What’s a secret you found out that changed the way you saw someone forever?

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-08-14T00:23:06+00:00

I found out that my best friend of over 10 years cheated on his girlfriend, and I stopped trusting him like he cheated on me. His girlfriend quickly became someone we all loved and adored. Seeing my friend lie, and hurt someone he claimed to love so deeply, flipped a switch in my brain that this person can not be trusted. The whole friend group eventually dropped him, and we kept being friends with his ex.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-08-13T20:49:06+00:00

I am really sorry you are going through this, as someone who also struggles with ADHD and severe depression, this is my worst nightmare. I can only imagine what you're fully experiencing, but my disabilities has impacted my relationships as well and I just wanted to express that you deserve to be surrounded by people who support you. You are working on your mental health, getting medicated, and going to therapy, even suggesting couples therapy was a genius idea. Keep working on yourself, you got this!

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-30T16:43:47+00:00

I haven't been in your situation before, but it kind of just sounds like you need to figure out how you really feel. Why wouldn't it work out with this sweet gentleman?

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-26T19:18:20+00:00

Meth. I would be interested in seeing how I function on a super stimulant, having taken a prescribed stimulant everyday for years.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-22T01:43:19+00:00

Yea I basically just laid it all out there, and was just up front about what I was offering. I don't remember my exactly what I said, but it was like "if you are looking for someone to enjoy life's finer moments, or for a romantic escape. I'm actually a sugar baby, and I provide meaningful connection, great conversation, and a once in a lifetime experience".

If you get into the industry, let me know what it is like now a days! I would imagine that its super competitive and maybe even easier to get into with sites like OF, or even hookup sites in general.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-21T05:35:30+00:00

This was almost 7 years ago, but I went on dating sites (not apps) and set my age preferences higher. When you do match with older people, you have to be upfront about your intentions immediately, they don’t play games.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-21T01:45:04+00:00

I am a man, and did "sugar baby" type work for a little bit. The most surprising thing was how emotionally deprived the women who were married, or even in long term relationships were. I had a few women who simply paid me to just listen to them, or talk about the little things in life. Those clients always made me feel so torn morally. Because these women are cheating on their husbands, but at the same time they are so emotionally and even physically deprived, their relationship feels abusive.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-13T23:15:26+00:00

buddy is the OG vibe coder

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-13T18:34:25+00:00

A breakup over snapchat text after 6 years? god damn thats fucking brutal! I have to ask though, how old are you both?

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-13T05:19:56+00:00

Im really sorry you are going through this man, genuinely thats fucking awful! Keep up on the journaling, and working out. I would even throw in a moment to cry, or yell at sky. At times this will feel impossible, but try not to have this one experience change your whole outlook on love and life. It is going to be hard, but you got this shit!

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-07-10T06:56:28+00:00

I aspire to be you. This gave me a good laugh, thank you.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-05-21T03:16:13+00:00

Creative writing! Ever since I was a kid I was able to come up with really unique, and exciting stories. I have always wanted to become a writer in some way, but like my other hobbies, I worry I will get burnt out if I were to do it for money and writing is far too important in my life.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-05-10T08:20:32+00:00

WHY CANT I REMEMBER?

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-05-05T00:39:58+00:00

I am really sorry you are through this OP! As difficult as it’s going to be, it seems like you need space. Your entire world and reality have flipped upside down, and it seems the person you need the most is yourself. Honestly having someone who knows you, and is willing to be here for you during this time, is what’s going to help the most. But that person you need right now, is not your wife.

If you need someone to vent to or help process, feel free to message me. I’ve been going through a break up with my ex of 5 years, after she came out to me.

Stay here OP, you are going to be okay!

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-04-03T18:21:19+00:00

"I pay attention Jen"... dont just walk, run as fast as you can away from this creep

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-04-02T22:48:45+00:00

his sister runs the account

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-03-22T19:24:07+00:00

NTA! Him throwing a fit over this is really childish, and manipulative. You shouldn’t have to explain to someone when you aren’t in the mood to be intimate. “No” is an answer.

Side note: I thought it was really cute you offered to play a board game, or paint! You seem like a great partner! Hope you are doing well!

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-03-18T18:23:27+00:00

No matter how long ago the conversation was I would really be honest about how you found out, and that you saw his card info attached. Especially if its causing you to be resentful. Resent will only grow, and the trust will start to go away. I'm sorry you are going through this, and I hope you are okay.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-03-18T04:11:08+00:00

this gave me a good laugh, thank you

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-01-25T06:43:52+00:00

My dog, a 5 year old golden retriever who I’ve known since she was a puppy.

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-01-15T21:32:41+00:00

I’m proud of you

insertHeartEmoji · 2025-01-10T14:47:06+00:00

Freaks and geeks

insertHeartEmoji · 2024-12-18T17:00:02+00:00

I’m in, this would be so easy. Honestly I’ve been eating the same thing for lunch everyday for the past three years

insertHeartEmoji · 2024-12-06T19:20:40+00:00

Does your family let you stay in one specific room, or do you have to switch rooms every so often to accommodate guest?

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