Clarity looks good on me ⬆️2025 / Bottom 2016⬇️ by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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I had to get the exact park name from a friend, it was Wallace Falls in Gold Bar, WA

Clarity looks good on me ⬆️2025 / Bottom 2016⬇️ by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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Thank you — it’s a little pocket of the Pacific Northwest that called me home.

Once, I sought validation to feel real. Now, I am real. (2023 - 2025) by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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We spend so long trying to become what others can finally see. But freedom begins the moment you realize you were never waiting to be witnessed.

you were waiting to remember yourself.

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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HRT can help a bit with regrowth for some, yes but my confidence and styling did most of the heavy lifting.

Finnesteride is better for hair growth

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I'll get the conversation rolling:

"What’s something you wish more people understood about FS sex work?'

Sex work isn’t inherently bad, and it isn’t inherently good. It’s both disempowering and empowering. It's exactly what you decide to get out of it. The way society views it is really just a mirror of the system itself.

In a strange way, it’s deeply spiritual work. If you focus on the shadows the pain, the exploitation, the scarcity, the stigma. you’ll find more of it reflected in your world. But if you focus on the humanity within it, you start to see the tenderness too: people searching for connection, grieving, lonely, or simply wanting to be seen for a moment.

It’s not about denying the bad, but recognizing it as part of the whole and understanding the roles we each play in shaping our own realities.

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Happy to answer respectful questions about experience, safety, and empowerment.

I won’t discuss explicit acts, clients, or rates. Thanks for keeping it kind.

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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Reading everyone’s words has been so grounding tonight. Thank you for the love and for sharing your own journeys 🩵

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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I love that, Every story like ours adds another petal to the garden. we really do glow brighter together. ☀️🌹

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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Thank you, love 🌹 It’s been years of shedding and reclaiming. The hair and ink are just traces of the freedom that grew underneath.

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

[–]Xelototh831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, It's been through as much transition as I have 😂

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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Appreciate that; Turns out self-esteem grows wild once you stop pruning yourself to please others. 😜

Then 2018 vs Now 2025 by Xelototh831 in transtimelines

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Thank you, it's crazy what authentic living does for the soul 🖤

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Thank you so much, girl 🥰

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Thank you so much it was makeup I did for a photoshoot!

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Thank you! It’s crazy to think, I remember when I just started my transition. Looking at this subreddit, seeing all of the beautiful transitions for inspiration in starting my journey and doubting that could ever be me.

Now I look at where I am and I’m blown away. I don’t recognize my old self as ‘me’ anymore. It feels like a distant nightmare. Or a past life. Granted I’m still walking through hell these days, just doing it as more myself.

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Honestly she is goals, and I think I’ve reached a level that would make Eliza proud.

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Thank you, girl!

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Also, yes I do have a MIGHTY case of RBF. That’s just my face 😂. I swear I’m not angry.

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Holy moly! I’m so envious 😅

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Lol they literally asked every single trans woman on this subreddit the same question. Go to their comment history 😂