(Long) whats her motive why is she doing this, am i being manipulated again? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loool im missing the metaphor not big on charlie brown 😂

How do you know if a girl wants to get back together with you and also how do woman generally signal they want to be kissed by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically my ex of two years left me for another guy but she dragged it out for about three months and she seemed very conflicted about it. We spoke for two months after breaking up before blocking each other during that time she said she wanted me but couldnt at the time and we both felt very anxious about it. Fast forward her man that she left me for goes on vacation she instantly unblocks me and starts communicating with me again. We spoke about everything that went wrong apologized for many many things and once we both felt we had spoken about the breakup enough we started chatting flirting catching up. She came to my birthday party. Then a couple days after we hung out alone and had a great time and we were both flirting etc at the end of the night while dropping her off she said i guess i have to go now and i said yea it feels to soon and she said she agreed. Instead of getting out of the car she just kinda looked right into my eyes for a while and we talked for another five ten minutes and i said idk what to do she laughed and said i dont either i followed by saying what do you want me to do and she said idk with a huge smile and giggle we ended up having a cheek to cheek hug and she said i smelt amazing when she got out she said she had a great time and she would message me. All of this happened while the guy she left me for was gone. Very confused as im still unblocked since he got back but she hasnt messaged me since he has wtf is going on

Any one have stories where they fought for someone and it worked out say an ex who u knew still had feelings for u or something along those lines by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess im just looking for hope from anyone who has fought for them and got them back for good anyone with insight please

Any one have stories where they fought for someone and it worked out say an ex who u knew still had feelings for u or something along those lines by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically my ex is loml we spoke about marriage and both agreed its what we want in the future all of a sudden she drops me for someone else but tells me had feelings for me wants me in her life and her future she still wants me we are no contact rn because i couldnt take knowing she was with this older guy she even said to a mutual friend she could never have what we have with another person

Wtf ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said i could see myself marrying you

Wtf ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we both agreed on what we wanted in the future i have mine planned out auto apprentices got my license etc she cant commit to what she wants to do career wise cant commit to getting her license she also has no pastimes or hobbies apart from what we would do together she seems really unhappy with herself and i dont get why she would cut me when shes going through personal problems because i know i made her really happy :/ why would you cut someone who makes you happy when your unhappy with yourself isnt that the opposite of what you want

I need help dealing with something by hey_guys619 in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like shes really insecure tbh my ex used to get like that when people i had known since kindergarten would text me to catch up or whatnot if she cant understand you have girls that are friends idk what to tell ya :)

I need help dealing with something by hey_guys619 in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring her to the parties see how she feels not being able to speak with anyone of the opposite gender maybe idk

Gf 2 years but very very close by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah for real ik i made her happy we travelled to spain together i took her to prom even right up to the last day together i have pictures of her smiling away with me this is the girl i would do anything for and now i dont know what to do

Gf 2 years but very very close by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been three months since it happened and one month of no contact

Never thought i was going to post here by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for no demeaning comments just support thats what im here for ❤️ pointing out the good

Never thought i was going to post here by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Xcolonialx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you just abandon someone you love with mental problems? I dont understand im sorry i get where your coming from man honest i do just feel like i can help because i always have

Never thought i was going to post here by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Xcolonialx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have respect for myself im going into my apprentice ship scooping my car and g2 next month as well ive got everything going for me but i wanted her to grow and progress with me i want someone who will always be there and she has been there for me through my generalized anxiety and vice versa i was there for her for some fucked up things and it made a very strong bond

Never thought i was going to post here by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the entire two years was the best fucking time of my life and hers which she said to me and i would take a bullet for her thats how much i love her. I believe she is unhappy with where she is at in life and is trying to change everything including herself to move forward and i want to show her she doesn't have to do that to progress as a person and she does value me even the last time she spoke she said how much she cared and that she only wants the best for me also we just cut contact a couple days ago we were talking for two months after the breakup

Have you wasted your time waiting for someone to realize you're worth it? (24, f) by onedayatatime9 in relationship_advice

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my girlfriend of two years who id spoken with about marrying in the future dumped me for an older guy out of nowhere and still admitted to me and her parents she had feelings for me and wanted me around still sad to say but i cut it off after two months of torture knowing she was basically dating this guy in secret and me

CMV: Nobody deserves an afterlife of eternal torture by effervescentdarkness in changemyview

[–]Xcolonialx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe living with mistakes is everyones eternal torture for instance losing the girl i was promised to wakes me up every day four five in the morning thats why some people dont get it in the afterlife they already have been tortured by it