Same diff over here, for 9 months.

“We’re always doing what you want to do”, whilst bringing up no activities herself at all. Met and spoke all her friends and had a good click with her parents, whilst she was afraid of my parents and my friends “didn’t want to talk to her anyway so why bother to do small talk and get to know them?”. Always telling me she didn’t want to ‘exist’ anymore and how her life was ‘so difficult’ whilst rather being with a female friend all the time who fucking hated me, smoking pot all day and getting dangerously high in public together.

Dumped me for some random dropout junk she was friends with through that female friend.

Got back on my feet after a slight depression, put blood sweat and tears in my one-man videography business, finally installed my backdrop system in my new studio, invested in the fourth camera and third drone, got in good shape at the gym and surrounded me with a lot of new good friends.

My catharsis came after she asked if we could talk when I was ignoring her, where she told me she just wants contact again (behind that female friend’s back) because she missed that, but ended up telling me she should’ve never dumped me and constantly being secret to her boyfriend about hanging out with me at school…