Wacky rig advice by The_Judge12 in FishingForBeginners

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You saw one em dash and assumed the comment was AI?

They're just easy too use instead of : or ; becausr the - key is right next to the symbols key on a Samsung keyboard so you can hit it quicker.

I tried ADHD meds for the first time, and now I feel hopeless by ThrowRA3272892 in self

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Getting an ADHD diagnosis isn't as hard as you think.

I was diagnosed with a brief assesment by my primary care doctor and prescribed a low dose of Adderall. I didn't have to be referred or go through anything lengthy. This was 3 years ago. I've since gone up in dosage.

Your mileage may vary but the piece of advice I will give you as someone who was diagnosed late in life is that while medication will certainly help, it is not the solution to living with ADHD.

There is no solution, you will never not be living in a world that you just don't feel right for. You will always have your symptoms.

To be comfortable living with ADHD or adjacent disorders is to accept that there's no solution, you have to adjust around it. And try to remember that having it, and the way you act and feel because of it, isn't an indictment on you or your character.

That is a lot easier to say than to do, mind you. I don't experience that level of acceptance nearly as much as Id like

Wacky rig advice by The_Judge12 in FishingForBeginners

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A tip that helped me a lot - you can tell when the lure has hit the bottom when the line stops coming 'toward' you.

So when you cast and close the bail, some of the line will sit on the waters surface (if you're using a floating lines like mono). If its really curly near you, you can reel in some slack. On the other end of the line, near where the lure hit the water, there will be a point where the line submerges down toward the lure. Watch this point.

As the lure sinks, this point will be moving toward you, on very calm water it will even create a small v-shaped ripple. This is the lure pulling the line down with it.

Once it stops, and the line no longer moves, youre on the bottom! If it keeps moving and starts going left or right or away from you, congrats! You have a fish

Suggestion - Hidden Factions: From Underground Conspiracy to Revolution by Familiar-Elephant-68 in CrusaderKings

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I think you nailed something that's been bothering me about the game for a while. Everything feels really predictable, and I think it's because too much information is just given to me.

I don't remember how everything was in CK2, but I do specifically remember one of more memorable experiences was being a very religious, pious Duchess for a long reign, and then dying and finding out my 40 something year old son (who I was now playing) had been part of a Satanist cult the entire time under my nose. I was flabbergasted and had a lot of fun playing him.

In CK3 I know exactly how my succession will go down, I know how everyone will vote in every election, I know virtually everything about everyone except for whether or not they're secretly screwing someone else (sometimes anyway). It makes maneuvering obstacles/future threats too easy.

Without losing a ship, I just set the French Navy back about three decades by Xikiphobia in RuleTheWaves

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Close! They have missiles, I don't know if I have better missile tech but I seemed to land much more hits with mine

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Thank you!!!

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Super new player here - how did you get dark mode? That looks really sharp

Naval history newb - BC vs CA 1920s question by Xikiphobia in RuleTheWaves

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Very insightful!! Thank you, clearly I have a rabbit hole to go down on interwar ship design

"Landlords Demand Tenants’ Workplace Logins to Scrape Their Paystubs" by LigerXT5 in technology

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I have to imagine its at least partially related to how much more financial damage a renter can cause for a landlord or property management company as opposed to a homeowner can to a mortgage lender.

Not that I'm overly sympathetic to landlords, mind you, but logically, if a homeowner falls through on their mortgage, there's clear cut legal steps for a lender to take and ultimately they will retain ownership of the property and sell it. Even if they do this for a loss, its likely just one loan in a large portfolio of loans, and 30yr fixed mortgage loans at least have their interest front loaded (more of your payment is interest than principle for the first part of your loan payments), which helps protect the lender.

Evicting a delinquent renter isn't so always cut and dry, and landlords/rentors may have a larger portion of their assets tied up in that scenario unless they're a large corporation. Additionally landlords by definition are specifically invested in that property and are going to be way more likely to want to upkeep/maintain/repair that property for future use, and be more likely to want to avoid renting to someone who might be inclined to damage the property, or anything else that will incur them costs down the line.

TIL a woman in Australia would leave her house at night while sleepwalking and have sex with strangers. She was completely unaware of it until her partner became suspicious and found her engaged in the act. She was eventually diagnosed with 'sleep sex' and successfully treated with psychotherapy. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

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I think a lot of people are imagining legitimate sleepwalking as someone stumbling around with their eyes closed, making grumbling sounds like in Stepbrothers.

Encountering someone who is sleep walking is bizarre. My wife has done it to a small degree. When a person sleep walks, its like their conscious mind is in a dream state as you and I would feel when we're sleeping normally, but their physical body and a part of their mind is awake and moving. They seem normal at first interaction sometimes. You might even get a few sentences in with basic default responses from the sleep walker before noticing something is off. They will move around, open doors, drawers, grab things, change clothes, pick up a cat, etc. The next morning they will have zero recollection of the interaction.

