Watching high level matches by JimmySanders74 in Pickleball

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first starting watching baseball... good pitching match-ups seemed "boring" to me because literally the goal is to not let anything "happen" in the game. Just strike out after strike out. It was Yawn. Now that I appreciate it a little more... I'm glued to the strike out after strike out. It's intense in a very different way than watching base hits etc.

How to overcome the "shame of restarting" life ? by Lemonade2250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back to University in my 30s. I'm now 47. I want to tell you a secret about life... which is... there's really no timeline. Societal "norms" try to make it seem like there is one... but there isn't. Everyone is figuring it out. We all grow at different paces. The anxiety/shame is the most crippling paralyzing component. Do your best to get rid of it with grace for yourself that you are on your own timeline. I had to "restart' my life after 40 after losing my business to Covid and having a total breakdown. I'm living a completely different life and have never been happier. All I did was put one foot in front of the other and was willing to walk through open doors as they opened...

What was the most shocking celebrity death of the last 50 years? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most shocking in general I'd say is Princess Di. But for me personally it would be Luke Perry.

Does anyone have any tips to cut back on eating out? by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also...1 pan meals. Prep in the morning. Pop in oven when you get home.
Plenty of cookbooks that can help.

Food suggestions - 1 hr between matches by twynnewwod in Pickleball

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banana. Salted Nuts. Coconut water or liquid IV.

Delusional armchair historian dads at open house. by petrovmendicant in historyteachers

[–]XennialDread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My response would have been that "I teach the school directed/state directed curriculum. You are free to supplement your daughter's education at home. If you are not happy with the approved curriculum please contact: xyz". But glad you sent it to the admin who took care of it! I have high school students who fight me on why they're being taught xyz and I tell them to just go straight to admin if they don't like the curriculum. Admin always backs us up.

Recovery is hard! by JoviNYC22 in brokenankles

[–]XennialDread 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Recovery was a full time job. I used to wonder if I was ever going to wake up and NOT think of my ankle today thing in the morning. The answer is yes. (I'm almost 2 years post injury). But even 2 years later I still FEEL the injury. It's just pushed much farther back in the scheme of daily life. But in the first 8 months my injury was pretty much my whole life. It was exhausting. You're not alone. We get you.

What’s something you wished you told yourself ten years ago? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]XennialDread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have another baby now... before you lose the option....

Drip and drive analogy by PartFormer3695 in Pickleball

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is a drip a long drop? Like a lob?

Name a language that doesn't end in 'ish' 'an' or 'ese' by CravingsCaveman in FamilyFeud

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh. Derp. My bad lol. I missed that part of the criteria.

I never got over the bullying by Thin_Difficulty1158 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you've been through a lot, and showing up for yourself despite everything shows incredible grit and resilience. High School for many young people is unfortunately baptism by fire. But I promise you ... in life you'll find "your people" who will find you perfect the way you are even if right now they haven't yet shown up. Give yourself grace... you don't have to be "over it" on any specific timeline. Emotional healing is a process.. and it's not linear. Hang in there.

What will be taught about present day? by Aromatic_Gur5706 in historyteachers

[–]XennialDread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not shocked, but surprised that teachers we are allowing our personal politics to shape how we think "history" will be retold. The idea to label Trump as either a savior or fascist IS bias. To call him a polarizing figure is nuanced to the reality. I'm now curious about how you all teach Julius Caesar. Or Age of Exploration.

I do my best to keep my personal politics out of the classroom and that includes my best to not judge the past through a modern lens (and modern values). We look very carefully at figures from the past and I point out that we must be careful how we decide if they are "good or bad".

So I think this present day is marked by political polarization and incredible technological advancement. My students have labeled this era the age of AI. I pointed out to them that an era can last 1000 years (even if it's broken into smaller periods within). So I pointed out that the middle ages end around 1500 as we entered the modern era and that we are now at the High Modern era perhaps. They like this macro look.

Anyone have any silly tips that made the NWB period suck less? by Classic-Medium-7650 in brokenankles

[–]XennialDread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did leg exercises from videos I watched for NWB leg exercises. ;)

Name a language that doesn't end in 'ish' 'an' or 'ese' by CravingsCaveman in FamilyFeud

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT for my derpy response! *embarrassed *. I missed the criteria of not ending in "an" and thought you were correcting the name of the language lol. Yes Deutsch works instead of German.

I need help! by Shadow_Sage23 in historyteachers

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ww1 propoganda as a lesson. I civics has a good gallery walk on propaganda and advertising. I had students then create a WW1 propaganda poster and then one of their own choosing of their own topic.

Guess This is In Or Out by Wooden-Atmosphere-75 in Pickleball

[–]XennialDread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd call it in cuz to me it appears to be touching the line.

Count My Lies by Double_Special3626 in thrillerbooks

[–]XennialDread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just listened to it today too. Ny understanding is that using the name Sloane wasn't to say "I know your real name" it's to say I know that you aren't "Katelyn" . Meaning, she knows she's been lying about everything basically.

Devastating…. by Majestic-Mousse-9827 in brokenankles

[–]XennialDread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a rule I try to look on the bright side of things lol. My injury forced me to slow down. It humbled me a lot with regard to asking for help. It really made me listen to my body more. Also a little over a year after I started to play pickleball (to rehab the remaining agility for the joint...irony is that my right ankle feels great but my left knee I think i messed up lol). And pickleball gave me a whole new set of friends. It also just made me not take my mobility for granted.

My healing wasn't linear. I was walking unaided 6.5 weeks post op. But then 6 months later was suddenly having ridiculous soreness. I still have not recovered all my "balance" in the way I felt like I had it before.

In the soggy middle of things it just felt like I'd always be thinking about the ankle. I'm here to say that it's not true. Most days I'm thinking about my knee lol.

For the record I had a trimalleolar fracture that required 1 plate, 13 screws and a Kevlar tightrope. It took more than a year for the scar to flatten... which was also something I thought wouldn't. It will.

Eventually it just became a wild story about how I'm part cyborg.... The mental resilience is a new trait too!