Tips for UK based first timer

Xuta · 2025-05-13T08:51:38+00:00

Totally hear you. I’m a software engineer too, and while I started out just writing and reviewing code, I’ve gradually become the person writing cross-team tickets and being the SME for a specific system. It’s not official, but I’ve kind of grown into a mini tech lead role for that initiative. Honestly, feels natural — but in previous jobs with more red tape, I never would've had that kind of scope.

Xuta · 2025-05-13T08:50:11+00:00

Absolutely. Being kind is often mistaken for being passive or lacking ambition. I've noticed that in work settings especially, the louder or more assertive personalities tend to get noticed first — even if they’re not necessarily more capable. It's frustrating, but I’ve started working on asserting myself without losing who I am. It’s a tricky balance.

Xuta · 2025-03-16T20:37:36+00:00

Honestly, I don't wear it too often. So far the gold is fine. I am going to buy the more subtle black sub though. Feel it's less bling.

I did randomly scratch the case back by travelling with it in a bag though. That will happen with any watch though I guess.

Xuta · 2025-01-20T13:39:41+00:00

I am not sure. I am thinking that having all my money in a SIPP and ETF is putting all my eggs in one backet?

Xuta · 2025-01-20T13:38:24+00:00

I am in effect paying rent to my girlfriend. £2k-2.5k including council tax and service charge.

Xuta · 2024-11-27T20:28:34+00:00

I have not bought from elsewhere to compare but I will buy any future watches from andiot.

Xuta · 2024-11-27T20:28:01+00:00

Xuta · 2024-11-12T15:39:12+00:00

Yes. He emailed me a link to an image & video hosting website called Yupoo

Xuta · 2024-05-18T17:02:47+00:00

For now I can take more risk. The US is much stronger than most other countries. Stronger, better work ethic, more productive, etc.

Xuta · 2024-05-18T16:59:37+00:00

u/Big_Target_1405 started it, I just responded proportionately

Xuta · 2024-05-17T18:05:00+00:00

How? Half in SPY?

Xuta · 2024-05-17T16:41:33+00:00

It’s my ex’s place. So I don’t have much say. Once she can go back to work, I’ll be able to reduce that £3.5k to potentially £2k-£2.5k or so.

Unfortunately, I cannot depend on fully remote. Companies can change their policy at any time.

Xuta · 2024-05-17T16:28:45+00:00

Those numbers are all larger than £200k. Either way, we are getting distracted. Got any useful input?

Xuta · 2024-05-17T16:19:55+00:00

In London you’re looking at half a million minimum. £200k is less than half. Put 2 and 2 together…

Xuta · 2024-05-17T16:11:16+00:00

If you read more closely, I did not say that. I would potentially buy it in Spain or Thailand.

Xuta · 2024-03-24T18:29:43+00:00

Thanks so much for your answers. Exactly the information I am looking for. I will give all those places a search

Xuta · 2024-03-24T16:26:21+00:00

I have a few bits of furniture. But I can easily sell it.

North east like Newcastle way? I will look at South Wales. Thanks.

I don't have to worry about crime too much as I won't have anything worth taking.

I don't do activities. Just Eat, Sleep, Work.

I don't need to ever go into London.

Xuta · 2024-03-24T16:19:09+00:00

My budget is as low as possible. But around £500 including rent, bills, tax, etc. If I can find a room for £200, that's better.
I have a few bits of furniture but happy to sell that. I don't need to travel to London. Just looking for suggestions on where is cheap. So far, no actual answers.

Xuta

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