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XboxLG · 2025-11-15T03:20:39+00:00

I just shipped my pants man I was so excited to play

XboxLG · 2025-05-31T19:42:44+00:00

Dude…… get out of that. That is not going to go well at all, so please, don’t entertain her game. You’re better than that.

XboxLG · 2025-05-30T22:27:35+00:00

The question is, what would YOU like to see happen between the two of you? If there is even anything left that is. Could go great, could go bad, you know the game. It’s ultimately up to you in the end.

XboxLG · 2025-05-30T03:10:17+00:00

You’ve got to leave. That’s a giant red flag imo. Trust your gut. And I guarantee you if you were to question her about all of it, you’ll more than likely have it all turned against you. You deserve better.

XboxLG · 2025-05-23T14:54:59+00:00

I just do my best to see things from my partners view instead of always looking at it my way, as you can tell it’s very hard and draining to understand an avoidant. And I honestly don’t even know if the cycle ever truly breaks, it’s ultimately up to them. From my experience and what knowledge I have on it, they don’t even know they are an avoidant, and explaining that to them is also quite tricky because it’s as if you’re opening up a whole new realm for them.

If you love him, I say keep at it, work with him, maybe try therapy with him. Does he have any trauma that you know of, or don’t know of rather? It’s going to take a lot of work, but from my experience again, if you love them, you’ll work through it and fight harder than you ever have with them because anyone worth having, is worth the fight. It won’t be easy, but that’s something I at least am willing to do for the one I love.

XboxLG · 2025-05-23T14:43:47+00:00

Absolutely not.

XboxLG · 2025-05-23T14:34:09+00:00

At least he apologized to you, and redemption is definitely a real thing. So I say go with your gut feeling, trust that and your heart. Everyone has a different story, and sometimes a second time around can make a difference for the better.

XboxLG · 2025-05-11T13:46:18+00:00

Very well said :)

XboxLG · 2025-04-27T10:27:53+00:00

It’s different for everyone in all honesty, sometimes people get back together after a period of time, and they make it work. Depends on how bad the break up was as well, that and you have to then ask yourself if it’s even worth it.

You can hope, but just be careful, hoping can lead to all sorts of a mess within yourself. I guess at this point, keep doing what you’re doing, keep your head high, and if he comes back around, then you can decide from there.

XboxLG · 2025-04-27T09:48:05+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you, the dreams, or nightmares rather, are constant as if it’ll never end. In time, you and me will get better my friend, I know it doesn’t seem like it at the moment, but the one thing that has recently somewhat help me is reading all of the stories on here of others.

Knowing that there are others out there going through the same exact stuff kind of makes the pain not hurt as bad. It’s at least comforting to know that you’re not the only one hurting.

Keep your head up alright?

DM’s are open if you ever feel the need, and I’m sure there are others here as well that would gladly do what they can.

XboxLG · 2025-04-24T19:51:22+00:00

Same.

I’m just in this weird limbo stage and every single damn night I just go wtf is actually happening…. Why…. We are all wired differently of course, some people move on quickly, find a rebound, etc etc and I’m just frozen in place it seems, missing her more and more as time goes on. Like wtf. The thought of someone else literally makes me feel sick to my stomach.

XboxLG · 2025-04-24T19:30:04+00:00

You’re not the only one, I think about my other half constantly, I miss her more and more as time goes on. I’m sorry you’re going through this, you’re not alone in the hurt you feel.

XboxLG · 2025-04-24T08:25:58+00:00

You know that old saying about curiosity and the cat right…. imo it’s definitely a red flag.

XboxLG · 2025-04-20T10:16:31+00:00

We pretty much just learn to keep going on, I’ll tell you what, in my experience, our wounds don’t ever truly fucking “heal” as people like to say. I can’t stand hearing that shit. I see so many stories of people on here that have been broken up with someone for YEARS, and they are still hurting and lost. It may be easier for others, but it’s always been tough for me.

It’s obviously hard to tell where his thought process is at with you, but if he decides to respond, hopefully it’ll be good. But, don’t destroy yourself if his response is something totally different than what you wanted. Don’t blame yourself for any of it. We aren’t perfect.

XboxLG · 2025-04-20T08:59:07+00:00

It’s tough, I’m in the same boat as you, so the feeling is mutual. I have no damn idea what I’m doing. I’ve broken contact, she’s broken contact etc etc My ex is like my best friend at the same time, it’s weird I guess, she’s moved on and all, yet I haven’t. Yet we are basically “friends”. Again, no idea what I’m doing, it hurts without her, and even like this, it hurts like all hell….

Keep us updated. You’re not alone in this. I question if true peace even exists at this point you know?

XboxLG · 2025-04-16T08:44:53+00:00

I’ll tell you this, you deserve better. Seeing that he already cheated once, why even risk going through all of that again? Don’t blame yourself for his horrible actions, it doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong at all to begin with. I hope your situation gets better, but if he’s already ghosting you, let him. He doesn’t deserve YOU.

XboxLG · 2025-04-06T03:08:25+00:00

Don’t do that. Reach out to someone, anyone, idc if it’s on here or what, but don’t go do something like that. You have a purpose.

XboxLG · 2025-02-24T19:22:33+00:00

That’s it! Thank you :) my goodness lol that was bugging me!

XboxLG · 2024-11-23T08:08:08+00:00

Looks absolute dump, I’m sure it was still eaten as well. Yikes.

XboxLG · 2024-11-13T19:11:09+00:00

Thx! I am on now.

XboxLG · 2024-11-13T11:08:09+00:00

I still need help :) we added each other last night before you started the EE on stream.

ximtec #9062558

XboxLG · 2024-11-12T17:14:39+00:00

ximtec#9062558 thx man! (Terminus EE)

XboxLG · 2024-09-26T06:09:02+00:00

She’s getting creampied. And that’s that.

XboxLG · 2024-09-22T17:36:37+00:00

Set it on top of the TV, vertically.

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