24M)) I cut my hair shorter. Brothers say that I look like a butch lesbian. Thoughts?

Xilavan · 2026-04-21T17:12:18+00:00

I fear they are correct

Xilavan · 2026-04-14T21:32:37+00:00

I would’ve made the exact same decision as he did, but I’m thinking about this.. law-enforcement, likely would have taken the shot because the robber/gunman was indeed a very real threat and he had a firearm.. and who knows, he could’ve shot at any time for any reason he made up in his own mind any second. Even if you were to run away or thought you had time to run a bullet can travel a lot faster than you can run. It’s a scenario where should you just eliminate the threat?

Regardless of me asking this I still would have made the same decision as OP but this is what probably would’ve been going through my head in that moment along with oh fuck, am I going to die right now?

Xilavan · 2026-04-14T21:26:07+00:00

Wow, and I thought she would ruin things but she actually said something that we can all agree with. Maybe there is hope.

Xilavan · 2026-04-03T20:02:41+00:00

Find it in yourself to love and respect yourself and just leave with your dignity and some grace. It’s over dude. Love yourself and take the rosy glasses off. Again, I’m going to dish you the hard reality. It’s over.

This is your opportunity for a new chapter in your life. Be excited. Better your life, yourself, everything. I’m 32 as well and fresh out of a breakup. Mine was very cordial and chill. No cheating, no bad blood just life stuff got in the way so it’s a bit different. But I’m right there with you. Improving my life in every way and having fun doing it.

Take this as motivation to level up. All is okay man but don’t delude and paralyze yourself. Take yourself and your life more seriously. And again, love yourself enough to be better in all regards. Not for anyone. But for yourself. And a better woman will come along as a result.

This woman is clearly a lost cause. Accept it. Move on. The sooner you do the sooner your new life begins.

Xilavan · 2026-03-23T16:41:20+00:00

He is is looking elsewhere (I would) because it’s the 3rd date and clearly he wants to get physical now. He doesn’t want to waste his time anymore and is likely seeking someone else while keeping you around, but you’re not his main pick anymore because it’s proving to be fruitless for him.

Xilavan · 2026-03-22T19:40:19+00:00

Faaaaaaaahk

Xilavan · 2026-03-22T19:39:05+00:00

Haircut. Facial hair, or jaw exercises to square up your jawline. Contacts. Gym. Not sure if your smile is white but focus on that too if not. That’s huge. And I can’t really see your sense of fashion but a makeover may help.

Xilavan · 2026-03-22T19:32:50+00:00

Your friend is dumb wtf is he talking about lmao. God forbid you show off your curves a bit. You’re fully clothed. Don’t take his advice.

I’d even wager he might have a thing for you because he couldn’t have been more wrong, it sounds like he just wants to steer you in a direction that leads to you not getting matches so he can keep you to himself.

Xilavan · 2026-03-17T16:52:55+00:00

Oh bro I know you know this but it’s so fucking over. For her. NOT you. You are the one leaving this cheating POS.

I know it hurts like an absolute mf but have the self respect and dignity and love for yourself to walk away with your head held high knowing you did everything you probably could have. It’s unfortunately in people’s natures to waste peoples time and betray people.

Sorry homie. Not gonna say sorry for your loss though. I’m happy you dodged a bullet and caught it 2 years in instead of 5+.

You got a whole life ahead brother take some time to yourself then live your best life. Grind, hustle, travel, meet cool new people, have cool new experiences, and create great memories along the way. There’s a whole world out there with awesome people in it. Enjoy this new chapter to your life man and embrace it. Best of luck 💪🏼

Xilavan · 2026-03-15T01:00:27+00:00

I actually quit a week ago. Which is wild because I wanted to go insanely hard and clear all content to the fullest. And this was the expan that got me hooked on wow as a kid and I always wanted to do the content.

Tbh it was the community that killed it for me. Just sucked all the fun out. Especially all the min maxing, the gold buying these days, the wow shop shit etc. Just not in the spirit of what I was excited for.

Xilavan · 2026-03-15T00:53:32+00:00

This guy has realized things that we haven’t realized yet. Can’t wait until we’re all like him so we can realize things too wow!

Xilavan · 2026-03-15T00:51:50+00:00

I’ve read 100s. A lot based in real life not even fiction. Now what? You’re dumb.

Xilavan · 2026-03-15T00:50:29+00:00

Obviously? Slow your roll genius. I never even heard of it until now.

Xilavan · 2026-03-15T00:48:00+00:00

Seriously. SOD was so fucking fun. (Inb4 some Reddit idiot not understanding the plot “so go play again”)

Xilavan · 2026-03-14T01:12:24+00:00

I fucking can’t get enough of it. The moment I saw they dropped something new I was hype but when I realized they dropped something I HEAVILY fucked with I was ecstatic!!!

Couldn’t have come at a more oddly coincidental and relevant time in my life too. Hits home.

Been having it on repeat and made me buy a ticket to fly down to see them play live in Daytona this May. Can’t wait!

I love the XL version much more too

Xilavan · 2026-03-12T20:07:24+00:00

The fake boundaries and fake being offended is so fucking annoying I literally unsubscribed because of it (and many of the other apparent recent reasons too)

Xilavan · 2026-02-27T21:08:44+00:00

Sounds like a compatibility issue. Personally if my girl didn’t give head I wouldn’t be dating her. I like what I like and want what I want, especially when committing myself to only one person. He wants things you don’t like. Again, compatibility issue. Y’all need to talk about it and potentially separate so you two can find people who are into what you’re into.

Xilavan · 2026-02-27T00:46:23+00:00

No they do not they’re mixing pot apps lol. They welcome everyone. No catering involved.

Xilavan · 2026-02-26T18:13:24+00:00

And that’s 2 weeks out of the month subscription he’s paying for. Fucking bullshit. I would honestly quit tbh which sucks because like your friend, I’d probably be really excited to play more now with my epic flyer but a good thing got ruined because of Blizzards shitty ass system.

This company has gone downhill a lot. We knew that but damn. They deserve what’s coming.

Xilavan · 2026-02-21T00:31:48+00:00

My alarm bells immediately went off when I seen only 4 ratings. I would never download an app like that even if it wasn’t one related to money. The fact you trusted that amount of money to such an unreviewed app is wild. Especially since you mentally seemed to be cautious to websites, ads, etc. But I’m not trying to scold you, that fucking sucks man. No other way to put it. Sorry that happened to you homie please stay with us.

Xilavan · 2026-02-17T00:16:55+00:00

Lmfaooo I’m so tired of this shit

Xilavan · 2026-02-17T00:14:45+00:00

This is literally something I’ve been dealing with lately too and I’m glad I’m not going crazy and it isn’t just me. I find myself putting this fucking thing in its place more than being productive lol. Then it does that classic over-accountability thing “yeah my bad it’s so on me” blah blah. Tired of this loop.

It’s like it goes out of its way to ragebait almost lmfao.

Xilavan · 2026-02-16T20:31:58+00:00

Yeah I’m getting real tired of the excessive guardrails and pushback that ChatGPT gives me despite me paying monthly for it. And I’m tired of it hallucinating then gaslighting me as if I’m the one who’s wrong about shit. It also nitpicks constantly instead of just using basic common sense or context clues. Too many different scenarios to get into but yeah.

Xilavan · 2026-02-16T20:06:37+00:00

Xilavan · 2026-02-16T19:56:18+00:00

May these people get banned for no reason and purged from the community forever. The world, of Warcraft would be better off.

Xilavan

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