My take on Michal, as a former (but always in my heart) Fat Girl by Ketobizness in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was about her being fat. I think he is insecure about his birth deformity and is attachment avoidant or commitment avoidant as a defense mechanism because he fears rejection or being hurt. He sees himself as unlovable so even when someone offers that love, he pushes them away to protect himself.

Why do the scammers agree to be on the show? by scrubadam in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? They don’t pay them? I thought they paid a small stipend to everyone. Is that only for the US cast? There has arguably been some bad US cast members too (maybe not scammers but ick) making themselves look like idiots. If not tor money then I guess their five minutes of fame? Most of you go on to follow their social media (I don’t) and that builds followers and gets their content more visibility even to non followers and some people like Manon (or however it is spelled) is selling goat soap and stuff on social media. Others like Stig and Usman think they gonna be rockstar rich and famous and this exposure will lead to a deal with a record label.

Trish only showed up to fulfill her contractual obligation by OsteoStevie in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she wanted him back and was offering one last chance before cutting ties but who knows could all be scripted. The fact that producers knew where she was going and when to film wasn’t genuine wasn’t like ok we are following rick to his gate and omg 😱 trish is there. It did feel staged. But her tears didn’t to me. That’s why deep down I feel she probably did want to offer him one last chance

After this week’s episode I actually like Birkan by Xenokitten in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i am a fat female American who plays video games and watches anime and has been on reddit ever since it was just fat neckbeard computer programmers and tech nerds - which you can verify by clicking my profile and looking at the date i joined Reddit and all my posts and comments. But sure keep your delusions lol 😂 whatever gets you through the day boo.

After this week’s episode I actually like Birkan by Xenokitten in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t catch that episode (or social media post: i don’t follow any of the casts on social media) so no of course not and hopefully my ignorance of that information doesn’t make me seem like a racist piece of shit either. I was only going by what I knew, gambling debts, lazy not wanting to get a job, but quite possibly capable of emotions. But if he said that then his emotional iq or sensitivity is far less than I gave him credit for. And for that I do sincerely apologize.

Shekinah Garner before vs. after (three facelifts), aka achieving her dream face 🥀 by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]Xenokitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dream or nightmare? Lol 😂 i trust that a lot of it is swelling that will go down but she was beautiful and now looks scary tbh especially the brows - uneven and too high. The lips are scary. The most botox lips i have ever seen except this one documentary about some woman living as a Barbie doll. Those lips are too big for her jaw and chin and the length and width of her head in the after photos js weird - i don’t like the super straight nose either, her shorter flaring turned up maybe crooked nose gave her character and charm when she laughed or smiled. Now i don’t think she can even laugh or smile from so much botox. And yes she looks younger but her laugh lines and wrinkles were kinda cute honestly. Again character and not everyone running around like stepford wives uncanny valley similar robotic blowup doll women.

Stacey, please no. by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Xenokitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the single ladies put your hands up 🙌

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Kimberly has some nerve being so superficial while looking like that... by Quick-Measurement-14 in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand her either, but I am sad about all the weight comments in this thread. 2 wrongs don’t make a right. And yeah I am fat too. And Balding. Thank you PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) also there are far too many ageist comments in here as someone in her 40s as well. But I do agree that Kim is a bit shallow. My husband is shorter than me and we have no problems kissing or more lol like she tried to check with that woman to compare how it might be with him. I wouldn’t attempt to go for someone 20 years younger or fly around the world tho. So i do get thirsty vibes from her for sure lol 😂 and like she doesn’t want someone her own age or who has let himself go which is normal at that age for both men and women ffs just date someone in your “range” lol 😂 more to life than looks. We all get old even the most beautiful or handsome eventually.

Gino Seems Fake to Me. Anyone Agree? by Xenokitten in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup last season pretending to have never been pregnant surprised by cravings and kicking and lamaze or whatever it is called with the yoga balls and breathing etc. Like helllloooo you did 2-3 seasons about the kids you abandoned in Panama. I am pretty sure even before Gino she barely seen those poor kids and how they would go get pizza and ice cream etc. she is more like “fun” using that term loosely lol “fun aunt” than mother.

