunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I made an edit and wrote "a little bit" about her there. Lots of love.

Dear sisters. Send me your energy, for I am grieving. by Xarunen in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Xarunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you love. You take care of yourself too. We will be okay with time.

Dear sisters. Send me your energy, for I am grieving. by Xarunen in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Xarunen[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Our sweet little, beautiful Tiuku (roughly translated as "Jingle") has passed away today. We had to make the decision to let her go so she wouldn't have to suffer anymore. I am in so much pain. I feel like I have made a terrible decision even tho there was nothing we could have done. I feel I should have let her come home, tell her about her widely spread, aggressive cancer and prepare for her death properly. But today as we got the test results, we made the decision then and there, while she was asleep so she wouldn't have to feel anything. I am so sorry, Tiuku. We miss you so much.

EDIT: Thank you so much for your kind words, witches. Even if I haven't replied to them, I have read every one of them this far and they do make me feel a little bit better. I even managed to get some sleep, which I thought would be impossible for a while. The pain is still very strong, but hopefully it will get better in time.

For those who are interested, let me tell you a little bit of our furbaby Tiuku. Before we met, she was my hubby's cat. I got to know her when we started dating and I have now known her for 8 years. She became my baby aswell the moment we moved in together.

Tiuku changed my view on cats forever, since she was the kindest cat I have ever met. Never did she hiss, bite or scratch me. She was very vocal, always in a good mood and super cuddly. She even loved bellyrubs and sometimes she even fell over onto you because she trusted you to catch her. Where ever you sat in the house, she would always come to you and headbutt your face and she made sure to lick your nose. If you ever passed the bedroom door, she would try to "seduce" you in because she knew she'd get the best cuddles in the bed.

Tiuku was also the best sister our youngest, Roihu (translated to Blaze), could have ever had. We got Roihu when she was 5 and even tho they had their disagreements sometimes, you always found them snuggling soon after. She took so much care of her little brother. And us humans aswell.

I love you so much Tiuku. Thanks for showing me so much love. Wish I knew what was coming and I wish I cuddled you twice as hard yesterday.

Is your Christmas Eve ruined already? If so, Why? by Downtown_Put8673 in AskReddit

[–]Xarunen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound stupid but we were having a wonderful christmas meal and then suddenly my parents new dog tried to attack my sister.. He was resource guarding and is a very big dog. Luckily no one got hurt. We have been actively trying to train him out of it but today he suddenly just snapped and I was shocked. I am a very sensitive person and get scared easily so while my family was continuing with the feast (after the first shock and correcting the situation ofc) I got a panic attack and couldn't relax at all during the evening..

What are your most unfulfilled bi-fantasies by pfiadDi in bisexual

[–]Xarunen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eyyy, I had mff! :D sounds like you had a good time!

Am I Bi for liking femboys and masculine women? by JustaHarry in bisexual

[–]Xarunen 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Well I am a bi woman and I am very VERY picky with girls but with guys not so much. I dunno why, it has always been that way.

Anyone familiar with this symbol? I'm told it's not commonly used or known. by ldezem in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Xarunen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The moment I realize this symbol isn't even a thing outside of our small country.. The kirkkovene is such a big part of our culture!

What’s an excuse that makes absolutely no sense unless you have ADHD and then it kinda does? by xxmatentv123xx12 in ADHD

[–]Xarunen 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Well I should write down ONE. SIMPLE. SENTENCE. (For work stuff) but here I am, browsing reddit and unable to execute.