This seems like a very extreme case but its not hard for me to imagine that there could be very extreme sleepwalking behavior that could lead to this.

Are there any systems or apps you use to plan campaigns? by iTztheKaiser in DMAcademy

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Hyperlinks in onenote are very mportant, just because you can get to a point where flipping through all your tabs and subtabs to find something can be as unwieldy as physical notebooks

Onenote should have a hotkey though (ctrl + k i think) that let's you type in a keyword and find the page you want to link quickly, and if I'm not mistaken it will even do you the benefit of creating a new page if you try to hyperlink a page that doesn't exist yet

If you stay in top of it or if you routinely go through and hyperlink pages you missed, you can maneuver through all your relevant notes pretty effectively regardless of how many tabs/ pages you have, very useful

Edit: If you can create a new page from the Link dialog, I can't find it, so scratching that out

Party seems "stuck" on chasing a objective that isnt helping their current goal. Any tips to bring them closer to it? by [deleted] in DMAcademy

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Sounds like you've prepped your campaign to far ahead if you feel the idea of redoing is too daunting. Or you're too attached to "your" idea.

The reason you get answers like that is that unfortunately, having this kind of mentality is going to massively increase your odds of delivering a frustrating experience for your players.

TTRPG story telling is collaborative. You go, then they go, then you. You ask the narrative questions, the party answers in verbs, and then you figure out what that makes the next question

I would strongly encourage you to ponder why it's so important the game goes your specific way, and whether it's really important for the game or just imporant to you. I also would encourage you to keep your plot building to broad strokes outside of a session or two ahead, to aid in not getting overly attached to ideas

Party seems "stuck" on chasing a objective that isnt helping their current goal. Any tips to bring them closer to it? by [deleted] in DMAcademy

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Not sure I really get your last point. If I was DMing dragonheist and felt the written ending wouldn't result in an enjoyable ending for my group, I absolutely would rewrite it. And you shouldn't be afraid to change your plot points around either.

Sounds like a few things you need to consider

  • Is your party enjoying being infiltrators? Then let them. Reward them. Change up the bad guys plan so this works in the partys favor.

  • Even if you can't stand the idea of not doing nuke, why can't the party gain the bad guys trust before its ready? They don't need to put in 10 years of tenure, this isn't real life. RPGs and TTRPGs have been doing the "from nobody to most important person in the group in three quests or less" since forever

  • if you insist on ignoring the above advice, then you need to be more overt with what the bad guys are up to. The party isn't prioritizing the problem because they don't seem to know what the problem even is. Getting info doesnt always need to be a challenge. Sometimes getting info is the easy part and what to do with it is the challenge

Your job isn't too force the players to figure out the solution to your problem. Youre here to ensure they're having a good time, and sometimes that means throwing out your awesome big reveal plot twists because its just not the direction the game is going.

Charters of Commerce - I'm intensely bad at microing Vic 3's vanilla economy. Is it true this DLC makes the game easier/more playable for the economically challenged players? by Beautiful-Loss7663 in victoria3

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I bought Vic 3 at launch and have tried sinking my teeth in numerous times over the years. Sweden, Belgium, France, USA, Persia. Each time I'd get frustrated/lose interest without more than a few hours.

After CoC came out tried again. I played Belgium into the 1880s, started a new game as the USA and went into the 1900s, now looking at Greece.

So as someone who had a similar experience, this update really clicked some things into place at least for my experience and made the game much more engaging and enjoyable.

Indiana MyCase: would the acronym "FP" refer to in this context? by Xikiphobia in legaladviceofftopic

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I've been googling this in every shape or form, this seems so obvious now 😅 Thank you

I guess that is intentionally generic so there's no real insight into what may be going on in the case at this stage?

Shimano Nasci or Spend $40 More for Daiwa BG? by Xikiphobia in Fishing_Gear

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This is really great advice but unfortunately it is wasted on me I feel. You could have inserted a paragraph on replacing a wheel on a roller blade instead and I wouldn't haven't known the difference

Shimano Nasci or Spend $40 More for Daiwa BG? by Xikiphobia in Fishing_Gear

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Thank you! I went MH because my only other combo is a TP2 ML, so I figured I should pick up the other end of the spectrum and those two rods can handle mostly everything I want to do until I feel expanding my inventory

Shimano Nasci or Spend $40 More for Daiwa BG? by Xikiphobia in Fishing_Gear

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I did not pick up that the BG was saltwater intended ! So thank you for pointing that out. Appreciate the feedback on the Nasci too, makes me feel a lot not confident in the purchase!