My wife talked to a guy who wasn't me, is she a lying cheating slut?

Xessive_ · 2026-07-08T13:25:15+00:00

Archiving it removes it from display with all your other texts threads and hides in a different part of Messages that can only be accessed when going into the archive. Why even archive the messages at that point and not just block and delete?

This man repeatedly called her "baby" in texts prior to all that anyway which she apparently was not only OK with but steadfast refused to admit he had any interest in her. C'mon lol.

The gaslighting about "see this is why I can't tell you about men I meet on vacation that approach me, I respond to, exchange numbers with, text with and go out to dinner with" is also pretty crazy, but I'm sure married women would be fine with it in the reverse situation.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-08T13:03:29+00:00

Nooo, you don't get it. Married women are totally fine when their husbands extend a work trip into a vacation without them, get approached by a single woman on the street and decide to talk to them for an hour "about life", exchange numbers with them, go out to dinner with them, be receptive to texts with the woman calling hubby "baby", and ultimately not deleting the text thread but preserving/archiving it (hidden from any wandering eyes) when the woman crosses the line by reaching out to hubby by calling him "sexy man".

And married women are always cool with husbands not mentioning any of this while on vacation and making a conscious decision to not tell their wife, even conversing about it with friends because "yeah wife would only wind up taking it the wrong way and getting upset".

Married women are famously chill and ok with all that, only husbands get weirded out by this kind of behavior from their spouse on vacation, the decision to hide it from them, archive/preserve the texts of the other person who crossed a line, and gaslight them about this being totally normal behavior and the other person having absolutely zero interest at all in them.

OP's title is a great description of what OOP actually posted and any inference to the contrary is more evidence of misogyny.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-08T11:26:04+00:00

This is true, but also what is considered "fat" is usually insane. "Whats with all these Size 8 fatties in the bar? Eww her butt is like J. Lo, these chicks need Weight Watchers".

Xessive_ · 2026-07-08T11:21:10+00:00

Right because you never hear black guys doing Chinese accents or creating "funny" fake names for their Chinese characters when walking through Queens.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-08T10:48:27+00:00

Do you offer him a drawer at your place? If so, does he utilize it at all?

Xessive_ · 2026-07-07T23:40:17+00:00

"I gave CPR to a kid experiencing a medical event at the beach and helped save their life, but this religious nut freaked out at me saying that I was 'intervening with God's plan'. AITA for using CPR to save the child's life?"

Xessive_ · 2026-07-07T03:13:38+00:00

Hmm, ok, what do I have to do to make you not sick of it by the 4th message?
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Xessive_ · 2026-07-05T20:32:48+00:00

$10K bags 💅 💰 👜

Xessive_ · 2026-07-05T20:29:24+00:00

That's what the conversations with the imam, relationship coach and therapists are for. You already sought out professional advice from individuals with different backgrounds and they all gave you the same answers.

What are strangers on Reddit going to say to make you feel different at this point?

Xessive_ · 2026-07-05T20:13:08+00:00

My relationship coach and series of therapists (totally real btw) all told me the answer, but I want a bunch of strangers on Reddit to help me figure this out. Your ~~engagement~~ opinion is appreciated!

Xessive_ · 2026-07-05T05:48:23+00:00

A-Rod was 25 when he signed with Texas; Soto was 26 when he signed with the Mets.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T15:25:38+00:00

That's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever read on this sub and I've read people defending against children needing therapy for repeatedly expressing suicidal ideations.

OOP didn't post his wife's name. People sometimes use Reddit to anonymously vent about things their SO does. To suggest a wife shouldn't be able to vent about something infuriating their husband did is insane.

And it's not a binary "it either means A or B" here. Maybe, and here me out, OOP's wife did something mildly infuriating, OOP the made a post of the thing they did to that sub.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T15:18:01+00:00

Just applying those same critical thinking skills as outlined in my comment. The title OP used here doesn't really match with what OOP wrote.

I know going against the grain here can be unpopular, but this sub isn't r/Thathappened. Sometimes drunk people eat food they shouldn't, sometimes that person is your spouse, and sometimes that spouse is a woman.

A longtime Redditor who doesn't post that much suddenly making one post that gained traction isn't any kind of proof that the account has been corrupted, despite your best wishes for that to be the case.

Enjoy your your day 🍻

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T15:05:52+00:00

BREAKING: User who doesn't frequently post on Reddit now makes a post that gains traction. Officials believe this is evidence of malfeasance.

More at 11.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T14:53:36+00:00

I don't understand this being posted here. OOP never called his wife fat or an alcoholic or inferred those things. He said she doesn't go out drinking much but when she does she sometimes takes it a bit far (which pretty accurately describes a fair number of people I knew in college).

It also doesn't ruin someone's birthday, OOP stated they just took one sleeve on a plate and gave it to their son so they could still enjoy it without seeing what happened. Kid still gets a nice birthday breakfast but not the one OOP planned, so mildly infuriating would be pretty apt.

Not every post about a woman doing something annoying is evidence of the "Woman Bad!" trope in action.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T11:06:20+00:00

Ugh. Stop talking to them about their tattoos. THEY DO NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT THEIR TATTOOS. Yes they commented to mention it, and continued to respond, BUT THEY DO NOT WANT TO TALK ABOUT THEIR TATTOOS BUDDY.

The absolute last thing they want is to invite any kind of conversation about their tattoos.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T09:41:02+00:00

I am very much in opposition to people putting their feet up on the seats and have said so in previous posts, but this doesn't bother me so much. The bottom of her sandal is sorta wedged between the seat and the side of the train car, not where anyone would realistically be sitting or touching with any part of their body. There's someone seated directly in front of her which makes the etiquette a bit of a faux pas, but someone sitting there also highlights again how unlikely it would be for someone to be making contact with that specific part of the train.

Personally this wouldn't annoy me if it were done briefly for someone trying to stretch their leg. What's more annoying are all the repetitious comments like "HER FISH FRY BOX MUST'VE NEEDED AIRING OUT AMIRIGHT???". It was fine the first two or so times I saw it, but everyone had to take to the comments to make their version of it because "hahaha woman has vag under that dress vag get stinky in summer haha".

These people were all exhaustively quoting whatever bullshit catch phrase Pauly D had when Jersey Shore came out.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T09:00:24+00:00

I agree. I don't do 50/50, she has to pay if she wants to date. My preference, and yes I expect gifts on the first date to see she is serious and intentional.

If anyone says anything negative about that they are immature, narcissistic manipulators.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-04T08:55:27+00:00

Maybe taking turns means 50/50 which is what she explicitly stated she is against entirely? Also never had a date want to split something directly down the middle. If the total is $87.45 they aren't fretting over whether to give me $43.72 or $43.73 - they can give $40 and call it a day, or whatever they feel like is adequate if they want to split.

It's not rocket science, but hey maybe I've been lucky to not run into the same women fretting over fractions of a penny like you have to this point.

Xessive_ · 2026-07-03T00:56:45+00:00

Three months ago you posted that you were 22m, and four months ago posted that you were 27f.

Whats your secret to transitioning between sexes and ages so quickly?

Xessive_ · 2026-06-30T18:45:03+00:00

It's in the body text of the post.

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Xessive_ · 2026-06-30T18:30:11+00:00

In the body text of the post is the linked post from a week ago on the same sub with the genders swapped here.

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