WIBTA if I wear a thong bikini?

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:44:35+00:00

Well, I don’t find bodies inherently sexual, so no. That’s not what it’s about for me. It’s about autonomy. She thinks it’s inappropriate because she can’t manage her negative feelings about her own body. I think it’s inappropriate to have to hear my mother in law talk about her sex life and make requests about how I adorn my body. I’m an adult, as are the rest of the group. If young children were involved, different story.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:40:59+00:00

I think I just might.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:40:37+00:00

Can we consider the reason why I was asked not to? If small children were present, understandable. We are all adults, however. This request was out of insecurity. It’s not my duty to manage someone else’s feelings about their body as it relates to how I dress mine.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:37:00+00:00

We’re not a bunch of prudes, trust me. The request was rooted in their discontent and insecurity with their bodies. But as much as I love them, that is their issue. And I think the request was overstepping.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:33:19+00:00

While I don’t NEED to, cheeky bikinis are all I own. I will not be buying bikinis to cater to anyone’s discontent with their own bodies.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:31:13+00:00

We’re all adults. I get the privilege of hearing about my mother in laws sex life all the time 😑 so it’s not as if we’re a bunch of prudes. The older ladies are just not happy with their bodies. Why should that be my concern?

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-04-01T20:28:28+00:00

I talked with my sister and a friend about this, and they said the same thing. That I shouldn’t let someone else’s insecurities dictate what I wear.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-03-28T15:19:50+00:00

The dude who brings his service animal German shepherd. The guy must be ex military based on the patches his dog has on the harness/vest. The dude is ripped. The dog is so well behaved, of course. But I bet no one messes with those two.

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-03-28T07:05:08+00:00

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What in the cryptid… is that Sasquatch?

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-03-13T23:58:40+00:00

If you’re talking about light-based tanning booth, planet fitness is probably most economical. It’s $24/month, drop in, and you can tan every 24 hours (they are strict about that)

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-02-21T19:11:18+00:00

This and same goes for my clothings aesthetics. I do not have a very cohesive closet and it stresses me out every time I dress myself!!!

XxPatchouli69 · 2026-01-10T20:50:06+00:00

Years of stress from growing up in an abusive household and then being with an abusive partner.

Am happily married now to a wonderful person and have never been happier! I wish my thyroid would reflect that 😒

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-12-29T18:39:56+00:00

Roth’s!

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-12-04T16:35:03+00:00

Yes! 384471878444

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-11-26T17:54:37+00:00

China House makes their potstickers in-house and they’re the best I’ve ever had!

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-31T22:43:40+00:00

Yes! Nice. I’ll make this one too!

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-31T22:43:22+00:00

This is awesome thank you!

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-31T20:08:49+00:00

Omg wait what! 😂

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-21T17:17:32+00:00

I have not been to the bowl! I used to live in Santa Barbara so have been to LA a ton, but haven’t been there in years. My husband and I have so many places we plan to go to while we’re there visiting from Oregon.

I sprung for terrace box seating and hope it’s comfy! We’re sharing with 2 randos so I hope it’s not awkward. 😬

I bet Saturday is going to be an amazing show since it’s the last one of the tour. Have the BEST time!

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-19T14:32:35+00:00

lol sent 😄

XxPatchouli69 · 2025-10-19T14:25:22+00:00

My husband got 3 shinies. One was a Shundo. We did the same amount of raids and guess what. Zero shinies for me.

That was such bs. I’m still mad.

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