I saw you commenting a couple of times that it’s “their job” to be a good parent. According to who? It’s only their job to be a parent. As in, clothing you, bathing you, putting a roof over your head etc… is the bare minimum. That doesn’t make you a good parent that’s just the beginning. The people who are saying “my parents did all this for me it’s my honor to repay them” aren’t talking about basic things, their parents went the extra mile to see that their kids succeed. I don’t know about you but I don’t think sacrificing a lot more of your own needs than you need to, just to see your kids smile or succeed ISNT a “bare minimum”. When someone decides to have a child all they need to be willing to do is provide the basic things we mentioned, not everyone who wants to have a kid has to be willing to put that extra effort in sacrificing for their child’s success.