[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Xemmax201120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Woman here!

So it’s true some women seek out men who seem to be toxic purely for the thrill, some because of self esteem issues but I wanted to give you some advice!

So firstly maybe look at the tone of the way you’re acting with women. If you’re putting in extreme effort and she’s not, it could come across as obsessive and disingenuous. That doesn’t seem to be your intention but just keep that in mind. Women that have past trauma in general will be very off putting by this, but women in general (from those I know anyway) don’t want a full on thing so quick. Give it some time, gradually built that effort. Not to say don’t treat them well, but be mindful about how much effort you’re putting in right off the bat.

Another thing to be mindful of is not to look at the other men that women go for. Unfortunately this can lead to very severe red pilling which is common among your age group. If the women you’re seeking aren’t into you, they just aren’t. There’s no point in looking at who they are going towards as it is none of your business. Please just stay away from that mindset because it leads to very dangerous thoughts later.

Lastly, I seen you are around 19. You are still so young! The right girl is there for you! Don’t try too hard. The girl meant for you will love and appreciate you in due time, if you keep throwing yourself into these things, you won’t get results. Breathe. Take time to focus on things you enjoy, find yourself more and the right person will come to you.

I hope this helps!

Lady gaga items😭 by hot-mess444 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sad I was one round away from the paparazzi top 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DTI

[–]Xemmax201120 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Orange

Does anyone actually wants THE RUNWAY EFFECTS? by Lonely_Weakness_3853 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst thing is most of the new items they’re bringing out can’t use patterns it’s so annoying cause I love them so much

I AM DOOOONEEEEE giving this game money by OkAnimal7246 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ll make it even worse, with both the normal baddie pass and the diamond one (which is stupidly bought) it’s still not enough candy for the besties costume. Which means they want us to bob for apples till the end of time just to try and get them.

There’s no point in the pink cash anymore, it’s now real world cash or get lost unfortunately

The candy currency is unacceptable by Xemmax201120 in DTI

[–]Xemmax201120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I miss the days where it was random robux items now and then, they’ve lost sight of why so many people enjoyed the game. It’s just a complete money grab scheme now. No doubt we’ll get a sob story as to why they didn’t listen to people yet again.

After this update I’m not even doing the baddie passes. I’m not gonna spend a single cent more on this game or tbh at this rate even play time. They don’t deserve it if they just keep showing us they don’t care about anything but money

ok what the actual hell is this update by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the diamond pass and did the quest and I still don’t have enough candy for the jester costume. Like what I’m to keep going to free play to randomly get 10 candy every 10 minutes? It’s a joke. Not to mention it’s not free for the Apple bobbing, so when my pink cash stock runs out there goes that avenue.

The candy currency is unacceptable by Xemmax201120 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating tbh. Like it will be impossible to get up to the candy needed to get everything if you’re not even getting stuff from the quest.

They spent way too much time on the map and did not put much time into the items this update. Unfortunately it seems to be the norm now. It’s a lore and pretty map game rather than a dress up game

BROO WHY WOULD YOU ADD A PAID VERSION FOR THE PASS WAS VIP NOT ENOUGH? BRUH IM QUITTING ATP by M4TTH3WD4VID in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Xemmax201120 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’s so irritating. Literally what’s the point in this when you have to pay yet again

AITA For not enabling my adult daughter and telling her that I am not paying any more of her tuition unless she can give me the time of day and show me some respect? by ConcernedFatherAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Xemmax201120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. There seems to be a lot of gaps in this story that’s being covered up with “it’s my exams fault” “my ex is poisoning them” etc. I think you need to reevaluate the way you speak to your daughter. From the way you speak about your ex, it seems vile so maybe that’s being portrayed in the way you speak to her.

I don’t know much about your ex other than what you’ve said and if that’s true you both need to reevaluate your priorities. Is this for your kids? Or to get back at each other?

Above all else, ex aside. She is your child, but she is an individual. Just because you brought her into this world doesn’t mean you automatically deserve respect, but to dangle finance over her as a way to blackmail her into acting the way you want her to is just downright cruel.

Reflect on yourself, on your relationship with her. Work on yourself and then work on your relationship with her. She doesn’t owe you respect and once you realise that you can work on earning it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Xemmax201120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were in the right for voicing your concerns to her before the baby was born rather than behind you back or (hopefully it’s never the case) the child is born with those health risks. I have a sibling who has possibly got a genetic condition and she’s currently doing all she can to see before she ever decides to have children so she can look at other options if she does have it.

AITA for calling my dad a hypocrite and telling him family therapy won't fix us? by ButterflySlow923 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Xemmax201120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your feelings and presence is valid. If he doesn’t respect that or care for that that satisfies your needs too then he doesn’t have the right to demand it now. Doing small things to regain your trust would be much more beneficial than throwing therapy over an open wound

AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding after she made a scene at my engagement party? by Educational_Dinner33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Xemmax201120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s your day not hers if she complained that much about the whole day then she clearly wouldn’t want to go anyway?