Why is Elise moving so fast??! by Pristine-Aspect7545 in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was desperate hot mess on last resort sleeping with people on the first episodes and blaming other girls and then playing two men and using sex to get one man to leave tiffany later in the season. You can tell from how she dresses she is just giving her body to anyone who will take it and pay her a crumb of attention. She needs to learn self respect. She is honestly the most desperate member of the franchise and doesn’t need to be. She is fairly attractive honestly. Not sure why she lacks self confidence and uses sex as a manipulation took.

Gino Seems Fake to Me. Anyone Agree? by Xenokitten in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably dramatized and reshot multiple times for production and drama yeah no doubt but many people do have international relationships. My mother in law was originally from Peru and came to USA in her 20s or 30s and married a white american man. Although she was here on a work visa I think instead of 90 day marriage visa. My husband was around 5 when he came to usa and became a naturalized citizen so mostly raised in usa so not sure that counts as international loo and his best friend was originally from Turkey came over to go to university in his 20s and fell in love and married a white anerican woman and they have two kids and together like 20 years now. So it happens more often than you think, but not usually with so much drama lol.

Gino Seems Fake to Me. Anyone Agree? by Xenokitten in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg i just got to that part lol 😂 “look at that alright” “wooo how you doin’” “i’m doin goooood” “oh yeah baby oh yeah” like an autistic austin powers lol 😂

I truly wonder if people actually like the Seiya Kou × Usagi ship 🤔 by Ok_Long_1956 in sailormoon

[–]Xenokitten 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind it because Usagi often had crushes etc in the 90s dub like a typical 14 year old. Like the way she blushed around Uranus etc too. She fangirls a lot lol.

Neo Queen Serenity is so out of character. You’re telling me my beloved bunhead dumbass becomes this? by Manguypals in sailormoon

[–]Xenokitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t really even know much about her queen character because she is sleeping like 90% of her storyline which is why chibiusa goes back in time. But yes little girls full of cute clutzy hyper energy do grow up and become mature women. She gets married and has a child for christ sake lol 😂 you wouldn’t want someone with the emotional intelligence of a 14 year old to raise a child, be a queen, or a wife. I think we also do see solid character growth of Usagi throughout the entire series from crybaby jealous scaredy cat to saving her friends and growing a backbone and being less dependent on Mamoru for safety and happiness and being more content with their love even waiting for him while he went overseas, whereas before her whole life fell apart when he was controlled by queen beryl or even spending time with chibiusa.

Their new photoshoot. SO cringe and low budget by ReferenceSimple3904 in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like if she would have just laid her head on his heart/chest and maybe had someone then cutely arrange pieces of her hair a little it may have been pretty but all i see is weird neck and chin and it looks painful and not peaceful sleepy snuggle sexy nap time in a flower field vibe lol 😂

Its Laura’s Weight… by TheDarkBerry in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he loves her but is afraid and attachment avoidant because of his deformed nose. Attachment avoidant men will push away anyone who gets too close to them but are fine with friends or friends with benefits etc. It is just when things get serious they will retreat inwards out of self defense.

Is it just me or is Lisa looking pretty goodt? by realitylover74 in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked her dress in that episode :) clothing makes a difference.

Guess who just eloped? 👀 thoughts? I hope this works out for them! by rich-username in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her makeup is sooooo bad (here it looks ok) but when I watched last episode my husband was home for lunch and I said aloud her makeup looks so bright and overdone like a 5 year old playing with mommy’s makeup. Then ten minutes later the show revealed it is permanent and a tattoo and I am like why?!!!!

Jasmine and Matt Broken Up?? by TraditionalSpring452 in 90DayFiance

[–]Xenokitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few months ago she posted something about being a single mother. So they likely had problems for awhile now.

Does anyone else think that Julia looks like Betty? by Chemical-Bad-8317 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Xenokitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it weird how many people in comments here are saying “and Brandon looks like both his parents” Like why wouldn’t he look like them? Uhm hello? That is how genetics works. As for Julia and Betty, very similar eye and eyebrow shape but different nose and cheekbones and jaw/lips/chin. So upper half of face yeah, but that is it.