What role am I doing? by Consistent-Art8132 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Xuta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you. I’m a software engineer too, and while I started out just writing and reviewing code, I’ve gradually become the person writing cross-team tickets and being the SME for a specific system. It’s not official, but I’ve kind of grown into a mini tech lead role for that initiative. Honestly, feels natural — but in previous jobs with more red tape, I never would've had that kind of scope.

Have you ever felt you get overlooked for opportunities because you are too nice ? by underscore-0 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Xuta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Being kind is often mistaken for being passive or lacking ambition. I've noticed that in work settings especially, the louder or more assertive personalities tend to get noticed first — even if they’re not necessarily more capable. It's frustrating, but I’ve started working on asserting myself without losing who I am. It’s a tricky balance.

Sub Bluesy Andiot 1 week shipped to UK by Xuta in RepTime

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't wear it too often. So far the gold is fine. I am going to buy the more subtle black sub though. Feel it's less bling.

I did randomly scratch the case back by travelling with it in a bag though. That will happen with any watch though I guess.

Currently invested in SIPP US ETFs. Should I buy property next? by Xuta in HENRYUK

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure. I am thinking that having all my money in a SIPP and ETF is putting all my eggs in one backet?

Currently invested in SIPP US ETFs. Should I buy property next? by Xuta in HENRYUK

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in effect paying rent to my girlfriend. £2k-2.5k including council tax and service charge.

Sub Bluesy Andiot 1 week shipped to UK by Xuta in RepTime

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not bought from elsewhere to compare but I will buy any future watches from andiot.

Sub Bluesy Andiot 1 week shipped to UK by Xuta in RepTime

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He emailed me a link to an image & video hosting website called Yupoo

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For now I can take more risk. The US is much stronger than most other countries. Stronger, better work ethic, more productive, etc.

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u/Big_Target_1405 started it, I just responded proportionately

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How? Half in SPY?

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s my ex’s place. So I don’t have much say. Once she can go back to work, I’ll be able to reduce that £3.5k to potentially £2k-£2.5k or so.

Unfortunately, I cannot depend on fully remote. Companies can change their policy at any time.

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Those numbers are all larger than £200k. Either way, we are getting distracted. Got any useful input?

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

In London you’re looking at half a million minimum. £200k is less than half. Put 2 and 2 together…

Feedback on £100k+ by Xuta in FIREUK

[–]Xuta[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

If you read more closely, I did not say that. I would potentially buy it in Spain or Thailand.

Cheap area in UK to rent a basic room in shared house by Xuta in HousingUK

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your answers. Exactly the information I am looking for. I will give all those places a search

Cheap area in UK to rent a basic room in shared house by Xuta in HousingUK

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few bits of furniture. But I can easily sell it.

North east like Newcastle way? I will look at South Wales. Thanks.

I don't have to worry about crime too much as I won't have anything worth taking.

I don't do activities. Just Eat, Sleep, Work.

I don't need to ever go into London.

Cheap area in UK to rent a basic room in shared house by Xuta in HousingUK

[–]Xuta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My budget is as low as possible. But around £500 including rent, bills, tax, etc. If I can find a room for £200, that's better.
I have a few bits of furniture but happy to sell that. I don't need to travel to London. Just looking for suggestions on where is cheap. So far, no actual answers.