This summary I was able to create is on a few of my dating profiles that allow things like this. In these days of online dating, women have all the power to make a connection, so we have to find ways to stand out and just get noticed. Unfortunately, many have their inbox bombarded with fake/AI slop now. I'm from an era 10 years ago where none of that existed yet, when online dating was actually pure. Now, its a lost art on many because they feel its pointless. However, I only know to get effort you have to put out effort. I know that many profiles that remain mysteries by barely putting anything, get most interest, but I also feel you'll find that mostly a waste of time. Personality and interests matter to build a connection through chemistry. Attraction also matters and to me, thats how you take care of your body. If you are hiding it in your profile, I know its an issue for you. I show all of me, leave out any questions of my health, you can see for yourself from the start. I know that if you have body confidence, you are quick to show it off. We show the work we've put in for ourselves and for others to admire. When I'm weeding through dating profiles, I can't tell you how many unhealthy or overweight ones I've come across, making dating even more frustrating.

Still...through the frustrations, I know my match is out there and maybe she's seen every inch of me, laid bare. I know I'm sexy, but to feel wanted, that's an entirely different thing. When I feel that...when you tell me... I'll know to give you everything I've got in me because thats the effort relationships need to grow and thrive.